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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2007-09-10, 08:05
gungadin gungadin is offline
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Default why the fuck do i get myself into these?

I've gotten myself into a relationship i regret. Ive been with this girl for about 5 months now and theres a number of things that make me want the fuck out, but im stuck in it because of guilt and i dont want to be a dick. Shes not intimate at all. In kissing she doesnt use any tongue despite me doing so. Shes unresponsive or rejects my moves to go further to the boobs or vag. Shes done stuff idk what exactly with other friends of mine which is wierd in retrospect. Shes christian....too christian. She sometimes acts like a 5th grader. Shes upset at her work, school, being stuck in the same area, and that her friends have left and gone off to school. She says she is upset with everything except me and so i would feel guilty about dropping the whole thing now and shes kindof irrational and very emotional so she might do something irrational. So guilt has me trapped. What do you people say about this?

Im 18 havnt really done anything sexually which is fucking frustrating. Im pretty attractive from what people say. Im atheletic and very fit. She is not shes kindof chubby. I dont want to be conceded but im sure i can get a lot better. Thats also what some others have said. I feel like my youth and physical attractiveness are wasting away
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Old 2007-09-10, 08:48
facedownassup2 facedownassup2 is offline
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Default Re: why the fuck do i get myself into these?

might seem like a dick thing to do, but step up, and leave her. At first you might feel bad, but fuck it, don't let something like that fuck your life up.
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Old 2007-09-10, 08:58
crazygoatemonky crazygoatemonky is offline
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Default Re: why the fuck do i get myself into these?

You have two very distinct options:
1. Tell her how you're feeling so you can try and work through problems and make things better.
2. Tell her how you're feeling so you can get the fuck out.

It's your choice, but both involve manning up enough to tell her it's not working for you.
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Old 2007-09-10, 09:09
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Default Re: why the fuck do i get myself into these?

You're not married to her, therefore you aren't obligated to do anything.

Dude, if she's done "other things" with friends of yours...Why not you?
That would fucking annoy the shit out of me, man: "You jacked of my buddy but you won't touch my schlong with a pair of tongs!" or "Your tits have hands on 'em before but even though I'm so damn important to you, I can't even get near the damn things!"
Don't do what I would do...It will cause problems...Trust me! ;)

I would advise you to tell her how you feel mate...It's all well and good being in a relationship but if you aren't enjoying it then it's not worth the effort.
Relationships are reciprocal. You are staying with her to protect her feelings even though you're not getting any real satisfaction from it. What is she doing?

Ask yourself (and her) that and go from there.

All the best buddy.

Welcome to TOTSE.
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Old 2007-09-10, 11:20
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Default Re: why the fuck do i get myself into these?

She is a 5th grader.

Im 18

fixed....


but seriously just end that walking boil of a relationship, I was in one that bad.
remember girls can breakup with a guy for them being to beneath them, why can't you do the same.
 
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