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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-09-09, 04:13
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Reading Pa USA
Default females of totse....

do you lead on guys??

If you do, why??
 #2 
Old 2007-09-09, 04:17
woopsueypigs77 woopsueypigs77 is offline
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Silly you, there are no girls on the internet.
 #3 
Old 2007-09-09, 04:34
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totse
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i try not to. i feel too bad when a guy asks me for my number though, so most of the time i'll give it to him and just not answer when he calls. other than that, no. but i haven't had that problem lately, because 'i have a boyfriend' works even better.
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Old 2007-09-09, 06:40
Bean_Doodle Bean_Doodle is offline
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Because most pretty girls know on a subcouncious level that a great way to connect with guys is to be 'nice' to them.
Remember, theyre all insecure, and theyve found out that men react positively when they are a bit extra 'nice' to them.
I dont think most of them actually know theyre leading men on, its just their way to reach out.
 #5 
Old 2007-09-09, 23:24
I Want Revenge I Want Revenge is offline
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Hmm I think I do a bit without meaning to. But hell, I've been lead on by guys before and I mean so bad that it pretty much destroyed me for a couple months. No one deserves it purposely and accidentally really isn't that pleasant either.
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Old 2007-09-09, 23:37
256 256 is offline
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No one deserves it purposely and accidentally really isn't that pleasant either.

A gnomic but seemingly true statement on the matter.
 #7 
Old 2007-09-09, 23:44
pisstest420 pisstest420 is offline
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I've been lead on by guys before and I mean so bad that it pretty much destroyed me for a couple months. No one deserves it purposely and accidentally really isn't that pleasant either.

I did it by accident. She was in love, I wanted the sex. Thats the only time though.
 #8 
Old 2007-09-10, 00:55
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Default Re: females of totse....

Only if I intend on putting out.
 #9 
Old 2007-09-10, 03:52
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East end
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Quote:
Originally Posted by kAtE-
Only if I intend on putting out.


Lead me baby! :D
 #10 
Old 2007-09-10, 04:40
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Lead me baby! :D

Pfft, I've already done the leading with you, you're now twisting around my little finger. :p
 #11 
Old 2007-09-11, 21:55
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second star to the right.
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I do.
All the freakin tyme.
Cause Im a hot Gurl.
 #12 
Old 2007-09-11, 21:56
CarbonB CarbonB is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Awkibo
I do.
All the freakin tyme.
Cause Im a hot Gurl.


You are not hot. You're boring.
 #13 
Old 2007-09-11, 22:38
rio bravo rio bravo is offline
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no. I don't flirt with/toy with anyone I'm not interested in.
And it is NOT my fault if I'm nice to a boy like I would be to anyone, and all of a sudden he decides he's madly in love with me.
 #14 
Old 2007-09-11, 22:40
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second star to the right.
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You are not hot. You're boring.

I'm so not boring.
in fact I'm so kool I have.
A penis.
 #15 
Old 2007-09-11, 22:45
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Reading Pa USA
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Originally Posted by rio bravo
no. I don't flirt with/toy with anyone I'm not interested in.
And it is NOT my fault if I'm nice to a boy like I would be to anyone, and all of a sudden he decides he's madly in love with me.


of course not.

basically what I was asking is would you spend a good 4+ hours making out with a guy then tell him your not interested 2 days later
 #16 
Old 2007-09-11, 22:46
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Las Vegas NV
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of course not.

basically what I was asking is would you spend a good 4+ hours making out with a guy then tell him your not interested 2 days later

Awww, poor heartbroken nub. :D
 #17 
Old 2007-09-11, 22:53
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Reading Pa USA
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Awww, poor heartbroken nub. :D

ahah heartbroken?? no

just annoyed
 #18 
Old 2007-09-11, 22:59
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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of course not.

basically what I was asking is would you spend a good 4+ hours making out with a guy then tell him your not interested 2 days later

No girl will admit to being a tease, unless she's a stone cold bitch who REALLY doesn't give a fuck.

You see, what they do is they justify it.

When a girl makes out with a guy for 4+ hours one night, then blows them off completely afterward, she calls it "losing interest". Therefore, in her mind, she hasn't lead anyone on.

That's just one example. All women are born with superhuman manipulation abilities. Granted, not all of them use these abilities to their full capacity, but they all use them at least some of the time, some more than others.
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Old 2007-09-11, 23:19
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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Men are bad at using nonverbal cues, and worse at reading them. Statistically, much worse than women. So you could be reading affection that is not there and being felt like your lead on, when the woman had no intent to do so.
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Old 2007-09-12, 00:01
Running Free Running Free is offline
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No girl will admit to being a tease, unless she's a stone cold bitch who REALLY doesn't give a fuck.

Haha, my ex admitted to it. Stupid whore.
 #21 
Old 2007-09-12, 00:24
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totse
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of course not.

basically what I was asking is would you spend a good 4+ hours making out with a guy then tell him your not interested 2 days later

no. i would never make out with someone i wasn't interested in.
 #22 
Old 2007-09-12, 16:33
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bangor northern ireland
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Quote:
Originally Posted by I Want Revenge
Hmm I think I do a bit without meaning to. But hell, I've been lead on by guys before and I mean so bad that it pretty much destroyed me for a couple months. No one deserves it purposely and accidentally really isn't that pleasant either.


being lead on is nice... when it 'stops' is when its bad.... think about it.
 #23 
Old 2007-09-12, 16:50
lakelaxrookie49 lakelaxrookie49 is offline
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Originally Posted by genericwittyusername
Men are bad at using nonverbal cues, and worse at reading them. Statistically, much worse than women. So you could be reading affection that is not there and being felt like your lead on, when the woman had no intent to do so.


yes. I make myself victim to this all the time :(
 #24 
Old 2007-09-14, 01:38
I Want Revenge I Want Revenge is offline
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I did it by accident. She was in love, I wanted the sex. Thats the only time though.

