Ok, theres this girl whom i started talking to in the summer, and everything was going great. I was so close to loving her. I spent everyday with her, and loved it. Then i went to costa rica for nine days, when i get back, first thing she says to me is, "we need to talk..." Of course i know what that means. It all ends and she's with another guy the next day. Then last night she IM's me and she starts talkin to me,
candii: Yep. He was fucking physco Maniak
Maniak182: word?
Maniak182: i think he looked like a queer
candii3xo: Haha yeah well i think he was.. Idk but he was crazy seriously
Maniak182: how
Candii: Well, of course at first he wasnt.. but then as like 3 weeks passed he began to like yell at me a lot and freak out over little shit and wanted to be on my damn nuts 24/7 like he always wanted to hang out .. and he got mad at me when i wouldnt have sex with him, too.. andddd now that were not together he calls my phone at least 30 times a day and leaves me voicemails talking about how hes going to kick whatever guys nexts ass and shit
Maniak182: tell him your gettin up wtih me
Candii: bahaha you want to kick his ass?
Maniak182: i would
Candii: haha whyy
Maniak182: i got my reasons
Maniak182: ...
Candii: lol, yeah..
Candii: im really sorry about that, Maniak. i never meant to do that shit to you. i still have the notes that i wrote you every day that you were gone, lol. you probably burnt yours or something to me
Maniak182: i left the original ones soaked in liquor in costa rica
Maniak182: i rewrote them all in the plane though
Candii: do you still have them?
Maniak182: yeah
Maniak182: somewhere
Candii: haha
Maniak182: you really don't know how bad you hurt me
Candii: No, I do.. and when I think about it I can't stand how that came from me thats not who I am and I just dont know what the hell got into me.
Candii: I think I just wasn't used to having someone like you.. and I just kinna, idk, ran? I really dont know how to explain it to you.
Maniak182: well, i g2g
Maniak182: peace
Candii: alright..

I mean, i dont want it to look like i'm going back to her after all this happened. I really just dont know what to do. Idk if i should even give her a chance.

damn, thats quite the predicament.... no advice here.

Fuck her...Literally.

She fucked you metaphorically...I say you fuck her literally.

She's making excuses...I've heard them before: "I dunno what got into me", "I'm not like that usually", "It was a mistake", "I still love you" so on and so forth.
It's bullshit. You don't just do something with someone, leave it for a few weeks/months then realise you've done wrong.

She fucked up...Found out the queer wasn't what she was looking for...Got rid of him and wants you back until something else comes along.

I say you fuck her...And fuck other chicks...Do the same to her when you get tired of her shit...And if that prick tries anything with you, take him outside, kick him to the cobbles and stamp on his bollocks for having the front to even look your way mate!

It'll feel good.

Id say let her go too man, just go out and meet some other girls. Cause if you get back with her again, who says she wont fuck you over again?

Sounds like your her permanent "Plan B".

Easy. She was hurt and her ego was damaged. Now she needs to feel needed and wanted by someone. She needs to know she's attractive.


And if you're the one who lets her feel attractive again, she'll continue her shitty ways.

Dont be a fool man. And dont fuck her. Because it will be nice for you, but it will be even nicer for her because it will re-establish how good she feels about herself.

And do you want that bitch to have a moment of happiness about herself?

LOL! This is the fucking realest shit said so far.

Easy. She was hurt and her ego was damaged. Now she needs to feel needed and wanted by someone. She needs to know she's attractive.


And if you're the one who lets her feel attractive again, she'll continue her shitty ways.

Dont be a fool man. And dont fuck her. Because it will be nice for you, but it will be even nicer for her because it will re-establish how good she feels about herself.

And do you want that bitch to have a moment of happiness about herself?

No yoyobek, we want all the women in the world to be self-loathing ugly twats like yourself who don't know what the fuck a bar of soap is.

That was the dumbest thing you could have said. That made her think you would take her back.

I know that all of yall are probably right, but idk, i might take her back. She is hot, and i dont think that if i did take her back i would take it seriously, i already thought about fucking her. And i think that may be what i do. Just have her around to fuck. Idk, she wants to talk to me, i'll keep yall updated.

If yall have any funny idea's, something i could maybe tape for yall, lemme know. I'm down for sparing her feelings for the humor of totse.

Ehhh don't man. Just don't. I've done that shit, it's just not worth it. Even if she genuinely believes she still loves you (which I didn't get from her conversation with you), she still ain't coming crawling back. She wants you to come crawling back.

Too true. couldn't have put it better my self.

return the favor and then put her on the back burner, or just move on.

I'd say don't do it.

As others have said, she's waiting for something else. you're "mr reliable" who'll make her feel good anytime she wants it.

Don't make her feel good. Don't fall into the trap that she's wanting to spring on you.

Give her hell about it. Seriously. and then, after all the hell you put her through...if she still wants you, then consider taking her back.

But make sure its YOU taking her back, and not the other way around.

