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 #1 
Old 2007-09-15, 16:00
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Default Am I a bad person?

Me and my girlfriend dated for 6 months, and in August we broke up for about a month. Well we're back together now and have been for about 2 or 3 weeks. During that time of being apart she tried getting on other dudes either just to fuck with my head, or get revenge for the breakup or loneliness or something. But that's not the point.

So shit like that really pisses me off. She even told me she had planned on doing that shit to me if we were to break up so I'm not very happy with the bitch right now.

Well her uncle died last week and she's been gone for a few days while I've been watching over her house and dog. Coincidentally, one of her very good friends, who I also happen to know pretty well, is visiting while the girlfriend is away.

So last night her and I hit it off pretty good and we got to talking and started making out and all that good shit. Nothing further than kissing though. So today she we're supposed to hang out again but she wants to come over to the girlfriends house while she is away because... well i guess because its a house to ourselves all day and night.

To make a long story short: Would it be bad to fuck my grieving, controlling girlfriends friend in her house/bed while she is away?

Lol, I know it sounds fucking horrible but i just want to get some more perspective on this... anybody else been in a situation like this?
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Old 2007-09-15, 16:06
Running Free Running Free is offline
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Oh man, it depends on if you LOVE your girlfriend. If not, and you know you aren't gonna stay with her, and you don't care what happens, go for it. Completely. If not for you, then do it for me :D
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Old 2007-09-15, 16:07
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I'd be tempted to do it, too.


However, it would be not cool to continue fucking this girl whilst still dating your girlfriend.
I hope you have your hot fun with the girl tonight and feel better about the horrible shit your girlfriend put you through.
But when she gets back I hope you end it with her and date this new girl instead.


Side note, she cant be much of a friend if she's seducing her friends guy in her own house.. But that's not your concern.


Do you want to be with your girlfriend anymore?
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Old 2007-09-15, 16:41
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Originally Posted by yoyobek
I'd be tempted to do it, too.


However, it would be not cool to continue fucking this girl whilst still dating your girlfriend.
I hope you have your hot fun with the girl tonight and feel better about the horrible shit your girlfriend put you through.
But when she gets back I hope you end it with her and date this new girl instead.


Side note, she cant be much of a friend if she's seducing her friends guy in her own house.. But that's not your concern.


Do you want to be with your girlfriend anymore?


Well see the thing is that she moved. She only comes back about every two weeks or so because she lives like 6 hours away now, so a relationship with her is out of the question. I don't plan on continuing anything with her if I'm still going to date the current girl.

It's so strange. Me and the current gf went through so much and came out of it all even stronger (so i thought). But the other day i was on her computer just snooping a bit, being curious ya know. Well I already knew that she saves all of her conversations that she has on AIM onto her computer, so out of curiosity I looked at one between her and her friend. Every word of it fucking killed me inside. It dated to about a month and a half ago when we were still dating.
It talked about how much she didnt even like being around me and didnt even know why she was dating me.. ya it was hard to read.

So that's another main reason I want to get back at her like this. I honestly thought I loved this girl, it's the only time I've ever felt this strongly about ANYBODY, and her and I have gotten through so much together...

So i dont know...


yea probably shoulda put some of that in the original post but oh well.

So i guess Ill see what it's like between us when she gets back and take it from there.

I need a cigarette.
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Old 2007-09-15, 16:59
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Now, on a break, you do go out and fuck other people...I think that's the whole point of a break. But you don't tell your significant other about it afterwards.

The fact she did tell you shows she's a malicious bitch and has threatened to let you know abouther sexual conquests if you break up.

On the other hand, it would be fucking horrible to do it in her house...While she's grieving no less.

I say give it a while, dump her and do her mate. Let her tell you about her conquests then!
 #6 
Old 2007-09-15, 17:06
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in short, yes, you are a shitty person. she may be conniving and bitter, but to sum it up, you suck and you know it.
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Old 2007-09-15, 17:10
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Originally Posted by psycho_8b
Now, on a break, you do go out and fuck other people...I think that's the whole point of a break. But you don't tell your significant other about it afterwards.