Accident as in without realizing.
 #25 
Old 2007-09-14, 02:01
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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Originally Posted by Bean_Doodle
Because most pretty girls know on a subcouncious level that a great way to connect with guys is to be 'nice' to them.
Remember, theyre all insecure, and theyve found out that men react positively when they are a bit extra 'nice' to them.
I dont think most of them actually know theyre leading men on, its just their way to reach out.


I like this theory. I've lead on a few boys. But it's not because I mean to hurt them, it's just because I know how rejection feels and I don't like doing that to other people. I pretty much can't help but be nice to everyone, and sometimes that leads to a guy thinking I'm into them when I'm not. It's pretty lame, but it's not like guys fall for me very often so whatever.
 #26 
Old 2007-09-14, 02:10
CarbonB CarbonB is offline
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I like this theory. I've lead on a few boys. But it's not because I mean to hurt them, it's just because I know how rejection feels and I don't like doing that to other people. I pretty much can't help but be nice to everyone, and sometimes that leads to a guy thinking I'm into them when I'm not. It's pretty lame, but it's not like guys fall for me very often so whatever.

You started off good, I actually started to like you based on this sentiment, and then you went and insulted yourself? Why is that?
 #27 
Old 2007-09-14, 02:14
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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I didn't mean it as an insult to myself...I'm just a normal girl, and as far as I know, normal girls don't have guys falling for them every month or whatever...Right?
 #28 
Old 2007-09-14, 02:26
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Canada
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Sick_Boy
I didn't mean it as an insult to myself...I'm just a normal girl, and as far as I know, normal girls don't have guys falling for them every month or whatever...Right?


Yes, but guys always have a hard time believing that's true.
 #29 
Old 2007-09-14, 02:35
kappelpie kappelpie is offline
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Most girls like to delude themselves into thinking that they're just being really really "friendly", because knowing that they're leading people on is too much of a reality check for them. On the other hand I also don't like to hurt people, it's hard to try to make friends when the other person is looking for something more.
 #30 
Old 2007-09-14, 02:40
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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Originally Posted by kappelpie
Most girls like to delude themselves into thinking that they're just being really really "friendly", because knowing that they're leading people on is too much of a reality check for them. On the other hand I also don't like to hurt people, it's hard to try to make friends when the other person is looking for something more.


Are you saying girls can't be really friendly with a person?
 #31 
Old 2007-09-14, 03:26
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East end
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Pfft, I've already done the leading with you, you're now twisting around my little finger. :p

I got something you can sit and twist on for a couple hours, sweetheart! ;)
 #32 
Old 2007-09-14, 04:44
CarbonB CarbonB is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Sick_Boy
I didn't mean it as an insult to myself...I'm just a normal girl, and as far as I know, normal girls don't have guys falling for them every month or whatever...Right?


....yeah, normal.

Yes, but guys always have a hard time believing that's true.

*Vomits* Stop trying to be, "I understand" guy all the fucking time.
 #33 
Old 2007-09-14, 10:36
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I'm nice to everyone I can be in real life. If someone is daft enough to assume that I'm leading them on..

I dont know. I dont think that has happened.
 #34 
Old 2007-09-14, 14:27
CarbonB CarbonB is offline
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Originally Posted by yoyobek
I'm nice to everyone I can be in real life. If someone is daft enough to assume that I'm leading them on..

I dont know. I dont think that has happened.


I don't think anyone WANTS to be lead on by you yoyo.
 #35 
Old 2007-09-14, 17:24
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bangor northern ireland
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I don't think anyone WANTS to be lead on by you yoyo.

i almost thought that was a good burn, but then i realised no-one wants to be lead on by anyone...
 #36 
Old 2007-09-14, 19:51
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West Xylophone
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I don't think anyone WANTS to be lead on by you yoyo.

do you have to spend all your entire time on totse insulting the female members?
 #37 
Old 2007-09-14, 22:38
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bangor northern ireland
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do you have to spend all your entire time on totse insulting the female members?

he's just lashing out cus he's fat...


*waits for carbon B to make an amazing comeback that will pwn my very existance*
 #38 
Old 2007-09-14, 22:41
CarbonB CarbonB is offline
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do you have to spend all your entire time on totse insulting the female members?

Yeah, I don't lash out at all the female members, just the idiots. Thanks for caring though :)

he's just lashing out cus he's fat...


*waits for carbon B to make an amazing comeback that will pwn my very existance*

...yeah.
 #39 
Old 2007-09-14, 23:39
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West Xylophone
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Yeah, I don't lash out at all the female members, just the idiots. Thanks for caring though :)



hey wait you didn't lash out at me. Holy shit CarbonB accepted me. EVERYONE CARBONB DOESN'T THINK I'M AN IDIOT. I'M ON TOP OF THE WORLD!!
 #40 
Old 2007-09-15, 00:24
CarbonB CarbonB is offline
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hey wait you didn't lash out at me. Holy shit CarbonB accepted me. EVERYONE CARBONB DOESN'T THINK I'M AN IDIOT. I'M ON TOP OF THE WORLD!!

And then you got demoted...
 
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