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 #1 
Old 2007-09-12, 03:58
Maggotote Maggotote is offline
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Default Fap is bad.

I strongly believe that fapping as well as any other addiction just like smokes, drugs or booze is an issue. In my case fapping is turning into a horrible habit. I just can't stop thinking about sex all fucked up day long. When i'm watching tv, listening to music, taking a shower, lying in my bed, doing some homework, at school and no matter where or what the fuck i'm doing I just feel the aching urge to jack off.

I know this is bad, but no matter how hard I try not to think about it I just always end up fapping once everyday . This is getting really sick and I seriously want to stop this shit. Maybe I'm quite a fapper because I don't smoke, I don't do drugs or drink alcohol. Since I started college I quit playing soccer and going to the gym and this is adding up to my problem. I just don't have free time to spend on my hobbies. Damn school is sucking my blood, I like it though.

I just see naked girls everywhere. Fat, thin, ugly, gourgeous it doesn't matter they are all nude. What the fuck should I do to end this sickness ??? I returned to my church but I just feel unworthy of doing so because of this. Damn !!!
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Old 2007-09-12, 04:01
Opus Opus is offline
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Default Re: Fap is bad.

This guy is not going to get the responses and support he's looking for here, friends. Maybe he would do better in "My God Can Beat the Shit Out of Your God"? Because this is what I think, and I believe that this is the consensus here:

Fapping is in no way bad. Quite to the contrary, fapping is natural and beneficial as an outlet of sexual frustration and desire. And any establishment that is telling you to repress your sexual emotions is seriously fucked up.
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Old 2007-09-12, 04:03
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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Default Re: Fap is bad.

Here's your solution: smoke, do drugs, drink booze, or go work out.
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Old 2007-09-12, 04:04
Influx Influx is offline
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You said you only fap once daily. That on itself is not bad - your constant sexual thoughts might be something you should get looked at. Unless you're exaggerating...or...you're a troll.
 #5 
Old 2007-09-12, 04:07
Maggotote Maggotote is offline
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No need for trolling man. I don't pretend to exxagerate or be funny. This shit's serious.
 #6 
Old 2007-09-12, 04:09
Maggotote Maggotote is offline
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Default Re: Fap is bad.

Quote:
Originally Posted by genericwittyusername
Here's your solution: smoke, do drugs, drink booze, or go work out.


Alright. I know your post was meant for the lulz, but giving a more serious response to your post I would clearly specify that I'm looking for a way out of addictions not getting more into them.... Thanks anyway..
 #7 
Old 2007-09-12, 04:20
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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Alright. I know your post was meant for the lulz, but giving a more serious response to your post I would clearly specify that I'm looking for a way out of addictions not getting more into them.... Thanks anyway..

No. It wasn't meant for luls. If you smoke weed or drink or shit, your sex drive will be diminished. I'm not saying get addicted. And for working out, that's GOOD for you, even if it's addictive. And it will burn off that energy that your mind is forcing into an almost adolescent style of hypersexuality.
 #8 
Old 2007-09-12, 04:28
Influx Influx is offline
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What you need to do is not fap.

Try as hard as you can not to, find things to distract yourself. Take up World of Warcraft or something, that might help. I surely didn't think about sex to much when I played. Start going to the gym regularly too. If you feel like you have to masturbate, force yourself not to. Eventually the thoughts will go away, I hope. Don't look at porn either. Once you think you're out of it, go ahead and fap, either you'll be okay and can enjoy it the way it is meant to be enjoyed (not a chore) or you'll be sent back to the current state you're in.

Good luck ;P and excuse my troll comment.
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Old 2007-09-12, 04:33
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Default Re: Fap is bad.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Maggotote
I strongly believe that fapping as well as any other addiction just like smokes, drugs or booze is an issue. In my case fapping is turning into a horrible habit. I just can't stop thinking about sex all fucked up day long. When i'm watching tv, listening to music, taking a shower, lying in my bed, doing some homework, at school and no matter where or what the fuck i'm doing I just feel the aching urge to jack off.

I know this is bad, but no matter how hard I try not to think about it I just always end up fapping once everyday . This is getting really sick and I seriously want to stop this shit. Maybe I'm quite a fapper because I don't smoke, I don't do drugs or drink alcohol. Since I started college I quit playing soccer and going to the gym and this is adding up to my problem. I just don't have free time to spend on my hobbies. Damn school is sucking my blood, I like it though.

