For about a week and a half i've been trying to get close to this girl for name purposes lets call her D. We talk after class all the time and have hung out after school. I'm sure shes at least thinking about the possibily of us being together, because of the way we talk and the kinds of these she says/asks. Shes asking me questions like have i ever cheated, how many girls have i been with, things like that.

I found out though, that theres another guy, T, who she went on a date with like 3 days after we met, before we hung out or anything. I'm extreeemly pissed about this, as this is the girl I picture myself with in the near future. I asked him if she liked him and she said that she didnt know him enough yet to know. I cant get too pissed at this because were not together or anything.. i'm not the jelous type but daammn i want this guy to handglide into a volcano.

Whats the most amazing is, I dont think i've ever met a girl that i've liked this much, but I've only known her for 2 weeks.. It almost seems that were perfect for eachother. I actualy can't believe it, because shes amazingly good looking and would probably be the hottest girl ive gotten involved with.

We talk a lot on AIM everynight and yesterday we hung out at her place for a few hours. Before I left I tried to kiss her but she wouldn't let me. She said something about the other guy and that it wouldnt be fair, and when saying id rather have the other guy out of the picture she said well see. So the way I see it, I have to prove to her that i'm better for her than the other guy. I was hoping someone here could advise me.. I dont want to mess this up. Thanks to people who actualy read through all of this it's greatly appriciated =)

Challenge him to a duel of fisticuffs.

Lame!

be really nice to/befriend her good friends so that youl have them on your side

I'd say if your serious, prove your more worthy than the other guy, by appropriate means..which wouldnt be too hard, but depends where she stands. If she didnt let you kiss her thats either cause shes more serious with the other guy, or u didnt do enough work on her in that time u were with her to make her comfortable enough for a kiss.

Thats just how id think about it ^^^. Just dont shell out any cash on her....haha

NaNaNaNaNaNaNa....HITMAN!!!!

Don't pay so much attention to her. Disappear for a little bit. Blow her off a few times. Make her the one chasing you.

^^^ yea just dip dude if you arent too into her....If shes seriously interested she'll call yah. I did that before with this chick who was being a straight joke...trying to play some hard to get shit when i wasnt in the mood....5 days later, brrring....

"If you book them, they will come!"

I'd say if your serious, prove your more worthy than the other guy, by appropriate means..

Piss all over her to mark your territory.

Keep her hanging by pushing her away a bit.
It works most of the time too.
Unless she knows what your trying to do and ignores you too.
I know alot of girls that'll ignore you back and see who falls first.

If you have a 14 inch penis simply whip it out when you're with her and she's yours. If you don't have a 14 inch penis, you're not enough of a man to satisfy any woman.

Does that "hard to get" bullshit really work? I dunno about everyone elses' trains of thought on this, but if the girl thinks of you as just her friend you would just be royally screwing up any chance whatsoever. For example, if "D" wasn't really considering OP as a likely candidate at the time and he "played hard to get" he would probably just piss her off and she would not hang out with him anymore.

Well she is thinking of me as a canidate, the only problem with backing off a bit is that the other canidate probably wont and it would probably worsen my chances if anything. Everyone who is saying i should back off a bit is right though, cant pay her too much attention. And i gotta make sure the time i am with her is something shell remember for when were apart. Im gonna come out on top here is if i get in her head and stay there even when shes with him.

From what I can deduce, she is considering him a likely candidate.

fuck girls....... the majority are all bitches

When you she denied you for a kiss you should of backhanded her so hard her face would of bounced off the nearest wall.

Women like being hit too.

Dont you watch the oxygen channel?

Girl's don't really care about being loyal to guys so if she used that as a reason not to kiss you then it means she simply doesn't like you in that way. Don't worry, there's plenty more fish in the sea.

It can if u know how to do it, you can see the glare in their eye and some concern in their questions..but like i described in the other topic, cant go soo far with it or itll fuck you over. But note you cant really pull this technique if the girl knows your ways, if your fresh out of the box with some girl u recently met, she dont know how your attitude is so she wont know. Some girls will try to play with you a bit just so they arent giving in right away/easily. Then others will do it just to own ur fucking ass. Either way just do what they do and it should stop their shit. If shes really legit she'll snap out of her little games...fight fire with fire like the saying. I've done it and it was like putting out that fire with a fire hose, instant change of attitude.

And as Galbador said, just forget about her yo if shes talking/fronting some nonsense, dont get crazy over her...many more girls out there, just consider it a lesson learned. I got a rule, i press once, maybe twice depending on the type of girl..and if shes acting in the appropriate nature, ill give it that 1 extra effort, shes being a scrounge, cease to talk to her anymore and move on.

i'm not the jelous type but daammn i want this guy to handglide into a volcano.


lol wut?

Murder/Suicide.

Girls are pretty easy to "train" My current girl everyone is always like, "Holy shit man, you have that girl trained perfectly" I can call her a bitch infront of all her friends and my buddies and she doesn't say shit. I always made her do shit for me too before we were going out, like we would be drinking with some people smoking a blunt and i'd be like...Yo get up and grab that blunt for me...she'd be like okkkkkk and go grab it, some other guy would be like yoo grab that blunt for me too and she'd be like "fuck that get it yourself!" I can't really explain it I just have her trained.

You have to ignore them a little bit, not too much though. And you gotta act like you don't need them or your not just going to do them a favour or buy them something because they have a vagina. Treat them like their one of your buddies. Treat them equal and punk out other guys with them but make sure they know your the one that says what's what in the end.

My girl actually hits guys and shit when she gets mad at them and always talks down to other dudes and takes their smokes and shit but with me she would NEVER fuck around like that. She's tried it in the past like taking my pack of smokes and being like pleaaaaaase I need it i'll pay you back blah blah blah and I just say FUCK THAT SHITTTTTT GIVE ME MY SHIT! and she listens man.

It's the exact same principle for getting the girl.

She doesn't seem so awesome. Infact, she seems average. Maybe if you really got to know other girls aswell, you'd se they're all simlar. Sure, they're all different, but not THAT different.