not sexual, but kinda. youll see

Ive liked this girl for like a year, and i never rly got over her. I never really asked her out, but then again i was an insecure fat kid then. A year of working out and sociallising has made me more confident , and well i lost a considerable amount of wieght to look good.

So i considered to ask her out again, only to find shes been having "fun" with one of my best friends, who for some reason, managed to get her in just a few weeks. Needless to say i was pissed off, and i havent spoken to him in 2 weeks.

what should i do here ?

go find someone else and apologize to your friend for being a baby. you took over a year, you lost your chance.

its good you got in shape and stuff, but your chance with her is over. at least until your friend is done with her. go try out your new confidence with some other girl

Suicide.

What plehem said.

Maybe if you had gone off to war she would have waited a year, but c'mon, it's time to put your new found confidence to the test and see what other girls are out there.

yeah perhaps

i still find it really hard to talk to girls though its like blerrrrgh


but i suppose thats the only real soloution


anyone got tips on how to start conversations with girls without them thinking i come from a different planet ?

How old are you, 8?

nar im like 16
y0.


and i didnt ask for smart ass comments jackass.

anyone got tips on how to start conversations with girls without them thinking i come from a different planet ?

The same way you would with anyone else.

"Hey" followed by something that isn't a penis joke.

well you got them anyway. here at totse we take initiative and give fellow totseans many things that are never actually asked for. youre still new i see, but dont worry, youll get the hang of it.

start talking to her, you can look for an easy way to talk to her like telling her that her shoe is untied or some shit, or asking for the time. don't be a pussy, act like you don't care about her, but hint at liking her. ask if she has aim or msn or something then give her a pen. gl.

Give some other girl $100 to phone the girl and say he's been cheating on both of them and she's pregnant.


Well that's what I would do.

Kill your friend, inless he didn't know that you liked this chick for a really long time

You're from Japan, there're so many hotties around! Go take your pick!

And if you've got no confidence to speak to a girl your own age, become a lolicon :D

Talking to girls hmm, this will sound creepy but observe the girls behaviour, try and work out what social 'genre' she fits into, what her interests include and what music she likes-thats a big one.

Using this information just talk crap about things she finds interesting-you don't have to like the stuff just know about it. When she makes points or expresses herself make sure to look interested and be attentive.

Its a big cliche but being yourself around girls helps a lot. Not from an honesty point of view but from the fact that if your behaviour is erratic and your constantly switching between common interests and stuff your going to look like a fool.

Be confident as well, easier said than done but girls love confidence.

Do your research on foreplay, oral sex and sex if your ready to do it, so that your prepared if situations arise. (I'm guessing you don't have a lot of experience in these situations)

I hope this stuff can help its all pretty basic. When it comes down to it experiece helps a lot

Hope this is of some assistance to you! Goodluck!