Me and this girl have been talking for a quite a long time now. I want to ask her out to make our relationship official.The problem is I personally think, "will you go out with me" is a lame and immature way to ask a girl out. I need help thinking of another way to ask her. Any suggestions would be great.

grab her hair and say "you're mine"

haha, seriously though I really cant think of anything. I need help

i usually wait til after the date then ask her "so will you be my girlfriend?"

4 Yes's
1 no

seems to work -_-

"Will you/do want to go out with me" is fine. People have been doing it for as long as dating has been around. Important part is how/where you do it. Don't take her to burger king and ask her with half a whopper in your mouth.

As far as I'm concerned, it's better to just spit out what you mean to ask than pussy footing around and confusing the girl/making it stupidly awkward.

Well I was lying in bed the other day with my lady, and she goes "Well I suppose we're going steady then.." I reply "Yes, I guess that makes you my bitch!"
Although maybe you want something a bit more official sounding..

Tru tru. So it wouldnt be gay to say "will you go out with me"? I mean I've said it many times before but I just feel immature saying it now.

it kinda is

why dont u just ask her to be your girlfriend?

Just say "Hey, how would you feel about being my girlfriend"

Or my way of doing things "Your my bitch now, got it?"

Why is it 'lam and immature' to speak your mind?!?

Jesus,she's not a fucking telepath! Ask her!
Take her somewhere romantic and add jewelery to the question if she's that sort of girl.

If you need to say anything then its probably not time. I don't really call it ever needing to be 'formalised' or 'verbalised'.

But then again I always found chaining them to the bed worked a treat.

If you need to say anything then its probably not time. I don't really call it ever needing to be 'formalised' or 'verbalised'.


I dunno, I was with a guy once who just randomly calling me his 'girlfriend'. It was okay, but I was miffed that we'd never really discussed it and he'd never asked me out.

I dunno, I was with a guy once who just randomly calling me his 'girlfriend'. It was okay, but I was miffed that we'd never really discussed it and he'd never asked me out.

I'm the same way. I can't stand when guys just assume things, I like things to be official.

Instead of just asking "will you go out with me?", why don't you try saying something like "Hey, we've had a great evening. I really enjoy your company. And I would really enjoy being your boyfriend."

Seems classier to me. I'm doing this shit myself on Monday (if all goes as planned) so I've been thinking about it.

To Khepri?

Sorry. I do so love a Totse romance.

To Khepri?

Sorry. I do so love a Totse romance.

Nah, we're just good friends. :) I've already got meself a totse romance. Kind of.

I agree with Ketch. You don't really need to formalize it. For instance, I've never really had to ask such a question. It was always assumed after I would knock them up.

just tell her that "i wanna be with you"

To Khepri?

Sorry. I do so love a Totse romance.

This made me laugh so fucking hard. Not that I wouldn't date Khepri, it's just that she's in a relationship and I live like fucking five hundred miles away. :D It also makes me laugh to think that you've bothered to read into my posts in the other thread. Thanks for the lulz.

I dunno, I was with a guy once who just randomly calling me his 'girlfriend'. It was okay, but I was miffed that we'd never really discussed it and he'd never asked me out.

I didn't mean just blindly assuming that she will automatically want to be 'together'. Like so many things. two people should be so 'in tune' that for important stuff words aren't necessary.

If you're sleeping together then it should clear that you're together and being true to each other.

Yeah maybe I am a hopeless fool....

This made me laugh so fucking hard. Not that I wouldn't date Khepri, it's just that she's in a relationship and I live like fucking five hundred miles away. :D It also makes me laugh to think that you've bothered to read into my posts in the other thread. Thanks for the lulz.

Hehe sorry. Not being creepy. You two just seem really close. :)

We are, in some ways, which is strange given the inordinately small amount of time we've spent talking.

I guess somtimes people just make instantaneous emotional connections.

hang out with her and her friends and before long one of them will be like " SO ARE YOU 2 TOGETHER OR LIEK?"

It is strange, but its also very nice. :] So, your essay?

Almost done. I'm having to smoke a few cigs, go back, smoke a few, go back. Otherwise I just can't summon the right words to make a bunch of uneducated hicks inspired to go to college in under 400 words.

500, 1000, or 1500 bucks is definitely worth it though. I figure I'll win one.

You'll win. :p

Hurry up! I wanna talk to you.

Uh, you don't HAVE to say anything.
Just go out, she likes you, you liker her, um.. what's the point of saying "Will you be ma gurlfrien lawl?" ??

I don't know, I never liked all that BS. If we like each other that's all that matters.

do it Donnie Darko sytle
Just be like
"So you wanna go with me"
haha that part is awesome

Hehe sorry. Not being creepy. You two just seem really close. :)

Which isn't so great for me...

C'mon buddy, I'm just talking to her. Seriously, I'm no competition. I live like, 650 miles away and am honestly really pleased you two are together, given what she's said about you.

There's really no reason to feel down about frienship between TOTSEANS. :p