Candii: ok, so what exactly do we need to talk about
Maniak182: you said you needed to talkto me
Candii: Not really the fact of needing to I just want to we haven't talked in forever, I want to catch upp
Maniak182: l
Maniak182: k*
Candii: lol
Candii: So Amber told me that yall dont really hang out anymore?
Maniak182: not really
Candii: why?
Maniak182: i'm tired of dealing with the dramam
Maniak182: really after meand you "split up" i quit talkin to her
Candii: damn.. why?
Maniak182: i only went over then b/c of you, then when you werent ther, why go over ther?
Candii: lol, true. Are you still a pot head? hahaa jkkk
Maniak182: i still smoke, but never was a pothead
Candii: uh hhuuhh
Maniak182: anyways, what about you?
Candii: I haven't in.... about 3 months? i think
Maniak182: i meant, what's up with you
Candii: I mean, pretty much school.. and cheerleading. That's about it
Maniak182: cool
Maniak182: answer me something
Candii: Okay.
Maniak182: why'd you leave me
Candii: I really don't know Binkley. You're the only guy who treated me the way I was supposed to be treated and I don't know what happened in my head. I loved every single minute of it and I miss it too. When I saw you yesterday something snapped and I dont know.. I'm just really sorry.
Candii: and I know that sorry doesn't make you feel any better, and it doesnt make things better.. because i know you'll probably never look at me the same
Candii: but I really never meant it to happen.
Maniak182: why'd you start talkin to that other guy though?
Candii: You were in Costa Rica, and I couldn't talk to you for support and I know that sounds weird and wrong but I just cant explain it? Andrew came along, said all the right things, and somehow I got completely blinded.
Candii: He's not who I thought he was.. at all.. and I shouldn't have made that mistake lol.
Candii: you there?
Maniak182: yeah
Candii: lol, you're writing in pink.
Maniak182: damn
Maniak182: my bad
Candii: haha, nerd.
Maniak182: damn
Maniak182: when are you goin over to ambers next?
Candii: hmm, well not this weekend. I've got to go to Virginia
Candii: I think she's coming with me though
Maniak182: cool
Candii: yeahh
Maniak182: i reckon i'm gonna go to bed
Maniak182: hit me up
Candii: alreaddyy
Maniak182: yeah
Candii: you sleep to much
Maniak182: sleeping disorder
Maniak182: not enough
Candii: haha, alright.
Candii: text me or call me if you cant sleep, or get back on here
Maniak182: k
Maniak182: hold on
Candii: ok
Maniak182: i still got a minute
Maniak182: annd there was something i was gonna asky ou
Candii: shoot.
Maniak182: i dont remember
Candii: ergh
Maniak182: yeah
Candii: binklleeyyy
Candii: is bailee back
Maniak182: i dont think so
Maniak182: well damn
Maniak182: i gotta get in bed\

Like i said guys, someone gimme idea's on something to do. I'm not really worryin about gettin up with her for a relationship.

Candii: Well, of course at first he wasnt.. but then as like 3 weeks passed he began to like yell at me a lot and freak out over little shit and wanted to be on my damn nuts 24/7 like he always wanted to hang out .. and he got mad at me when i wouldnt have sex with him, too.. andddd now that were not together he calls my phone at least 30 times a day and leaves me voicemails talking about how hes going to kick whatever guys nexts ass and shit

Are you sure that "she" isn't a "he"? I don't think I've ever heard a female use the expression "on my damn nuts" before.

What a BITCH.



NEXT.....

I've gotta agree with this 100%

Use her bitch ass and then get rid of her.

Her bullshit excuses are used by every female around that does this kind of shit. It's not because "she's just not like that," the fact is, she is. She just lost the guy she was with, whom she wanted more then you for some reason (social status maybe higher, better looking, money, whatever) and now that things went bad, she wants you.

She thinks she can have you if she whines and says sorry enough. Lure her into the sense of security of having you, fuck her, then leave her ass and tell her best friend "She's crazy, she really is..." exactly what she said to you about the guy she was with.

Then she'll hopefully know that the whole charade was in retaliation for being a slut.

Like i said guys, someone gimme idea's on something to do. I'm not really worryin about gettin up with her for a relationship.

Fuck Amber...And make sure Candii finds out from someone!
That'll piss her off...And she's got no fucking right to have a go at you at all...You are single coz of her and your life is your own!

The fun that could follow from doing so....*grins and dreams*

Your name is Binkley?

I'd say just abandon ship. Just ditch her, man. 'Cuz it's obvious you still have too strong of feelings for her not to get back with her if the possibility arises. And I've been in that situtation. Literally, the guy who was fucking her was named andrew too, and he seems like the same kind of person... the guy who is just ludicrously charming and irresistable. Really man... Just run the fucking other way. It's what you need to do.

Binkley?

i love how she talks like this with lol and wanna be on my damn nuts

Then she talks serious, with correct punctuation and spelling. She reveals her deeper feelings and acts completely sincere.

then she jokes like d00d damn nerd pink

She thinks too much, I don't think it's good for you.

Binkley's my last name, people call me it, any more advice?