The fact she did tell you shows she's a malicious bitch and has threatened to let you know abouther sexual conquests if you break up.

On the other hand, it would be fucking horrible to do it in her house...While she's grieving no less.

I say give it a while, dump her and do her mate. Let her tell you about her conquests then!


Yea I agree with the break thing.

I would do the "give it a while, dump her and do her mate" thing but the friend is not here enough anymore to give up a relationship for. If she was here like every weekend then hell yea I'd do it. But it's only like once a month that she's even here so it wouldn't be worth it.

It's weird because I think I really do have feelings for this girl now. We always were pretty good friends for the few months I knew her, but I never saw this coming.
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Old 2007-09-15, 17:32
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It's a shitty thing to do, but if you want to get back at said bitch, what better way to do it than fuck her friend in her own house?

If you can deal with telling your girlfriend the truth, (as she did you) then go for it.
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Old 2007-09-15, 18:48
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I probably would have done that.
Well, except when I was with my last girlfriend all of her mates were butch and ugly.
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Old 2007-09-15, 20:51
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that's not even close to cool. break up with the bitch, and then fuck her friend and move on with your life. or stay stagnant in this relationship you're obviously not committed to and destroy both of your guys' emotional health.

its up to you.
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Old 2007-09-15, 22:55
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Well see the thing is that she moved. She only comes back about every two weeks or so because she lives like 6 hours away now, so a relationship with her is out of the question. I don't plan on continuing anything with her if I'm still going to date the current girl.

It's so strange. Me and the current gf went through so much and came out of it all even stronger (so i thought). But the other day i was on her computer just snooping a bit, being curious ya know. Well I already knew that she saves all of her conversations that she has on AIM onto her computer, so out of curiosity I looked at one between her and her friend. Every word of it fucking killed me inside. It dated to about a month and a half ago when we were still dating.
It talked about how much she didnt even like being around me and didnt even know why she was dating me.. ya it was hard to read.

So that's another main reason I want to get back at her like this. I honestly thought I loved this girl, it's the only time I've ever felt this strongly about ANYBODY, and her and I have gotten through so much together...

So i dont know...


yea probably shoulda put some of that in the original post but oh well.

So i guess Ill see what it's like between us when she gets back and take it from there.

I need a cigarette.



Your relationship sounds just..so broken.
It doesent sound worth keeping.
Really really, dont just be in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship.



I've become a very jaded bitch perhaps, but I feel that fucking your girlfriends friend and having a good time would be a great thing to do. You'll feel better about yourself, you'll have some smug revenge, and it may put things in perspective for you.


Your girlfriend is not the only female in the world. You're not unatractive, you can obviously get another girl.

You dont need to put yourself through any more hurt and suffering with this bitch.


Give her hell!




Seriously, this is advice coming from someone who thinks cheating is up there with rape and child abuse.
But to be honest, your girl just soo..soo very much deserves a little bit of hurt so she can be on the receiving end for once.
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Old 2007-09-16, 15:12
Jove Jove is offline
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Go ahead and fuck her if you want but not in your girls house... damn dude that shit is just too low.
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Old 2007-09-16, 20:42
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Ohio
Default Re: Am I a bad person?

Your relationship sounds just..so broken.
It doesent sound worth keeping.
Really really, dont just be in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship.



I've become a very jaded bitch perhaps, but I feel that fucking your girlfriends friend and having a good time would be a great thing to do. You'll feel better about yourself, you'll have some smug revenge, and it may put things in perspective for you.


Your girlfriend is not the only female in the world. You're not unatractive, you can obviously get another girl.

You dont need to put yourself through any more hurt and suffering with this bitch.


Give her hell!




Seriously, this is advice coming from someone who thinks cheating is up there with rape and child abuse.
But to be honest, your girl just soo..soo very much deserves a little bit of hurt so she can be on the receiving end for once.

... So i did it... just like an hour and a half ago... damn i think im gonna make a new thread because this is just too much.
 
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