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 #1 
Old 2007-09-17, 16:56
Fubar_v2.0 Fubar_v2.0 is offline
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Default Help avoiding akward situation with girlfriend...

Ok so me and my GF just moved into seperate apartments in the same complex and are going to same college. (would have lived together but parents didn't support the idea). Anyways to make a long story short there are 3 girls my same age living in the apartments across from me. I have spoken with them before and they seem like nice people. Yesterday I was taking out the trash and one asked me to come inside to help them move a TV, me being the extremely nice guy I am (lol) helped them. But heres the kicker, as I was leaving one grabbed me and started undoing my pants and grabbed my dick... I was like in shock that she just did this. She then says that her and her roomates want to fuck me and asked if I wanted to have a foursome... The thing that struck me the most odd was that I thought shit only happened like this is pornos, I nearly started laughing at the hilarity of it all


Now before I go any further I deeply love my girlfriend and I am not the cheating type of guy, I despise people who cheat I look on them as the scum of the earth. So here I have these 3 fresh young (and im not bragging but they looked good) college girls wanting me to fuck them all at the same time. What did I do? I booked it out the door with a gigantic boner back to my apartment and beat off in a wild caveman frenzy followed by a cold shower. I may be kicking myself in the future for this..

ANYWAYS... so what do I do if I'm with my GF and I see these girls again and they make mention or make some crazy shit up like I fucked them or blah blah blah trying to get me in trouble because I turned them down? (I'm paranoid of this, well I'm paranoid of a lot of things, thats just my personallity)

Help me totse, I'm gonna go whack it again. Fuck.
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Old 2007-09-17, 17:10
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Default Re: Help avoiding akward situation with girlfriend...

I'm proud of you.


Seriously, tell your girlfriend what happened, and how you didnt touch them. ..no need to tell her how much you wanked afterwards though!

She should be proud of you for resisting. And perhaps she can beat the shit out of those slags, that would be fun, especially if there was mud and Gstrings and such.
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Old 2007-09-17, 17:24
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I'm with Yoyo on this one. You've gotta tell her before they do.

Don't be shy or fearful about it because that'll make it seem suspicious to your gf. Just come out with it in a matter of fact way, as though it were nothing important. This has the benefit of helping her to believe it didn't mean anything for you and that you only have eyes for her, and should hopefully help calm her down and keep her from breaking their door down!

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You never know, she might love the idea and break out the camera! :D
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Old 2007-09-17, 17:26
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I don't know if you should tell her. It'll make her paranoid with other girls and all. Also having her hating these chicks is only gonna be trouble for you, every time you guys run into them it's gonna be extra awkward. And you're gonna have to listen to her bitch about them.

Only tell her if you run yourself into a situation where she can tell something is going on and if you get to that point... Wll tell it as it is, but leave out the caveman frenzy.

Fuck what I'd give to be in that situation though... Without the gf preferably. Dude that's masturbation material for a lifetime and more :/
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Old 2007-09-17, 17:31
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I don't know if you should tell her. It'll make her paranoid with other girls and all. Also having her hating these chicks is only gonna be trouble for you, every time you guys run into them it's gonna be extra awkward. And you're gonna have to listen to her bitch about them.

Only tell her if you run yourself into a situation where she can tell something is going on and if you get to that point... Wll tell it as it is, but leave out the caveman frenzy.


Dude, don't listen to this idiot. He's thinking with his dick and not his brain.

Ok, so let's say you don't tell her. One of these girls makes a passing comment to your missus about the size of your cock. Then what do you do? You're utterly boned at that point! Sure, you can say "I didn't want you to get mad so I didn't tell you, but nothing happened, honest!" You really think she's gonna believe that? If the roles were reversed would you believe it?

