I've been with this girl for a few months now, and I rarely, I mean very very rarely, ever had a problem with making her cum from fingering and/or eating her out. And we used to mess around about two or three times a week on average, and at least one of those times I could get her to go twice. But since her last period, and well, a little before that, her sex drive has gone way down. I guess it's been over a month that this has been going on. She says she "wants to want to" but just can't. I can still get her wet, though it is more difficult than it used to be, but then she dries up pretty quickly. She has no problem with pleasuring me, but I don't feel right about the...one sidedness of the situation.

She claims she noticed more vaginal discharge, and thought it could be related, but she looked that up and it's supposed to be a sign of fertility. So wtf is going on?

Gynocologist.

Shes found someone better in the sack.

Has she started any new medications?

shes lost her mojo

Maybe she's got something else on her mind. Ask her if she is stressed or worried about anything.

All of the above

who knows?

I would bet heavily on some type of stress, worry/preoccupation, or emotional change in her. If a bird has got her math homework on the brain, she 's gonna get about as much out of a skilled fingering and cunnilingus session as a rabbi gets out of a fresh hog.

she got bored of faking it

I laughed.

we're starting college soon, and moving away from home in two days.

also, her mom recently had surgery that has prevented her from going to work, so she's home all the time now and she is always telling me about how much her mom has been irritating her lately.

if stress can cause this, then i guess that's what it is. hopefully things will get back to normal once we get settled in at college.

or one of us will meet someone else and we'll stop talking all together.

yeahhhhh......

also, her mom recently had surgery that has prevented her from going to work, so she's home all the time now and she is always telling me about how much her mom has been irritating her lately.

What a lovely girl...

Sounds like a bit of a cock.

The bitch is pregnant, you are gonna have to put her down.

Maybe it's you who's falling down on the job. She's probably bored of having sex with you and is now fucking one of her little girlfriends for satisfaction. lol.