I just see naked girls everywhere. Fat, thin, ugly, gourgeous it doesn't matter they are all nude. What the fuck should I do to end this sickness ??? I returned to my church but I just feel unworthy of doing so because of this. Damn !!!

maybe your just a pussy with no self control.
^for the lulz

maybe you have male nyphomania(i would say thats a normal guy)
^semi serious
 #10 
Old 2007-09-12, 04:46
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somebody post a link to the lifetime movie Cyber Seduction: His Secret Life.
 #11 
Old 2007-09-12, 04:48
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Sexual obsessions.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_obsessions

You don't happen to have OCD do you?
 #12 
Old 2007-09-12, 09:05
socratic socratic is offline
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Default Re: Fap is bad.

Maybe you're just not fapping enough and are sexually frustrated?
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Old 2007-09-12, 12:11
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Default Re: Fap is bad.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Maggotote
I strongly believe that fapping as well as any other addiction just like smokes, drugs or booze is an issue. In my case fapping is turning into a horrible habit. I just can't stop thinking about sex all fucked up day long. When i'm watching tv, listening to music, taking a shower, lying in my bed, doing some homework, at school and no matter where or what the fuck i'm doing I just feel the aching urge to jack off.

I know this is bad, but no matter how hard I try not to think about it I just always end up fapping once everyday . This is getting really sick and I seriously want to stop this shit. Maybe I'm quite a fapper because I don't smoke, I don't do drugs or drink alcohol. Since I started college I quit playing soccer and going to the gym and this is adding up to my problem. I just don't have free time to spend on my hobbies. Damn school is sucking my blood, I like it though.

I just see naked girls everywhere. Fat, thin, ugly, gourgeous it doesn't matter they are all nude. What the fuck should I do to end this sickness ??? I returned to my church but I just feel unworthy of doing so because of this. Damn !!!



You should stop eating and drinking as well as masturbating.
They're all clearly evil vices and not human nature.
 #14 
Old 2007-09-12, 12:34
Opus Opus is offline
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^^ I told you she would say that!
 #15 
Old 2007-09-12, 14:08
Maggotote Maggotote is offline
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Default Re: Fap is bad.

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Originally Posted by socratic
Maybe you're just not fapping enough and are sexually frustrated?


hahaahaha What the fuck??
 #16 
Old 2007-09-12, 14:29
Maggotote Maggotote is offline
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Default Re: Fap is bad.

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Originally Posted by voodoonirvana
Sexual obsessions.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_obsessions

You don't happen to have OCD do you?


No, that doen't fit me. I am more like a sex addict. "Like alcoholics, sex addicts' lives rotate around the constant desire for their "drug" of choice. (sex, masturbation and women.)".

"Obsession: This is when people can not help themselves from thinking a particular thought. Sex addicts spend whole days consumed by sexual thoughts. They develop elaborate fantasies, find new ways of obtaining sex and mentally revisit past experiences. Because their minds are so preoccupied by these thoughts, other areas of their lives that they should be thinking about are neglected."

Every thing said on this previous paragraph happens to me except for the "find new ways of obtaining sex". Shit I also identify myself with 6 or 7 symptoms of the 10 described in this website.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_addiction
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Old 2007-09-12, 16:42
Bean_Doodle Bean_Doodle is offline
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You need to fap more.
You need like 2 days of constant fapping, like 10 times each day.
Then your nut sack will be very empty and youll have like a week for yourself while it refills.
(seriously)
 #18 
Old 2007-09-12, 17:50
Nathaniel Nathaniel is offline
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Do what I did! Wrap a bandage around your cock, leaving enough room at the top to piss out of. Then every time you find your hand wandering down your pants you'll feel this bandage and think "what the fuck is that? .. oh yea!" Then no fappage for you!
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Old 2007-09-12, 18:28
AprenticeChemistBITCHS AprenticeChemistBITCHS is offline
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Im going to take a guess and say troll. But if not then you have bigger issues at hand then the fapping. This is why religion is a horrible disease, it makes young kids think that natural good habits are infact evil horrible things that will cause your pecker to fall off. You don't have an addiction, fapping once a day is nothing I fap almost every day sometimes 2 times a day, I mean this past week ive not fapped to much becuase ive been busy with work and moving but still its perfectly normal. Thinking about sex all the time bad? Hell no that just means you're a normal man. All guys think about sex all the time. Hell I can't begin to count how much I think of sex. Am I in anyway a sex addict? Hell no I just like sexual things they feel good.

