alright simple enough scenario. a girl at my uni liked me somewhere in the time period before summer break...i didnt make a move because i had a girlfriend but instead waited till i was single when coming back for the fall term to ask her out. anyway long story short.

first time we scheduled something i got stood up, and then after contacting her 3 days later she calls back immediately. says shes really really sorry and forgot about it.

THEN suggests a few things for this week but we we're both unsure on our schedules so after getting stood up i told her to call me with her schedule. 2 days later...nothing. i'm positive to where this road is leading.

the shit that baffels me is the fact that she always reacts so positively to me asking her anywhere. and also i really dont fucking buy the "i forgot excuse"...

anyone have any idea what the fuck is going through her head. because im confused as fuck at this point. its so damn inconsistant.

She doesn't want to disappoint you, but she's not really interested enough to keep trying to make things work with you. That's my take. She could just be busy, confused, etc etc. She probably doesn't really know what she wants.

She probably doesn't really know what she wants.

alot of women are like that

thanks for the reply...

just to add. it's not my intutition saying she liked me. there we're 4-5 people telling me she definitely did.

Huh? Is this fucking grade school? You are at a University and you REALLY need other people to tell you when a girl is feeling you?

Come on man, learn to pick up the signs, seems like she had a crush, and you are acting WAAAY too available. Back off, talk to different girls, and nut the fuck up.

Huh? Is this fucking grade school? You are at a University and you REALLY need other people to tell you when a girl is feeling you?

Come on man, learn to pick up the signs, seems like she had a crush, and you are acting WAAAY too available. Back off, talk to different girls, and nut the fuck up.

borderline grade school. and i wasnt asking for confirmation. i called her twice carbon. once to schedule the date. the second time to ask her why the fuck she didnt show.

and these people told me in passing...i dont fucking ask about this shit.

borderline grade school. and i wasnt asking for confirmation. i called her twice carbon. once to schedule the date. the second time to ask her why the fuck she didnt show.

and these people told me in passing...i dont fucking ask about this shit.

You put the information in there like it was pertinent, if it wasn't, why say it?

I am not questioning whether or not she truly likes you. What I am saying is you are making yourself too available. Who gives a shit if she stood you up, who the fuck is she?

Talk to more girls, realize that you should not have to work to make someone like you.

I say play it cool.

Let her get on with it...And you do the same.

Sooner or later she'll come back to you and you can stand her up if you wish.

She's just another confused chick who doesn't know what the fuck she wants.