I didn't really know this upon entering the relationship, and she didn't let me know until today..

but my GF has no idea wtf she's doin, she has never seen a porno, never seen male genitals outside of health class 4 years ago.

I tried to eat her out, but it kinda sucked b/c she doesn't shave the area around her vagina and it mentally grossed me out =/

I'm trying to figure out what to do at this point, i don't even think she knows what oral sex is for the most part, so im running into a roadblock here =/

any suggestions? I've already told her (in a kind of kidding manner) that she should go watch some porn now that she has cable in her house, but i dunno. *sigh*

initiation by fire my man. Get a couple of guys to brutally gang rape her=win

well, that's not really the point.

I"d like her to actually know wtf is goin on, if i bang her.. it doesn't matter, she needs to learn ... sex stuff, things i've known since i was 9.

Should i invite her to watch porno with me?

if she doesn't like it, i can always get her to dump me "I do drugs" normally ends it =D

Maybe just fool around with alot of foreplay one day?

or you could teach her "what the hell is going on" I mean it might seem weird but if you want her to know, that may be the only choice.

Yeah, just help her explore and get more comfortable and stuff.

Just take full control and tell/show her what to do, If you really know what you want. If I want a girl to change something about her self. Like for instance shave her hairy pussy. I just tell her in a sarcastic way to "Go shave". Over and over again. After a while she will do it. :]

Or he could man up and realize that hair grows down there on women.

Teach her what she needs to know. She'll thank you later, possibly in the ways you taught her. :)

-F☺rd

Trust me, this will work out better for you in the long run.

Porn could backfire. Careful with that one.

Foreplay... hours and hours, soon enough you'll just rape one another. Don't try to have sex with her, make it your goal to get HER to sex you.

Oral... eventually, try again, hair isn't THAT bad, I guess you're just spoiled ( :

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To get her to shave you have to get her to shave it off with you and shave yours too.

She see's a dick outside of health class, she gets shaved, you get shaved. Win/win/win/EXTRA WIN?

my friend keeps telling me its a good thing =/ but how do i say "hey baby.. wanna try sucking my meat"

"hey baby.. wanna try sucking my meat"

Might work. Be a little nicer.

Might work. Be a little nicer.

"Hey, there's this thing a lot of guys like"

*shoves face violently into groin

VICTORY

tried to eat her out, but it kinda sucked b/c she doesn't shave the area around her vagina and it mentally grossed me out =/

I'm heartily laughing AT you.

Nice one Zonko.

or you could grow up and just talk to her? Its not hard, teach her the right way, and she will remember you forever.

she her you are understand and it doesnt bother you, you want her to learn so she can have more pleasure. Make it about her, not about you.

This is assuming you care enough about her. Which should be implied as she is your girlfriend. But its sad how many people out there are in relationships just so there not single. You shouldve have a STRONG feeling with a girl BEFORE you even think about making it a relationship.

But then again, i guess thats why ive only had two girlfriends, and the rest have been friends with benefits or one nighters.

I understand the OP's problem.
once upon a time, I dated a girl that was inexperianced... not in that she had'nt had sex before, but just that she was terrible at it.
getting a blowjob from her was scary bad, no tongue and she would do this thing where she would puff out her cheeks out, so all I could feel was the back of her throat and some of her lips.
not a nice feeling.
sex was a different story, she had no rythem, thought the faces she made were hot(they most definitely were not) and I never once came.
that's right, I fucked her for 4 months and I never came.
not from blowjobs not from sex, nothing. got to a point that I had to jerk off right after fucking her to get some gratification.
fuck.

anyways is relation to the OP's problem, if you like this girl enough you'll put up with it, but if you can't man up, and say something



edit: hee hee, i just realzed that I posted at 13:13 and the person above me posted at 12:12. wait what?

I'm just worried she'll get embarrassed, i guess i can say "k honey, nothing to be embarrassed about etc.. etc.."