I could see it being a problem if maybe you fapped 3-5times a day and chose fapping over other healthy things but once a day is good for you.

As far as the sexual frustration thing id say no to it. I mean if you stop fapping and your not getting laid you will become sexually frusterated and be more pissed off. In basic training I noticed a difference in peoples attitudes depending on their attitudes toward fapping. I myself fapped a lot because being away from any women for 3 months gets you wanting sex DAMN bad especially when you have a hot girl waiting to get fucked when you get back. So I never got sexually frusterated. A lot of guys would fap, we all joked about it. But there were guys that didn't and the guys that didn't were usually the ones that were pissed off and hating everything and generally just frustereated. The guys that fapped were happy and fun loving. The point is if you don't let your little guys out of your nuts then theres going to be problems.

Fap your heart out and fuck the church.
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Old 2007-09-13, 00:44
Nathaniel Nathaniel is offline
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I found your solution! Enjoy:

http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/CB3000-CHASTITY-FROM-THE-MAKERS-CB6000-CB-3000-CB-6000_W0QQitemZ290157554093QQihZ019QQcategoryZ88433 QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem
 #21 
Old 2007-09-13, 01:26
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Providing the OP isn't a troll, I don't understand why anyone is opposed to fapping. Men who fap at least 5 times a week decrease their chances of developing prostate cancer by 33% or more (source (http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/3072021.stm)). Masturbation is good for you! It's one of those special things in life that is both good for your body and feels amazing at the same time. Why the fuck would anyone not want to do it? Mad
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Old 2007-09-13, 12:40
PuppetMaster PuppetMaster is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Nathaniel
Do what I did! Wrap a bandage around your cock, leaving enough room at the top to piss out of. Then every time you find your hand wandering down your pants you'll feel this bandage and think "what the fuck is that? .. oh yea!" Then no fappage for you!


awesome post!
 #23 
Old 2007-09-13, 12:45
PuppetMaster PuppetMaster is offline
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oh and as for the OP, it is kinda normal to feel guilt because you masturbate... some teenagers feel it, without a good reason... probably because it feels so good, yet has a big "no no" written all over it... just go with the flow man, you're not doing anything wrong... hell it's probably the easiest cure for stress/boredom/complexes

Plus you can use this "urge" to explore your body... play with yourself, someday you'll be thankful you did it.
 #24 
Old 2007-09-13, 15:37
Maggotote Maggotote is offline
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I think nobody is able to see the real problem in this matter. I perfectly know that masturbation helps to prevent prostate cancer if you practice it regularly. Maybe masturbation is good every once in a while but the problem gets when you just can't stop even if you want to.

All of you must be guys who think that drinking is a normal habit. Going out with your friends and getting wasted is just what normal teenagers do. Maybe smoking pot and having unprotected sex is great as well. So it wouldn't surprise me if you tell that masturbating over every hot chick you see walking down the street is also correct. Those are addictions and they fuck your mind and then your body.

Watching porn is the worst shit ever if you ask me. Porn is like a drug. First you start with soft porn videos with a guy and girl with intercourse the normal shit. Then you end up watching two lesbians crapping in each other's mouth. That's just fucked up.

Then you keep fapping and fapping and feeding your head with this sickness and your perversions just won't stop.
 #25 
Old 2007-09-13, 15:43
Maggotote Maggotote is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by PuppetMaster
oh and as for the OP, it is kinda normal to feel guilt because you masturbate... some teenagers feel it, without a good reason... probably because it feels so good, yet has a big "no no" written all over it... just go with the flow man, you're not doing anything wrong... hell it's probably the easiest cure for stress/boredom/complexes

Plus you can use this "urge" to explore your body... play with yourself, someday you'll be thankful you did it.


Explore my body?? haaha. What happens if one day I discover that it is awesome to stick my finger in my asshole???? They say that men have their g-spot somewhere deep inside there right?? Is that ok with you? Do I have limits or what?
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Old 2007-09-13, 18:28
Mr.Happy Mr.Happy is offline
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Watching porn is the worst shit ever if you ask me. Porn is like a drug. First you start with soft porn videos with a guy and girl with intercourse the normal shit. Then you end up watching two lesbians crapping in each other's mouth. That's just fucked up.

http://www.cupchicks.com/
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Old 2007-09-13, 19:13
IronZeppelin IronZeppelin is offline
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take up World of Warcraft or something, that might help.
Advising ANYBODY to play that game for ANY problem is automatically the worst possible solution.
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Old 2007-09-13, 21:01
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Explore my body?? haaha. What happens if one day I discover that it is awesome to stick my finger in my asshole???? They say that men have their g-spot somewhere deep inside there right?? Is that ok with you? Do I have limits or what?

