without making her have pain

Very carefully.

I don't understand why there would be pain in the first place. Just play with the clit, get some fingers in there, make a "come here" motion to get the g-spot. Play around ya know, see what she likes.

I never thought there would be pain either.
then she told me and i just dont understand becasue i dont do anything that should make her feel pain.

Clip/chew your nails. Don't press as hard? Slow it down a notch, even. There are so many possible factors for the pain, it's hard to say. Worse comes to worse, tell her to see a gynecologist... which is recommended if she's sexually active anyway.

Pinky finger?

Pinky finger?

Thats reserved for another hole.

Thats reserved for another hole.

two in the pink one in the stink?

My vag took a bit of a beating earlier tonight, so my advice might be of some help.

For one, start off nice and easy. Don't just be kissing her and then suddenly (as I remember one totsean putting it) start beating her clit with a rake. Be nice and easy about it and go up to a fast pace somewhat gradually. Play with the clit for a while and when she gets wet, move to the vag and do the 'come here' motion with your finger when it's up there.

Not much else to it. Just don't be too rough in general, unless she likes that kind of thing, hah.

the first time will be painful for her
pound the sh!t out of it becomes lose then the next time it doesnt hurt

2 in the pinky 1 in the stinky.

http://blogs.indiewire.com/twhalliii/middle_finger.jpg

with a fire extinguisher

it depends on what the girl wants...

Some like it rough and hard and other girls want you to be gentle etc.

So just ask her, what she likes

Clip your nails.

Clip/chew your nails.

Oh god, don't chew your fucking nails. That leaves them all uneven and ragged looking, and I don't imagine it would feel that great either. Just clip them, please..

Oh god, don't chew your fucking nails. That leaves them all uneven and ragged looking, and I don't imagine it would feel that great either. Just clip them, please..

Not very hard to bite them evenly and smooth, I haven't trimmed my fingernails for about 8 years and with the help of OCD my fingernails are never scratchy or uneven.
To stay on topic, hammering her isn't a bad idea if you want to finish her with your manhood but if you are looking to pleasure her with her fingers, rest your palm/bottoms of your fingers on her crotch and grind them against her clit until she is really wet. Slide your fingers in, rubbing against her G spot (rough, spongy area) and make sure your finger tips brush against it every time you move your fingers in and out of her. Make sure the rest of your hand outside her is rubbing against her clit/lips stimulating her and making her feel good. Have fun.

Well i havent fingered her since i made this thread but i'd assume i will tonight.i cut my nails so short i dont think they can get any shorter so we will see what happens.

Fuck fingers, its all about the lickin you get me?

((and wash your hands beforehand... really.))

fuck man, it's just fingering, it's not rocket science

just don't try to tear her open or get your whole arm up there and you'll be fine

One tip is every couple minutes, or whenever it starts to feel dryer on the clit area, rub some moisture from the vag to the clit.