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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-09-08, 19:42
Lobo Lobo is offline
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Default Perfect Combination for Picking up women?

Ive been reading and researching on the many '' How to pick up women'' ebooks , seminars , blah blah blah. etc.

Ive come up with my own unique twist to it.

Some totsean especially women might get offended by some of the ideas I am going to say , but please listen with an open mind and I dont mean to come off as an asshole.

Different kinds of women , like different kind of men. In order to attract the widest array of women you find attractive. You would need to learn how to adapt. The best way I've noticed to do this is to devoid yourself of a concious and sense of morality.

''The lack of a sense of guilt or remorse, a lack of empathy towards others in general, resulting in tactlessness, insensitivity, and contemptuousness, a tendency to make a good, likable first impression, a superficial charm, enabled by a low self-consciousness, and a willingness to say anything without concern for accuracy or truth. On several occasions he is shown to pattern his actions after people in his immediate vicinity, such as when he is preoccupied and unable to respond appropriately. It is not uncommon for psychopaths who try to blend in, to live "two lives," often model their behavior on people they believe are normal. ''

This is a direct reflection of the personality of Patrick Bateman. He is my archetypal ideal of someone who knows what he wants and knows how to get it.

Now

Replace his sociopathic bloodlust with a lust for the opposite sex while leaving everything more or less the same.

Incorparated with
The game by Neil Strauss
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Game:_Penetrating_the_Secret_Society_of_Pickup _Artists

also

David Deangelo's
Double your Dating
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Double_Your_Dating.

Would make one Ideal Ladies man.

If you have read the last two you might see how this next topic might be able to help you also.

A good book on Dog training.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dog_training

(optional , though i reccomend it.)

That previous one might have angered some people. Im not implying women are bitches by the way , no pun intended.

Also some research on
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming

Will aid greatly.

So to sum it up.

An archetypal mindset of Patrick Bateman

The Game

Double your Dating

Dog Training

and

NLP.

If all constructed together properly would work tremendously on picking up attractive women.

The idea isnt to make you loved by everyone , The idea is to attract women that you want. Alot of you might find this crude , but I think this might help some people.
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Old 2007-09-08, 19:58
CarbonB CarbonB is offline
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Tell us something we don't know Jack, and by Jack I mean Jackass.
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Old 2007-09-08, 21:35
BlackAbstract919 BlackAbstract919 is offline
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If you leave your house with the intention of "Picking Up" women then its sad and pathetic how much energy and time you put into faking confidence. Whenever i leave my house with the intention of having fun i somehow mange to "hook-up" with chicks which requires no effort at all, just me being myself. When you find the need to lie to the world to give someone a false impression of yourself to feel worthwhile or important then life itself is sad and pathetic.
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Old 2007-09-08, 21:55
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Originally Posted by BlackAbstract919
If you leave your house with the intention of "Picking Up" women then its sad and pathetic how much energy and time you put into faking confidence. Whenever i leave my house with the intention of having fun i somehow mange to "hook-up" with chicks which requires no effort at all, just me being myself. When you find the need to lie to the world to give someone a false impression of yourself to feel worthwhile or important then life itself is sad and pathetic.


Bit drastic.

There's nothing wrong with having a strategy already in your mind.

Also saying its pathetic is a matter of opinion.

Some people might argue the way you go out and live your life is pathetic.

Too each his own.

This isnt a mandatory way to pick up women , its just a point of view.

If you can pick up women , by doing what you always have done.

good for you.

Just knock it if you havent tried it.
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Old 2007-09-08, 22:07
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I tend to have a lot of opinions on the matter, and as someone who has read all of these books too, including Balmer and Strauss and Deangelo and Jeffries and Mystery, I'd like to think I'm moderately well informed about where you're coming from.

In his "annihilation method" (excellent package, by the way), Strauss is especially emphatic on the fact that in the art of pickup, you need never lie to women. The key to attacting women is to prove social worth (using any number of methods) and to be your best self. You can learn all of the openers in the world, all of the gimmicks, all of the NLP, and all of the behavioral psychology you want to; it will help. But until you learn to prove your social worth and show women your best attributes, you're sunk.

There is a plethora of information out there, millions and millions of words over thousands of pages on this topic. Countless men are searching, comrades on a quest to get the girl. It's a universal thing, a primitive and evolutionarily developed system. Not everyone can master it, but everyone can try.

I'm not going to make this post any longer than it needs to be, but I want anyone who's gotten to this point to understand: let it be known, there is no method guaranteed to work for every guy. The only way to develop your skills, improving both your love life and all of your relationships with others, is to become informed, and apply what you've researched, and then, see what works. There is no magic bullet, there is no secret method. It all boils down to a simple equation, and, ironically, it is one of TOTSE's slogans:

Read * Know * Do
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Old 2007-09-08, 22:41
BlackAbstract919 BlackAbstract919 is offline
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Bit drastic.

There's nothing wrong with having a strategy already in your mind.

