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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-09-10, 04:06
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aladiesman 
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Come here if love has got you down
Love sucks! Girls are sluts! I am fucking tired of lying bitches that lead you on! I was with this girl for 3 god damned years and she broke it off! She said she loved me, and the next day its over? I'm like wtf? This girl was beautiful and now I am totally depressed. I can't get the energy to go to sleep thats how fucking drained I am. Anyone got any advice on how to move on? I don't mean to sound like a pussy, but I am hurting.
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#2
 2007-09-10, 04:12
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
Seems to be the time of year for it.........
Dude...Chill out...There's a million more out there. Don't be angry...Just pity the bitch.
It's 3 months tomorrow for me after the girl I was with and in love with for 2 years dumped my arse. I was fucked up for a week...Then went out and partied for a month or two.
Now I'm quite happy being without a girl.
Try it mate.
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#3
 2007-09-10, 04:17
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
yep. 3 year relationship for me, gone. it fucking sucks. i still love him and he's still my best friend and it ended pretty much as well as it could have, but i miss the fuck out of him and the whole "us" feeling. i'm glad i get to keep him in my life as a friend though. it would suck if we were all bitter and mad at each other.
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#4
 2007-09-10, 04:38
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
so I was hanging out with this guy, he asked me to stay the night so I did, he didnt even kiss me.
Annnd he never talked to me after that night.
wtf, men I swear.
I pretty much give up on them
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#5
 2007-09-10, 04:53
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
Fuck bitches.
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#6
 2007-09-10, 05:00
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Yoh 
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
I;ve never had a relationship over 3 weeks and I'm still a virgin. I want to die. I really don't see how guys do it.
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#7
 2007-09-10, 05:22
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
I didn't quite get my ass dumped, but my pretty much best friend of 4/5 years has me down. I've been passively in love with her for the longest time, and we both flirt like hell with each other but she has a boyfriend.
Shes pretty much told me flat out she'd go out with me if I wasn't so young (I'm 17, her 20)  I hold my parents personally responsible for not fucking like rabbits a few years earlier.
:(
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#8
 2007-09-10, 05:25
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
It sucks buddy. The sooner you can convince yourself that she wasn't the one for you the better.
Girlfriend of four months told me a week ago that she's not feeling it anymore. The week before she said she was falling for me. Today she's telling me how she jerked off some guy in the back of his car.
Whatever, I comfort myself in the fact that I've gotten laid regularly since we've been broken up and she hasn't :)
-F☺rd
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#9
 2007-09-10, 05:42
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
I prefer to be single. i've been in one long relationship and many short one's and i'm just happier when i'm single. i'm a bit of the jealous type though so for me having a gf is just stressful. and its nice not having to juggle between a girl and your friends. me now days i don't chase after girls but if one comes after me i'm more than willing to give it a try. to bad i'm not the one night stand type... haven't gotten any in quite awhile : (
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#10
 2007-09-10, 06:21
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
You're no good for me/IIIIIIII don't need nobody/don't need noone/that's no good for me!
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#11
 2007-09-10, 06:30
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
Love is both the best and the worst feeling in the world.
I broke up with my gf almost a month ago, I miss her but it just wasn't right. There's no point being in a relationship like that.
Party and chill with friends. Take you mind off it. Flirt (if your like me).
Oh and Discordia, one of my best friends who I've known for 4 years or so and I are starting to date and have discussed that we both want to be together (again, it was a one month thing years ago) and I'm 17 and she's 20. I personally don't think age means shit, at all.
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#12
 2007-09-10, 06:55
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
I am really in no place to give advice to anyone. I'm at a loss for words right now. I'm in a strange limbo between bown and up, where nothing has meaning for better or worse. I blame it on my inablity to love myself. I like myself, but I don't love myself. So I've realized that I shouldn't be looking for love in other people, but rather, in myself. I don't care how corny that seems right now.
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#13
 2007-09-10, 07:02
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
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Originally Posted by rabbitweed
You're no good for me/IIIIIIII don't need nobody/don't need noone/that's no good for me!
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If we still had the rep thing going, I'd really fuckin' drop you one for that!
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#14
 2007-09-10, 07:14
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
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Originally Posted by aladiesman
Love sucks! Girls are sluts! I am fucking tired of lying bitches that lead you on! I was with this girl for 3 god damned years and she broke it off! She said she loved me, and the next day its over? I'm like wtf? This girl was beautiful and now I am totally depressed. I can't get the energy to go to sleep thats how fucking drained I am. Anyone got any advice on how to move on? I don't mean to sound like a pussy, but I am hurting.
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Bitchs aint shit but hoes and tricks, these girls are smart keep your head 3 steps these girls are smart.
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#15
 2007-09-10, 07:56
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
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Originally Posted by genericwittyusername
I am really in no place to give advice to anyone. I'm at a loss for words right now. I'm in a strange limbo between bown and up, where nothing has meaning for better or worse. I blame it on my inablity to love myself. I like myself, but I don't love myself. So I've realized that I shouldn't be looking for love in other people, but rather, in myself. I don't care how corny that seems right now.
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I get you. And I really didn't realize it as a problem until I found myself single. Mm. I'm getting better though I'm not sure how nor what I supposed to do next. :)
-F☺rd
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#16
 2007-09-10, 20:40
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
Oh and Discordia, one of my best friends who I've known for 4 years or so and I are starting to date and have discussed that we both want to be together (again, it was a one month thing years ago) and I'm 17 and she's 20. I personally don't think age means shit, at all.
I don't think age matter either, not three years anyway.
As long as she doesn't get married before I get older I'm fairly confident that I'll have a resonable shot with her.