In this case, honesty REALLY IS the best policy.
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Old 2007-09-17, 22:20
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what yoyo and the other people except for that one idiot said. just tell her and get it over with. she'll probably hang around you more because she doesn't want you to be alone near them.

you'll probably get more sex too because she'll want to keep you fully satisfied so she doesn't have to worry about you going over to the other girls' apartment.

do the other girls know you have a girlfriend?
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Old 2007-09-18, 17:55
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do the other girls know you have a girlfriend?

Im pretty sure they've seen me with her. But I cant say for sure.
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Old 2007-09-18, 19:08
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Listen to Black Sails and me on this one...DO NOT TELL HER! I've actually been in this situation before, told my girlfriend (now wife) AFTER I moved out of the apartment complex.....and in hindsight she believes I dealt with the situation correctly. First my background in my similar situation. When I met my eventual wife I was currently fucking the next door neighbor with fuck buddy status. Once me and the wife start dating, I cool things off with the neighbor and we remain friends. About a month into our relationship a DIFFERENT neighbor who I partied with several times comes over and wants to fuck me. So basically I'm now neighbors with one chick who I was fucking, and another that wants to fuck me. Lets break this down into some realistic possible scenarios.....

-You don't tell your girl EVER, or you wait until both of you have moved out. In this scenario, you are somewhat rolling the dice that none of the 3 chicks says anything to your girl. But unless you do something to piss any of them off, why would they? Just because they want your cock, doesn't mean they are a trio of evil succubusses going to any cost to either lay you or ruin your life. Nope, you remain monogamous, carry on with your life, either keep an arm's distance or cordial relationship with the 3 hotties, and then months/years later after you and your girl move out you then tell her.

-You tell your girl NOW, mistakenly thinking you are proving your monogamy and unbridled commitment to her. What you've really done is open up a HUGE can of drama. You gotta know how women are at this point. Even if your woman believes you 100%, she will still walk away with an incredibly catty attitude towards the hotties. Now think of the angst and drama that will go through your girlfriends mind any time you associate with those women. It could be just saying hi while taking out the garbage, or passing by in the hall with groceries......whatever. Those innocent meetings could happen countless DOZENS of times in the future, and even if you girl still believes you are innocent it WILL create some kind of angst/attitude in her life. Possibly at some of the least convenient times.

-You don't tell your girl, and sometime in the future one or all of the women decide to be spiteful bitches and start fucking with your life by lying to your girlfriend. Granted, a very ugly and bad situation. But if your girlfriend is really going to believe it or start suspecting you based on the lies of strangers......then how great is your relationship any how? If you had that trust and understanding, most importantly if your other actions throughout the time in your relationship hasn't given her enough understanding of your sincerity of the relationship and commitment to monogamy.....then 3 lying cunts shouldn't create THAT much hardship in your relationship. Maybe it would take a little bit of time for her to work it out in her mind, but she SHOULD have that trust without any legitimate evidence. And if she does have suspicions and doubts you forever, then end the relationship immediately and be grateful that you haven't wasted 5 more minutes with someone that would be so naive as to listen to strangers vs. you.

I can't think of scenario 4, can you? On one hand you tell her, and she'll probably belive you....but then you are ABSOLUTELY opening up a door of drama and aggravation every single time your girlfriend sees those hotties. The minute you tell her, you can't go back....and you have DEFINITELY created an uncomfortable situation. On the other hand, you do NOT tell her and just cross your fingers hoping these are not spiteful psycho bitches.....and instead just horny chicks looking for some easy cock. One way GUARANTEES awkward drama, the other is rolling the dice and PERHAPS awkward drama follows.

To me its a no-brainer, and you absolutely do NOT tell her.....at least until you and your girl are moved out and don't have to worry about constantly rubbing elbows with these 3 hotties at the most unexpected and inconvenient times.
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Old 2007-09-18, 19:26
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This never happened. You guys are retarded.
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Old 2007-09-18, 21:08
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Originally Posted by SlapinFoFun
This never happened. You guys are retarded.


5 character.
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Old 2007-09-18, 21:09
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Originally Posted by SlapinFoFun
This never happened. You guys are retarded.


Five character.
 
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