Also saying its pathetic is a matter of opinion.

Some people might argue the way you go out and live your life is pathetic.

Too each his own.

This isnt a mandatory way to pick up women , its just a point of view.

If you can pick up women , by doing what you always have done.

good for you.

Just knock it if you havent tried it.
Fair enough, different strokes for different folks.
Edit- Then again if the tables were turned and a chick gave me "The Game", yea she would get the dick but in the end i wouldn't respect her and i doubt she would respect herself.
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Old 2007-09-09, 00:26
NiGhT PrOwLeR NiGhT PrOwLeR is offline
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my god!
you fucking people are amazing,

you dont need e-books and torrents and uber pharamone injections to meet a woman,
seriously people
get off your ass and stop reading this horseshit

go out have some fun and see what happens,
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Old 2007-09-09, 01:47
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Easier said then done. Yea you dont need to abide by the book(s) to get the job done with females, but using them will aid your chances and give you the edge.

As for the acting yourself thing, yea thatll work but unless your a type of person demonstrating yourself a certain way, girls wont think shit of you if you do not know how to come across right. Reading these writings help some guys to understand how to do so since they do not have what it takes to begin with. Then that way they can either create a "false" imitation of what they need to be, or CHANGE into what they need to be. A lot of girls dont give a 2nd chance, so if you fuck up your first impressions with a girl your done! Some guys cant act how they need to act the 1st time around, therefore they are done, even though it was not intentional to give the wrong impression.

And whos going to be dumb enough to lie about something in front of an attractive girl. Yea your trying to showoff but if you know better you wont do it cause you'll know she'll find out the truth after getting to know you more. Wont last that long.
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Old 2007-09-09, 02:54
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Quote:
Originally Posted by BlackAbstract919
If you leave your house with the intention of "Picking Up" women then its sad and pathetic how much energy and time you put into faking confidence. Whenever i leave my house with the intention of having fun i somehow mange to "hook-up" with chicks which requires no effort at all, just me being myself. When you find the need to lie to the world to give someone a false impression of yourself to feel worthwhile or important then life itself is sad and pathetic.


I concur...
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Old 2007-09-09, 03:17
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Ive been reading and researching on the many '' How to pick up women'' ebooks , seminars , blah blah blah. etc.


Are you fucking kidding me? books, seminars?
i have few questions, really:
1 how old are you?
2 did you get laid before the seminars?
3 are you getting laid now?

i don't know if you know this, but girls like dick!!! no way huhConfused?

you are not a fucking hunter trying to lure your pray into your trap.(at least i hope not)
your just a guy trying to get laid and girls like getting laid.(problem solved)

Unless you are an ugly motherfucker, you really don't need all that shit.

Be yourself. And if someone doesn't want to fuck you because of who you are, well, fuck them.

i am not 10 out of 10 nor am i a smooth operator, but i can get almost any girl cause i am not afraid of them, nor do i come of as an emo-pervert that reads books on how to stimulate a G-spot.

i know its read-know-do but getting girls is one of those exceptions.
Its trial and error guys its trial and error
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Old 2007-09-09, 03:25
Lobo Lobo is offline
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Some of you seem to be mistaken.

Im not trying to pick up women or Do I have trouble doing so.

I am merely theorizing something that was on my mind and totse is the best way I could express it.

This is just something that I thought of to pick up women.

I dont actually walk around acting like a physcopathic yuppie doing robotic openers and reading out of a textbook.

Im actually very happy where I am right now in my life regarding women.

I dont have a girlfreind simply because I dont see the reason for it.

I could get women I wouldnt mind fucking , to do so.

This point in my life thats basically all I want to do.

I didnt post this to defend pick up artist books.

This is merely something I have come up with from my own personal experiences and thought it might help some people.

Ofcourse you need confidence and just be yourself.

Some people selves suck ass though , as nitrousmafia explained.

(I could actually understood everything you typed , good job. lulsz.)
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Old 2007-09-09, 16:29
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This thread is very interesting and innovative. I have learned a lot of new information from it.
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Old 2007-09-09, 17:49
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Are you fucking kidding me? books, seminars?
i have few questions, really:
1 how old are you?
2 did you get laid before the seminars?
3 are you getting laid now?

i don't know if you know this, but girls like dick!!! no way huhConfused?

you are not a fucking hunter trying to lure your pray into your trap.(at least i hope not)
your just a guy trying to get laid and girls like getting laid.(problem solved)

Unless you are an ugly motherfucker, you really don't need all that shit.

Be yourself. And if someone doesn't want to fuck you because of who you are, well, fuck them.

i am not 10 out of 10 nor am i a smooth operator, but i can get almost any girl cause i am not afraid of them, nor do i come of as an emo-pervert that reads books on how to stimulate a G-spot.

i know its read-know-do but getting girls is one of those exceptions.
Its trial and error guys its trial and error

Please kill yourself, because you have no fucking idea about this thing called "life".
 
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