Its not fun playing this game when you're older, if you want a girl thats taken you can't wait it out until they break up because theres always the chance they'll get married.
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#17
 2007-09-10, 21:25
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surprise buttsecks 
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
aladiesman, huh?
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#18
 2007-09-10, 21:38
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
Meh, I know the feeling mate. Three year relationship and followed her half-way around the world after she emigrated with her Dad, only to have her dump me whilst over there, return to the UK and get with some other fucker all within a week.
Now, months later, I'm utterly fucked in the head. Been on anti-depressants and all that shit but I quit them after I realised they were doing more harm than good.
I've got no advice to give because I don't even know who I am anymore (christ, fucking shoot me now, I've turned emo). Just know that you ain't the only one hurting.
FUCK IT! Let's all just go out, get wasted and wake up next to some fat bitch! You'll soon get over her.
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#19
 2007-09-10, 21:39
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WorldFamous 
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
Its not fun playing this game when you're older, if you want a girl thats taken you can't wait it out until they break up because theres always the chance they'll get married.
Ain't that the truth. I'm edging towards the age when people starting landing long term relationships that are measured in years, not months. Being single isn't much fun in those crowds, that's for sure.
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#20
 2007-09-10, 22:05
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
Love's got me down, but it's not because I was dumped or anything. I'm just in love with this girl that I only get to see a couple times a month, and it's killing me.
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#21
 2007-09-10, 23:13
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
it's got me down. my boyfriend and i have been fighting a lot lately and i don't know how much longer we're going to last. sigh...
and we haven't been spending as much time together lately, and when we are together, we're fighting half the time. i just don't know what to do anymore. :(
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#22
 2007-09-10, 23:46
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--SEmper 
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
Blegh to all this...
I'm from Belgium, met my girl in Ireland and moved to Poland for her...
Yesterday after 2 weeks of hardly communicating after a fight and me thinking about going back to B, I told her it might be best if we'd break up. We're together for close to 4 years. Most importantly we talked it over. To the OP: did you talk, or did you just put yourself down to the decision?? My gf didn't and we talked it over and we decided to give it another try. Mind you, this was after two weeks of me being sure that I had enough and that this is it. But... We do love each other, so for that, we try it again.
If things are going bad, one person needs to reach out, sometimes in a relationship it is needed to offer a hand to the other when times are really fucked up. I got offered that hand, and I'm grateful I was offered it...
To xilikeeggs0: my gf and I used to fight ALL the time... Seriously, more than half of the conversations ended up in fights, and sometimes very serious fights at that... if you genuinely care for the person then it is best to just talk it over and work towards avoiding fights... it might take some time, but it is worth it... But don't expect it to disappear, it's good to sometimes have a fight to vent some issues...
Remember, being in love does not last, but love does...
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#23
 2007-09-11, 00:26
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I Want Revenge 
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
Love does suck. So do lying, cheating guys. I need an internet boyfriend. That would makes things so much simpler. Any takers?
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#24
 2007-09-11, 00:38
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
Love does bite.
Love made me a happy cheerful person. I used to be a very angry, misanthropic, extremely lonely person not to long ago. Then I met her. Changed my entire out-look on life, how I acted and how I felt about other people, friends, family, strangers. My first true love, my first fuck, my first real kiss, my first wtfthatsweirdshithappeninganditsmakingmehappy. We've been together for over 9 months now. It's long distance, so, things are hard. We have been together in real life and it was the best time of my entire life, so far. Personally we've experienced things that most people don't, I'm not going to go into detail but they're just weird and I know that they totally mean something. I truthfully feel she's the one and I'm so fucking proud to be able to say that.
The thing that bites is that things are kinda going down-hill now. They have before and its been close to finishing, but I've stayed by her side during hard times. When we met, it was just an explosion of happiness. She's supposed to visit in December, I hope the fuck that she still does, for longer too. That'll be some time to remember. Anyways, things aren't so hot now and I'm just afraid, very afraid. But I'm keeping my hopes up and staying on my toes.
Anywho. Everyone survives in the end, life moves on. Good day! :D
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#25
 2007-09-11, 00:58
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
Love doesn't really suck as much as the stupid fuckin things love makes you do. It's like a really bad trip on acid that once you're off you really wanna take another hit
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#26
 2007-09-11, 02:14
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aladiesman 
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
Well, first of all, I would just like to thank everyone for their input and for not making me feel like an idiot. Secondly, aladiesman is just my online id that I have had since I was 12. Getting back to the point, me and my girl didn't really get to talk things over, we had both lied throughout the relationship and it was just time to end the unhealthiness. We are still friends but I hope we can work it out in the end.
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#27
 2007-09-11, 11:45
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fran jaywonski 
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
Love does bite.
Love made me a happy cheerful person. I used to be a very angry, misanthropic, extremely lonely person not to long ago. Then I met her. Changed my entire out-look on life, how I acted and how I felt about other people, friends, family, strangers. My first true love, my first fuck, my first real kiss, my first wtfthatsweirdshithappeninganditsmakingmehappy. We've been together for over 9 months now. It's long distance, so, things are hard. We have been together in real life and it was the best time of my entire life, so far. Personally we've experienced things that most people don't, I'm not going to go into detail but they're just weird and I know that they totally mean something. I truthfully feel she's the one and I'm so fucking proud to be able to say that.
Anywho. Everyone survives in the end, life moves on. Good day! :D
I feel ya, those weird little details rules. I'm in love with a girl, who lives 5125miles and 7 time zones away :-( Its been 806 days and 2.5 hours since I've seen her, and I just miss her more every day, especially when I talk to her. And I have no fucking clue what is gonna happen.
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#28
 2007-09-11, 18:52
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Re: Come here if love has got you down
*curls up into fetal position*
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