Lately it has seemed like I have been geting hit on by guys. The other day one was all touchy and held my hand for an unsual amount of time and tried to do it again. A while ago another guy shaked my hand and didn't let go for an unsual length of time and as I was leaving he touched my shoulder. Affectionatly?

When shit like this happens I do not set up a boundary and try to be polite but feel uncomfortble and confused.

So are gay people hiting on me and why?

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I also experienced somthing else in the past were a guy hit on me and told me he loved me any other times are probably repressed.

Not meaning to sound like a SG fuckwit, but it's very possible you're giving off subconscious gay vibes due to repressed homosexuality.

:| Thats what I thought it was excluding the repressed homosexuality. How do I not give off these vibes.

Vibe negator. I can sell you one for cheap, like.

Easiest quick fix solution is to make yourself properly hate gayness. Watch some extremely perverted gay films or something, if you are giving off subconscious vibes then it's because deep down you want to.

It does'nt sound like they are hitting on you, too, they might just be friendly. Hell, you have nice hands.

Take it as a compliment?

I had a black, openly gay guy call me sexy and grab my ass, you guys think he was hitting on me?

No, they're most likely not hitting on you, that's common among some guys, don't some fathers grab their son's shoulders when talking to them? Some people feel a better connection if they're touching someone, some people are weird so no, they're probably not gay. Being hit on by a flamboyant gay guy is a huge compliment, they're usually pretty picky.

Oh yeah, my story is 100% true, he gave me his number and everything :(

Were you at an alcoholics anonymous meeting? People at AA act like that a lot... I found it creepy.

Any person that has a sense of brotherhood amongst humanity will do this. Some cultures find it gay, some welcome. I personally fucking hate it and experience it every Sunday. PFt.

I've been hit on by guys before. Last time I went to the mall, this guy and his girlfriend came into a store and both checked me out and smiled at me. My fiance and I looked at eachother and I said," did you see that", she knodded. I must say, if I were gay, I could do pretty well for myself. Then again, I do really well for myself as a straight guy too. When I was trying on jeans, there was like 6-7 women watching me try on jeans, just so they could stare at my ass. Life is swell.

Huh? You let gay guys grab your ass and say to yourself, "Hmmm, I don't think they're hitting on me, that is just natural behavior for their social norm."

If a guy is making you uncomfortable by touching you, you tell them. What the fuck? If a guy starts trying to take your pants off are you going to stand there confused and let him blow you? Some retards in this forum.

The 2 recent incidents happened at my college. For people to act this way in AA or in church is more understandble given that they are trying to be more freindly and spritual.

I suppose my hands are nice. They are made for playing guitar and are small? I was told that by a girl she was not that girly though.

Easiest quick fix solution is to make yourself properly hate gayness. Watch some extremely perverted gay films or something, if you are giving off subconscious vibes then it's because deep down you want to.

I try to stay open minded about people who are gay and lesbian. I have a easier time though with lesbians. Gay guys can sometimes weird me out.

:| I do not get turned on by guys and have a more sensitive personality then most guys so maybe I should learn to act tougher?

Huh? You let gay guys grab your ass and say to yourself, "Hmmm, I don't think they're hitting on me, that is just natural behavior for their social norm."

If a guy is making you uncomfortable by touching you, you tell them. What the fuck? If a guy starts trying to take your pants off are you going to stand there confused and let him blow you? Some retards in this forum.

Verbal irony anyone? Of course he was hitting on me. I was joking around, sheesh, of course I didn't just LET him do that. This thread is stupid, it's obvious he's not getting hit on, these are things that normal people do and I was poking fun at that. By the way, I did tell him not to do that again and he didn't. I'm a pretty mellow guy, so he probably figured he could get away with it without a physical confrontation.

If a guy starts trying to take your pants off are you going to stand there confused and let him blow you? Some retards in this forum.

I wouldn't be confused. I think I'd let a guy blow me, but I wouldn't do anything for him.

In one week at work i got hit on 3 times by 3 different gay people...

my GF thinks its hilarious =/

I have had a couple other dudes assume I was gay and try to start a gay conversation with me. It was weird.

I don't really show any homosexual tendencies, but I do look a little emo. Mainly because I always wear long sleeves (usually a hoodie or jacket everywhere) and I don't really comb my hair so it falls in a way that looks emo-ish. About the long sleeves, I don't really mind the heat... ever (it gets to about 110 degrees during hot summer days where I live), and I think they are comfy like this kick ass blanket I have.