 I love drama
I have a friend, he loved this girl, He met her online , so after sending texts back and forth and talking through instant messengers, they ended up hanging out, and soon they were dating.
My friend introduced me to her about a month or so after starting to date , I thought Hey! they make a pretty nice couple. I conviced her to introduce me to one of her friends also and we hit it off well and hope to stay together for a long time :)) (our 2 month was 3 days ago! hehe). Anyways, My friend is a little shy, and she was the complete opposite, but My friend told me that he loved her because She accepted him for who he was, and understood that he was shy, and still accepted him for that.
She loved him back too, Since we ended up getting pretty close, She'd always call and we'd talk about my friend, I asked her, why a girl like her would like a guy like him, and she told me that she's never met a guy So Sweet and nice as him, and that she truly loved him even though it was hard sometimes, she got used to it and really accepted him.
I thought that was cute.
She was his First Kiss, First Sex, First Love, and they both were happy.
(Or so it seemed~~)
We'd hang out alot the four of us, and i was thankful to my friends Girl that she had introduced me to the most perfect girl hehe.
I think the first signs of the water boiling was when, they were all at my friends house drunk.
I was bored, and decided to come over and we hung out for a bit, then when my friend passed out, and his girlfriend was drunk, I decided to walk her out to the bus stop, (Girl, 16, drunk , 10pm .. yeah i had too ~) While we were waiting, she was telling me that my friend was a horrible kisser, and she kept asking me to kiss her.
I couldn't. This guy is probably one of my best friend's and I could never do that, and Also I'm going out with her friend. After i refused, she realized this wasn't going to go anywhere, we said our goodbyes and went home.
She called later that night, and told me that she had feelings for me, but knows it won't work and not to tell anyone about our little incident @ the bus stop, that she would forget all about it when she woke up tommarow, and that it would be best if we both forgot what had happened.
I think at this point, I knew that she would end up breaking his heart, and that this was not the type of girl you'd want to be dating, but I couldn't tell my friend that, he was so happy that he was with her, that I just couldn't say anything.
Time passed, Since I was doing good with my girlfriend, my friends girl told me that she was wrong and realized that she only loved my friend, and all was good.
After 3 months of dating they decided to break up.
Well, She decided that, she didn't have any feelings for him, and that they should break up.
He was devastated. I tried to comfort him by telling him that she really wasn't a good girl, and I let it all about, How she had feelings for me, I mean this guy was one of my best friend's I just couldn't stand to see him like that,
But nope that made things worse, He started blaming me saying that I was the reason they broke up, and he started telling everyone that I was cheating on my girlfriend.
I gave up on him at this point and just cut contact with him.
I found out later the reason they broke up was she had found someone else, and lost all feelings for my friend.
Since i was still good friends with my friend's ex, I guess that angered my friend even more, and that made things worse.
My girlfriend was trying to bring back me and my friend, since we were pretty much best fucking buds , and she thought the whole situation was stupid, She felt bad for my friend, and agreed that his ex was fucked up for what she did, and eventually me and my friend started talking again and eventually started mending our friendship.
He asked her to hang out with him, saying that he felt like shit inside, and wanted to let everything out about how hard it is for him, now that he lost his girlfriend.
She thought, sure why not? Untill he sent her a text saying that he wanted her to come over wearing a miniskirt and one of those girltanktop spaghetti strap things (fuck i don't know what they're called) , My girlfriend started freaking out, telling him that he's a horrible friend and an ass, and that now she knows why her friend broke up with him.
He told her that he never gave a shit about me, and only used me to meet girls.
He also had called his ex, when she was hanging out with her new boyfriend, and sent a text, and when her new boyfriend read it, he called my friend.
And my friend told her everything, and really made her sound like a whore, Telling her new boyfriend he met her on the internet, that he took her viriginty, that she was easy as hell when she drinks etc.
My girlfriend called me crying, telling me all of this, saying that this kid is seriously fucked up, and that i shouldn't consider him a friend anymore.
She then started getting texts basically calling her a Slut, and talking shit about both me and her.
She got pissed and replied pretty much cussing him out, at which point he told her
"You better be fucking careful, and you better start watching your ass wherever you go".
So she called me, and told me that she was scared, And I told her not to worry and I'd take care of it.
Totse the question is
What's the best way out of this?
I value both of them equally, my girlfriend who is the sweetest thing ever and who i love dearly.
and my buddy, the fucking kid where his parents are basically my parents and vice-versa, we've been friends since we were fucking kids , and I mean now we're both 17.
I really want me and my friend to go back to our oldselves fucking careless and not giving a shit about this world.
It's funny because we made a pact when we were younger (never to fight over a girl etc)
I also love my girlfriend, and value our relationship, and really wish to be with her.
whatdoidoo
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2007-09-10, 08:13
