I've known a girl for 6 years now. We were friends for a while but then lost contact until two years ago we met again coincidentally.
Since then we've had a tense flirty relationship, hampered by the fact we've always been with other people!
She broke up with her previous boyfriend who was destroyed by the incident and seeking solace she agreed to have a 'relationship' (this was a conversation they had) after -some douche- kissed her.
So here I am, almost kicking myself that I hadn't expressed myself quicker. But on the other hand, she bitches constantly about how it was such a bad idea.

We're at a stage where she sees me more than her boyfriend, we always have fun and the sexual tension is electric. We've shared some incredible moment where afterwards we can only snuggle and kiss each other's cheeks.

I missed a phone call this morning because I worked night that she wanted me to come over to her house for a drink -at 11am-. Kicking myself about that one, but I suggested we go ice skating on the weekend.

I'm going to keep being myself. Keep showing her how I feel. But I'm not going to cheat with her. That's definitely not on the cards. Because I want all of her.
Totse! What are your man/woman-on-the-side stories? Did they work out? What advice would you have to give me? Do you think the whole thing is completely immoral?!

Peace out.

well it depends how much you can get away with until the boyfriend finds out. Fuck her a couple times but be ready with a gun after that at any sign of trouble...

If she thinks being with this dude is a mistake then why doesn't she just dump his arse and get with you?

I know you're gonna say "Ahhhh...Uncle Psycho...It's not that easy blah blah blah".

But it is. She don't really wanna be with him. And the tension bewteen you is "electric"...Get in there!

and I know you don't wanna cheat with her or something but sometimes it takes that for a girl to really think "hey...This guy is great to me, I love being around him and we always have fun. What am I doing with -douche bag-?"

Hope that helps.

Just work on making yourself better, don't worry about downplaying the d-bag. She'll see 2 guys: One a d-bag who's working to hard to be with her, the other a nice friend who is working hard on himself... What do you think she'll choose?