so i know i'm pretty good looking. and i know girls wish i would talk to them. but i'm very shy when it comes to meeting people. i'm not shy at all after the initial 'hello, how are you doing, blah blah'. so every time i catch girls staring at me i won't do anything except look at them and hope they try to start a conversation. so what should i do totse?

20mg diazepam.

put it in your mouth

ok ill keep that in mind

so like any other ideas?

to add to the original:

i also have a pretty pleasant personality when i'm into a conversation and can get a girl through that. but i'm just really uncomfortable with introducing myself. anyone thats expirenced this, how did you get over it?

Just talk to them. It's that simple.

There's an old rule called the three second rule. Within three seconds you should be just talking to her. Don't give yourself time to think about what you're going to say, how you look etc. When you notice her looking, walk over to her and say hello.

Just talk to them. It's that simple.

There's an old rule called the three second rule. Within three seconds you should be just talking to her. Don't give yourself time to think about what you're going to say, how you look etc. When you notice her looking, walk over to her and say hello.That rule is flawed, because it doesn't take into account how long it can take to walk over to someone.

What if you're in a room full of Jello? Even if you're only 10 feet away from her, it's going to take a lot longer than 3 seconds to get there.

Sodium thiopental

btw psycho_8b i love your sig.

well, it isn't flawed because of what the other guy said. it's flawed because i know i look great, and i know what to say.

well, it isn't flawed because of what the other guy said. it's flawed because i know i look great, and i know what to say.

Then go and fucking say it and stop whining!