I'll keep it brief (halfway through writing, it ain't brief). I like a girl who's older than me, I'm 99.9% sure that she has absolutely no feelings for me in that way, but we're good friends and we talk for a few hours on the phone each night.
She feels weird about talking about certain things with me, she thinks that because I'm younger it's weird to talk about stuff like sex. Apart from that, she gets really defensive when I talk about white peoples' perceptions of non-whites (she's from Sri Lanka btw) and that's where I fucked up tonight.
She was talking about how Americans are seen as being racist against black people, to which I replied that it was a white thing, not an American thing and that you could find it wherever you went. I said something like "You probably don't hear the way white people really talk about them because they wouldn't say stuff like that in front of a black person". When I say "black", I mean someone with brown skin. Every single fucking black\brown person I have ever known has referred to themself as black, but apparently she is and only ever will be "brown" and was so offended that she hung up on me.
I absolutely freak the fuck out because she's turned her phone off, and I go to a net cafe nearby to see if she's online. She isn't. Then I get a message from her, which I''ll repeat verbatim:
"Get educated prick. Africa and india are two different races in two diff continents. Don't u fuckn put it in the same catergory. Thank god i dont live around fuckwits like u".
So of course I cried like a little girl and now I feel like total shit. Why did she get so angry so fast? There's nothing she could say that would make me treat her like that, hang up without giving a chance for an explanation. I feel incredibly sad, but also incredibly angry... What should I do? Have any of you had similar experiences, and what happened?

Theres only one thing you can do in this situation: apoligise. That is, if you want to be with such a silly nigger.

You fucked up.

You fucked up by liking someone that brain dead in the first place. Tell her to get over herself and to stop calling racist every time someone says the word black.

either that or just don't deal with emotionally unstable people.
she isn't worth your time man.

So I'm getting pretty much the same response from everyone so far. I know if someone told me the same story I'd probably tell him to ditch her asap. But this is *me*! This is *her*! I really couldn't comprehend life without her, but...I dunno. I keep telling myself I'll let her call me, but I know tomorrow morning I'm gonna call again and again and again.

My ex is east indian.... she always referred to herself as 'black' and called herself a little nigger. She acted black...... like a wigger, only she was already half there.
Yeah, she grew stupider as time went on. Uglier as well.

You're wasting your time, A she doesn't like you more then a friend, and if you've known her for a while than there isn't much you can do about that except scare her away, and B she is incredibly sensitive and probably isn't worth being in a relationship in the first place.

Shes racist... Lawl at her for me.

EDIT: Don't call her ever again. If she doesn't call you, you're better off.

She doesn't even know how to spell.

I don't know about you but that makes my penis limp.

"once u go paki you never go back-ie"