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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-09-05, 10:13
Piggy Piggy is offline
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Me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for almost 2 months and things have been going great so far, except when I try to initiate sex...

She's slept over a couple times so I could drop her off at school when her folks were away (I'm 17, she's almost 16), and every night she's stayed over she's totally shut me down. She came up with a whole bunch of bullshit excuses like "But we've only just started going out!" and "I don't think I'm ready". I understand that she's a virgin and all... but this is getting ridiculous!

I've been thinking about dumping her for her equally hot friend who's a total whore. Her friend has already sucked me off at this one party and she was pretty good..

What do you guys think? Tip? advice? Anything?
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Old 2007-09-05, 10:14
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Old 2007-09-05, 10:17
Holy Martyr Holy Martyr is offline
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Why dump when you can cheat?

Well, I tell you this, as soon as you dump her, she is gonna be banging someone you know very well. Just to piss ya off!
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Old 2007-09-05, 10:37
Duck In Fog Duck In Fog is offline
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Originally Posted by Piggy
Me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for almost 2 months and things have been going great so far, except when I try to initiate sex...

She's slept over a couple times so I could drop her off at school when her folks were away (I'm 17, she's almost 16), and every night she's stayed over she's totally shut me down. She came up with a whole bunch of bullshit excuses like "But we've only just started going out!" and "I don't think I'm ready". I understand that she's a virgin and all... but this is getting ridiculous!

I've been thinking about dumping her for her equally hot friend who's a total whore. Her friend has already sucked me off at this one party and she was pretty good..

What do you guys think? Tip? advice? Anything?


Give 1 good reason why she should lose her virginity to an asshole like you.

Two months, she's a virgin n you want to finish with her because she's not ready to have sex? You're a prick. You clearly don't understand.
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Old 2007-09-05, 10:51
Mojo Savage Mojo Savage is offline
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Give 1 good reason why she should lose her virginity to an asshole like you.

Two months, she's a virgin n you want to finish with her because she's not ready to have sex? You're a prick. You clearly don't understand.


Quoted for truth. If you are serious, and not just having a bad night, then you are a prick.
Other than that, you can wait until she's damn well ready or leave her to better men than yourself.

Sorry,
Mojo Savage
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Old 2007-09-05, 12:10
twisted_miss twisted_miss is offline
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I agree with Mojo and Duck. Either you leave her for someone who's willing to put out to feed your (apparently rather selfish) desire for sex, or you actually like her enough to respect her decision, and stay with her until she's ready. You don't pressure girls into doing things they don't want to just to satisy the urges you can deal with elsewhere, especially when it will probably fuck them up for a long time if they cave to your pressure.

- T_M
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Old 2007-09-05, 12:12
moonmeister moonmeister is offline
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Are there no sheep or chickens where you are? Have you no sister, cousin or mother?
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Old 2007-09-05, 12:14
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I think dumping your girlfriend for a slut who'd fuck anything is despicable.
But at the same time your girlfriend has an obligation to please you.

BUT, if she's a virgin, and she's only been dating for 2 months.. that's not alot of time for some girls. It sucks that she's putting pussy on a pedestal to an extent, but you cant blame her if she's very much a newb to sex and relations.

give her a little more time?

2 months really isnt a long time.
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Old 2007-09-05, 12:47
Holy Martyr Holy Martyr is offline
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You say she is almost 16... So I guess she is not legal. How about you wait till she is legal?
You know her uncooperativeness might actully be a good thing for the moment.
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Old 2007-09-05, 15:41
Zonko Zonko is offline
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People over react to teenage drama at times.

Also: Possibly troll post.
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Old 2007-09-05, 15:59
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Originally Posted by Zonko
People over react to teenage drama at times.

Also: Possibly troll post.


No alarms going off in the yoyobek batcave. Piggy doesent troll, usually.
 #12 
Old 2007-09-05, 23:42
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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I say go for the whore. You're 17 and she's 15, it's just some fucking highschool relationship. If she won't give it up, go fuck someone else. To quote Gradpa: "Listen to me, I got no reason to lie to you, don't make the same mistakes I made when I was young. Fuck a lotta women kid, not just one woman, a lotta women."
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Old 2007-09-05, 23:53
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What an immature bitch. Sounds like this virgin cunt is just using you like an emotional tampon, if she doesn't even want to fuck you. She's worthless and on a moral level worse than a whore ever could be.

At least her friend would be honest and upfront to you about her desires, and not trick you into doing her favors and shit all for a sexless relationship.

Dump her, don't go out with the slut though, find a more mature yet clean girl who's at least somewhat in touch with her own desires and isn't going to play you for a sucka.
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Old 2007-09-05, 23:55
kaworu_nagisa kaworu_nagisa is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Piggy
Me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for almost 2 months and things have been going great so far, except when I try to initiate sex...

She's slept over a couple times so I could drop her off at school when her folks were away (I'm 17, she's almost 16), and every night she's stayed over she's totally shut me down. She came up with a whole bunch of bullshit excuses like "But we've only just started going out!" and "I don't think I'm ready". I understand that she's a virgin and all... but this is getting ridiculous!

I've been thinking about dumping her for her equally hot friend who's a total whore. Her friend has already sucked me off at this one party and she was pretty good..

What do you guys think? Tip? advice? Anything?



ok piggy a few things. i would TOTALLY fuckin agree with you if she WASN'T a virgin, but since she is, and chicks are all bs about their virginity, i'd say go for the whore, UNLESS you're virgin gf does other shit like handjobs, blowjobs, etc. IF she does stuff like that then stick it out till she's ready
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Old 2007-09-06, 00:41
Running Free Running Free is offline
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What the hell?
Just because you are "dating" a girl, it doesn't mean she has an obligation to have sex with you.
Especially if the two of you are only in high school.
If you are willing to break up with her on the grounds of no sex, you need to get your fucking priorities straightened out.
I don't know how it is where you are, but where I'm from, we generally take relationships seriously (for the most part, there are some whores) and they don't revolve around sex.
Do you care about her, or do you just care about the fact that you can't get some?
 
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