Try it. Seriously.

So as far as I understand, you only masturbate once a day, yet are horny the whole day?
How old are you?
Try to avoid masturbating for a week, just to prove to yourself that you can, and that there's nothing wrong with you. You said your day is absolutely packed with various activities.. Then how do you find the time to jack off? That obviously means your days are not packed enough. Once you've abstained from it for a week, you'd probably be thinking "Why the hell am I abstaining from it? I know I can abstain from it for months and years, I've got the willpower, but why wouldn't I want to indulge in it?". And then you'd fap, and it'd feel extra-awesome, and then you'll no longer think that fap is bad.


In truth, I don't see what your problem is.
The more often you can regenerate and indulge in sexual activity, the merrier.
 #29 
Old 2007-09-13, 21:32
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hahaahaha What the fuck??

Seriously, you're sexually frustrated, which means you aren't doing enough to alleviate the pressure. Fap more.

You aren't a sex addict, you're just a young male who isn't getting laid regularly enough. So fap more.

The more I read your stuff, the more convinced I am you are a troll, because your ignorance astounds me.

Unprotected sex is awesome (when they're on the pill), alcohol in moderation can be HEALTHY, marijuana has several 'medicinal' properties, and frankly it's not that easy to get addicted to something. You seriously don't understand how addictions work.
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Old 2007-09-14, 04:49
Maggotote Maggotote is offline
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Unprotected sex is awesome (when they're on the pill), alcohol in moderation can be HEALTHY, marijuana has several 'medicinal' properties, and frankly it's not that easy to get addicted to something. You seriously don't understand how addictions work.

Addictions come basically from the mind. They are developed because people look for a way to "escape" their boring, pathetic or painful real life. They work as a shelter and give you a short term relief but in the long run they just fuck you up since you are constantly in need to feel good and escape your reality and that is when they form. In a few words I believe addictions develop in people who are mentally and/or emotionally unbalanced.

The most common: Alcohol, drugs, smokes, sex, masturbation, video games.

With all the respect you deserve, I think you are the one who is a bit confused about this subject since you say: " frankly it's not that easy to get addicted to something."
It is simply unbelieveable how you're able to fool yourself like that. There must be a good reason why pot is illegal and why underage people are not allowed to drink alcohol.
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Old 2007-09-14, 06:48
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Maggotote
I strongly believe that fapping as well as any other addiction just like smokes, drugs or booze is an issue. In my case fapping is turning into a horrible habit. I just can't stop thinking about sex all fucked up day long. When i'm watching tv, listening to music, taking a shower, lying in my bed, doing some homework, at school and no matter where or what the fuck i'm doing I just feel the aching urge to jack off.

I know this is bad, but no matter how hard I try not to think about it I just always end up fapping once everyday . This is getting really sick and I seriously want to stop this shit. Maybe I'm quite a fapper because I don't smoke, I don't do drugs or drink alcohol. Since I started college I quit playing soccer and going to the gym and this is adding up to my problem. I just don't have free time to spend on my hobbies. Damn school is sucking my blood, I like it though.

I just see naked girls everywhere. Fat, thin, ugly, gourgeous it doesn't matter they are all nude. What the fuck should I do to end this sickness ??? I returned to my church but I just feel unworthy of doing so because of this. Damn !!!


fap moar
fap is good
 #32 
Old 2007-09-22, 16:59
PuppetMaster PuppetMaster is offline
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Explore my body?? haaha. What happens if one day I discover that it is awesome to stick my finger in my asshole???? They say that men have their g-spot somewhere deep inside there right?? Is that ok with you? Do I have limits or what?

been there done that.

Back when I was 12 or something I had to put some medicine in form of a suppository. Hell, i didn't know what a suppository is, until i got home, I'd ask for shots or pills... but then I said what the hell... So I plugged five or so of those during a week.

And for your info, finger in the butt is just a finger in the butt.

Nothing more, nothing less.

if you think that makes you deviant, gay or condemned, then you should work on growing up.

oh and

Maybe smoking pot and having unprotected sex is great as well

You should really grow up if you find potential consequences between these two even remotely similar.

Worst thing smoking pot can do to you is get more unmotivated and lazy, not make you a father of someone, or better yet dead or crippled by an STD.
 
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