Teach her...make fun time out of sex while getting what you want. Its called manipulation. Tell her you want to take a shower with her. Slowly get things started and eventually work into how much it would turn you on to shave her. Once your done lay her on the edge of the bath tub and eat her out showing it actually indeed does. Problem solved. Get her involved more erotically. Sometimes calling a girl a "Hoe" and slapping there ass doesn't turn women on. Talk dirty to her , gentley and softly even in public places but only so you two can hear while at the same time moving your hands in key spots on her body that are sensitive most. No that dont mean rush to her vag either.

Its real simple. You were taught by someone at one point teach others how to do it as a girl taught you.

Young men always have a hard time suggesting things sexually to a female. I know I did.

Bottom line. Man up. Tell her what you want and how you want it. Put on a porn, pull your dick out and say Im gonna teach you to suck this thing and you can thank me later. See how rough she likes it. You would be surprised how many women really want to be treated like a slut and a whore in the bedroom. I know I was.

I was the first for an ex of mine and she was pretty naive too, although she was regularly masturbating already.

Test her curiosity. Is she even interested in sex? One of the first things I did with my naive chick was to play "20 Questions": IE, you get her into a game where you take turns at asking eachother questions, to which the other has to promise to answer truthfully. You'll find out a lot about what she does and doesn't like and she'll find out the same for you.

You can use that as a platform for introducing the idea of her shaving herself (you ask her if she likes body hair. When she asks you the same question in return, you say "HELL NO!!!111", maybe she'll get the hint?)

You can also use that as a way of asking her if she wants to watch a porno with you and to let her know that you really want her to suck you off.

Don't be afraid of talking to her though dude. Fact is if one or both of you aren't mature enough to talk about sex then you shouldn't be HAVING sex!

Because porn is like the real thing.

She couldn't even make you cum by fucking you? Wow, how the fuck?!

Talk dirty to her , gentley and softly even in public places but only so you two can hear while at the same time moving your hands in key spots on her body that are sensitive most. No that dont mean rush to her vag either.


Rawr.

You can use that as a platform for introducing the idea of her shaving herself (you ask her if she likes body hair. When she asks you the same question in return, you say "HELL NO!!!111", maybe she'll get the hint?)

Maybe acting like body hair is filthy will make her feel more self-concious about herself and embarrassed.

My goodness! I thought most young people knew more today than I did at that age.

If you can't enjoy each other throughout the discovery process then I don't really know what to suggest. I knew only a little about my body at that age. I had never masturbated before I met my first boyfriend.

We talked a lot. We discussed moral/religious views regarding premarital sex until we were "on the same page". He gave me a book about sex and fantasy. He did things like that for me/us.

I had never seen porn before him, and I know we watched one porn film. I don't really like porn, myself, though. It just seems silly to me. She might not either.

He was a virgin as well, so things didn't always run smoothly like it does when someone has had some experience. We did things slowly because of that.

You're the experienced one. What was your first time like? Was it with someone who was experienced too?

Getting to know someone sexually should be an enjoyable experience. I hope you can find it in yourself to make that happen for her. Don't be in such a rush.

He gave you a book? So he genuinely cared then, can you remember what the book was? Could be quite interesting.

And I'd watch porn with my boyfriend, but since being with him the thought of doing that is really weird. Even for a laugh. I never used to care about it and thought nothing of porn but after him I'd take it quite personally, it's crazy because he doesn't even watch it.

So I suppose you could watch a bit of porn (nothing overly hardcore though, it might overwhelm her) and talk to her about it so you can see her view on it?

I think that book's in my attic actually. Isn't it the really well known one?

You're quite lucky, guy I lost it to I loved completely and he said he felt the same but it all got screwed up because he was trying to get off drugs and whatnot so he wasn't really himself.

or you could grow up and just talk to her? Its not hard, teach her the right way, and she will remember you forever.


Too fucking true, talk to HER about it, not us.