So here's my predicament, I was with this girl for almost three years, I love her to death... But we ended up drifting apart for one reason or another, she found somebody else but isn't actually in a relationship with him. She claims that she doesn't want a relationship right now, and obviously we still have feelings for each other. But I'm racking my brains thinking about her, every minute of the day something reminds me of her. Should I just move on, or put myself through hell waiting for her to come back while I watch her flirt around with this other guy?


I honestly don't have a clue what I should do, so please help me out Totse.

Move on. I've seen too many of my friends get back together with their ex, with inevitable disastrous results. The more you see this girl flirting with another guy, the worse its going to make you feel.

It didnt work out with her once, what makes you think it would work out again?

History has a sad tendency of repeat itself.

Well, it was my fault we "drifted apart" in the first place, we both still have feelings for each other.. But even if I tried to move on, I just remember too much about her, and I can't seem to get her off my mind.

Heroin.

Been there, done that... It's no fun and it doesn't help anything.