So I posted a thread a week or two ago about how I am friends with this guy, but also friends with his sister.
I slept over at her house when no one else was there, nothing happened between us, but her brother more or less came home when I was still there, and now he hates me.
I was surprised to hear that, figuring he knew me better than to assume something had happened.
He now wants me to stay away from his sister, which isn't going to happen. I sent him a letter describing what happened, he never replied.
He refuses to talk to me.
Her and I only just got it figured out, because she wasn't talking to me either because she was upset due to the reaction of her parents and brother.
However, all is good between us now.
Except her brother would probably shoot me if he saw me again, not to mention if he saw me with her.
His quote to her was something along the lines of,
"You can date any guy you want, as long as he is a good guy, and he takes care of you. And as long as it's not [Running Free]"

Any ideas on how I could make things well between him and I? Or should I just let him slip away from me as a friend?
No matter what happens, his sister and I are going to remain friends.

Yeah, having the brother hate is not going to make the relationship any easier. Ask him why he hates you, or you could just fight him and try and earn his respect.

You wrote him a letter? No wonder he hates you.

Why the fuck would it be any of his buisness who his sister, or yourself, go out with?


If he's being so rude and untrusting towards you, he clearly wasnt a good friend.

I hope you get with his sister soon.

I'm in the same boat as the OP, except without the spending the night part. I'm gonna play it by ear, good luck man.

Edit: Sending a letter is kinda gay, we have internets and cell phones for that. This is the future.

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Edit: Sending a letter is kinda gay, we have internets and cell phones for that. This is the future.

This is also the day of blacklists/block number/ban/ignore.
A letter might have been the only way of getting through to the fucker.

This is also the day of blacklists/block number/ban/ignore.
A letter might have been the only way of getting through to the fucker.

I hear ya...I guess it depends on if he drove it over and put it in the mailbox or actually mailed it. I interpreted it as he put the letter in the mail, it took a couple days to reach said friend, and now he's wondering where his response is. Which to me seems retarded.

Even with blacklists/block number/ban/ignore it would be very easy to get into contact with someone whose info you have, IMO.

You hit that didn't you?

If not, make it your top priority.

When I say I sent a letter, I meant email. Although I hadn't been sure if he had blocked me, or maybe his girlfriend saw it and deleted it before he read it (cause she's a bitch and hates me as well)..... either way he never replied to it.
I was going to actually print it off and mail it to him, because I wanted to be sure he got it, but his sister said he did...... he still hasn't said anything to me.
I am hoping to date his sister at some point..... being that we are at separate schools, it will be difficult...... but she more or less said last night that there is a definite possibility.

Why the fuck would it be any of his buisness who his sister, or yourself, go out with?


If he's being so rude and untrusting towards you, he clearly wasnt a good friend.

I hope you get with his sister soon.

Aren't you an only child? Okay, that means your opinion is worth dick. Especially when you say why it's his business. SORRY, but some people like to look after their family.

I know you were abandoned and no one really gives a shit about you, but try and look at it from the point of view of a concerned family member.

Aren't you an only child? Okay, that means your opinion is worth dick. Especially when you say why it's his business. SORRY, but some people like to look after their family.

I know you were abandoned and no one really gives a shit about you, but try and look at it from the point of view of a concerned family member.

Actually, it isn't that he's concerned..... I think it's more that his girlfriend influences all his decisions and thoughts.
His sister says she feels like she hardly knows him anymore, so I highly doubt he is trying to look out for her.....
Back in the day when he first started dating, she would sleep over at his place all the time, and their WHOLE FAMILY knew it was nothing innocent happening.
So I think it is also that what he has done in the past influences his idea of what other people are like now..... he thinks I would go and sleep with his sister just because he has done something along the same lines in the past.