So, one of my high school friends came back from Cali like a few months ago. She is a girl and claims to be Bi, and recently straight lesbian haha. So she recently moved to colorado, losing the "love of her life" they were together and broke up many many times. now I caught her on one of her break ups.

But anyways, So a few months ago she was going to get evicted and we stayed the night getting trying to pack shit up. Instead we decided to get drunk, so as we are getting drunk we started getting touchy and flirty and sooner or later I'm fucking her. Now remember she was broken up with that girl just recently, and she even cried during sex because of it (fucking awkward btw)

After a few days everything was ok, not much talking because her phone died out, no bills paid. She ended getting back with her girlfriend and kinda got distant. So, after maybe a week or two went by i went to Vegas, and got fucking trashed and decided to call her up. AND I DON'T REMEMBER WHAT SAID TO HER. But it fucked shit up BAD. Through like a month or two we didn't even talk, and because I tried to straighten shit out she thought of me as a stalker. She even wanted to "call the cops", but i just left it alone for a bit.

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Anyways zoom to today, now her and me are cool. Last night she brought me to a strip club and we had fun. I started to talk to her about some shit, and she tells me what she did with me was "lust" so it doesn't matter. And the only reason why we can't sex it up is because she sees me as a, "Big Brother" and we cant cross the line. Even though she still thinks of me as attractive.

Now I pose some questions:

1) If a girl finds you attractive and is your "best bud" isn't it presumable to consider dating this person?

2) Since totse girls, are so damn honest, Is this some kind of game to be played to test my "loyalty"?

Just give me some input, boys or girls all welcomed. Show some empathy please so I know your not just pulling this shit out your ass, so if you have been in this situation or near it PLEASE post something. If you never dated or kiss just some input haha. Thanks ahead of time

If anything needs to be cleared up let me know.

The "big brother" part makes me say no, you really shouldn't waste your time trying to make a relationship happen with this girl. Get her drunk and fuck her, that's probably as far as you'll get.

Oh man she flew right past the friend, brother and went straight to BIG Brother. That is a straight knee to the ballz

This is what I get for being a moderately intelligent, ok looking man...

I'm not worried about getting other girls if she doesn't come along, but she kinda feels like the first REAL connection I have had with a girl. kinda sucks to think this wont work out, but no worries.

I am naive so I will still probably pursue this girl... which is another sad thing.

And like just right now, I told her I was going to an exclusive hotel party last night, thats on Saturday.

But I made arrangements just now for this other girl I am pursuing, and she is saying, "oh you can get her in but not me". I told her I thought she wasn't interested and now your making me feel bad and she says, "Don't feel bad, if you really wanted me to go you would have made it a priority. I'm good, do your thing."

WTF! that to me shows jealousy which normally implies interest no?

She's fucking weird dude, I wouldn't mess with that.

She don't want you like that man. Once you're a "big brother", that means no more nookie for you.

She just needed a fuck that night...Take it as a beautiful, string-free thing and get on with life, man.

she also said that i was her best friend and like a brother, though she fucked me, so I kinda think she is doing this to temporarily push me off you know? to see what she wants, so I do give her space and all.