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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-09-19, 01:56
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I'm in a bit of a relationship pickle.
So I started talking to this chick over the internet a few months ago, and judging by her pictures, she was really hot, and nice as well.
She was a friend of my friends, so we arranged to meet up, all 3 of us together so it wouldn't be as awkward. Things went from there. She was as hot as I had remembered her from her pictures, and she was as nice in real life as I had remember as well.
Few weeks went by and I asked her out. We saw each other a lot, went out a lot. But it seemed like every time I saw her, she got less attractive, and more annoying. I don't know why, but she actually looked physically unattractive more and more every time I saw her. Instead of getting more comfortable around each other, it actually got worse from when we first met. She would nervously giggle about stupid things and tell me about her "mole" on her arm... just shit like that.
Maybe she manipulated her pictures to make herself look better, and it took me months for my brain to function and realize what I'm seeing isn't what I saw in the pictures, or, because her personality got queerer every time I saw her, she became less attractive. What should I do? How should I break it off? What reasons do I give her? I feel bad because her last boyfriend dumped her for really shitty reasons and they never spoke again.
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#2
 2007-09-19, 02:02
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woopsueypigs77 
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Re: I'm in a bit of a relationship pickle.
Myspace has the tendency to do this.
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#3
 2007-09-19, 02:19
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Re: I'm in a bit of a relationship pickle.
You probably just found her less attractive the more she pissed you off. I've been in a simaller situation to this actualy. Baisically, now is the perfect time to pull out the "It's not you, it's me" or "Maybe we should just be friends" cards. They're low, but sometimes you just stop likeing people, and it's never a good idea to lie and stay in a relationship you're unhappy with. So best of luck breaking it to her gently! Or if that doesn't work, punch her in the face, steal her car and run away to Mexico.
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#4
 2007-09-19, 02:25
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Re: I'm in a bit of a relationship pickle.
just man up and tell her you don't think the relationship is going to work.
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#5
 2007-09-19, 02:29
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Re: I'm in a bit of a relationship pickle.
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Originally Posted by xxombie
You probably just found her less attractive the more she pissed you off. I've been in a simaller situation to this actualy. Baisically, now is the perfect time to pull out the "It's not you, it's me" or "Maybe we should just be friends" cards. They're low, but sometimes you just stop likeing people, and it's never a good idea to lie and stay in a relationship you're unhappy with. So best of luck breaking it to her gently! Or if that doesn't work, punch her in the face, steal her car and run away to Mexico.
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Good idea.
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#6
 2007-09-19, 08:06
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D!cks are for my friends
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Re: I'm in a bit of a relationship pickle.
Maybe she got real did up when you first met her because she wanted to make the best impression, then the days thereafter she did less and less because she thought she was in the clear. Happened to me once.
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#7
 2007-09-19, 09:27
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Re: I'm in a bit of a relationship pickle.
Short of staying drunk...There isn't much to be done.
I'd say use the old "I don't think I'm ready for a relationship yet to be honest. It's not you, it's just I thought I was but I'm really not. Can we slow down?"
And by slow down it means you gradually stop talking to her.
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#8
 2007-09-19, 12:15
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Re: I'm in a bit of a relationship pickle.
Perhaps you should tell her you cant date her. Tell her you feel really uncomfortable being with her because she's so beautifull and you cant compete with all the guys lining up to be with her. Bullshit,but it will make her feel better if you care about her feelings when dumping someone.
Edit: Oh yes, have you learnt your lesson about Myspace now?
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#9
 2007-09-19, 16:01
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Re: I'm in a bit of a relationship pickle.
Personally, these type of girls are known as chauffeur, have them drive you to the party. You get drunk off ur ass then by the time they are ready to take you home they don't look half bad. Only use this girl when times are desperate.
Also don't totally cut ties with this girl, she may have hot friends as well.
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#10
 2007-09-19, 17:13
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Re: I'm in a bit of a relationship pickle.
Perhaps you should tell her you cant date her. Tell her you feel really uncomfortable being with her because she's so beautifull and you cant compete with all the guys lining up to be with her. Bullshit,but it will make her feel better if you care about her feelings when dumping someone.
Tried that one...Works about as well as a chocolate teapot.
Ya see, when they think you see them as beautiful even though you've told them no, they will want you more. Because you're just so sweet and she'll never leave you and always stay by your side because she feels the same way. That's not what you want.
Stay way from this one mate.
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