So I told my friends that I am a virgin and now they want to drive me down to mexico to get laid. I am 20 and am unsure if this is what I want. What I hoped for was to meet a nice girl and for things to happen that way but I am afraid that this could make make me lose sense of what my morals are and tarnish me in some way were I won't be able to meet a sweet girl and be good to her. I would be content with having a girl friend but this may make me want to be with as many women as I can meet. I am confused.

Totse what should I do?

Obviously, it's not what you want.

Don't do it. Virginity isn't a disease.

Don't do it, you obviously don't feel comfortable with it and I think you should be one of the rare people on this earth to stick to their morals.

Yea man just give it time. See I got to the point where my horniness overtook my morals and yea it just went... uphill? from there... i guess... cuz i got laid..

HAha fuck whatever man just do it.

go to mexico and see a burro(sp?) show.
more or less it's a lady fucking a donkey.
after the show is done I'm sure you can work out a price with the women to fuck her...or maybe the donkey.

but seeing as how you're too afraid to fuck someone you don't know and make yourself all "dirty" just wait it out not that much of a deal.

yea, they probably want to take you to boystown. from what i heard, it's like a street or a neighborhood or something where you just walk around and find a girl you want to fuck, give her $10, then go at it.

are you in texas? i'm in san antonio.

Don't.

You feel uncomfortable about it, so why let yourself be drawn in by fucking peer pressure. If they are really your friends then tell them the fucking reason why not... They'll understand and if they don't, well then sorry, but then they suck as far as friends go...

When I was about 22 I still had people asking me, why the hell are you still a virgin?? When I was a teenager it bothered me a lot, but around 19, I went like: Fuck this, this is not all that important. I even told it to the toughest guys and their reaction was: I appreciate that, it takes guts. Or even: I wished I waited a bit longer.

People did find it strange, because I'm rather good looking, athletic and insanely outgoing... I'm just shy when it comes to girls... and utterly blind to see a girl make a move.

I eventually lost it on my 23th birthday (I'm nows 26.5) and it is still the only girl I've ever been with and that's great. I'm fine with that. I'm still in that relationship.

Just... Don't let society or peer pressure pull you into things.

A mexican hooker is not someone you want to remember losing your virginity to.

thanks you guys for your responses. I decided that this is not right for me and that I will tell them that I do not want to do this.

Good for you man. Dont be sucked in by others crap. Thank you for sticking by your ideals.

Yeah, Im an 18 year old virgin and this thread has given me hope. Thanks guys.

ya mexican hookers. I can't think of a better way to get an STD.

I was in the same situation as the OP. but I waited. Now I'm getting married to the sweetest girl I ever met.

Right on. Congrats.

I was thinkin the same thing at age 19, but low and behold a girl came along, It is funny how it happens, but it does.

fuck ALOT of women in your life.

you'll not regret it when you look back

what reason do i have to lie to ya?

not just one women, ALOT of women.

op, you never answered my question! are you in texas?

Fuck that, man. Don't do it.

You're a rare breed. Stick with the way you feel.

for a guy losing your virginity is as important as kissing a girl for the first time (in my opinion) its not 'really' something u have or dont have.

so... i dont think it really matters who its with or why aslong as u enjoy it, and even if u dont. If you were never taught the word virginity... this wouldnt be a big deal to you.

i am from northern california

I think you made the right choice, Distortion.

If you're unsure, you shouldn't do it.

Enjoy the multiple STDs motherfucker!!! :)


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