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 #1 
Old 2007-09-05, 04:27
kenton kenton is offline
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Default How To Tell If You're Gay

It's weird sometimes I get feelings for women sometimes I get feelings for men. I like the whole finger up ass thing when masturbating not all the time though.

2 gay guys think I'm gay and are after me

3 girls think I'm gay

I like to wear nice clothes.

Sometimes I feel extereme attraction towards women and sometimes I feel no attraction towards women. Towards men though I have never felt extreme attraction maybe just a little interest.

On the other hand....

I loved having my fuck buddy which was a girl.

Ugh... if any guy here is gay how did you find out you were, what made you finally snap and realize it?
 #2 
Old 2007-09-05, 04:29
gr4381582 gr4381582 is offline
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

Perhaps you're..... bisexual?
 #3 
Old 2007-09-05, 04:33
Bazzle Bazzle is offline
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I like the good ol' 1-2 in me arse when I'm getting blown, and if she wants to play strapon I'm down for it.
MMF, bring it.
Live for experience.
The pretty enough bai comes along, I might even fuck him.

Doesn't matter if you accept a label as a fag or not, you gotta do what you want to do.
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Old 2007-09-05, 04:34
kenton kenton is offline
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

Perhaps you're..... bisexual?

I dunno, maybe, I didn't think guys could be.

I'm not extremely feminine but I'm not extremely masculine.

I do wear earrings but they're more like bling.
 #5 
Old 2007-09-05, 05:33
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

Ehhh just do what you like man. Do what feels good and don't try to analyze it.
 #6 
Old 2007-09-05, 06:17
Suicide_Mouse Suicide_Mouse is offline
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

HA! Of course guys can be bi!
I am to some degree.
Just take a look at my thread about sexual orientation and you'll see all the somewhat bi guys.

Anyways, your just confused with your feelings, don't rush them. Just do what comes naturally. Someday you'll have a pretty good idea of what you are.
 #7 
Old 2007-09-05, 06:36
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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Again, I love suicide mouse's wisdom. Don't try to decide on anything just yet. At any stage in one's psychological progression (and different spheres progress at different times), this kind of confusion is perfectly normal. It all depends on how you define love as a person (fuck as an infant, that shit is just the most easy phase to spot problems, 'cuz really, who cares about babies. the most important shit is when you truly start to develop a personality [which changes but essentially changes] and start to realize who you are as a being, as a person.

Ok, this is totally not related to this conversation, but fuck man, REA agrees that dogs are people. And so are (at least) the more cognitive beings on our planet. Anyone who thinks that animals can't be people has never really loved a dog/cat/hamster/gerbil/ferret/guinea pig or whatever. And those that can think animals are people and can really understand how people exist. We're animals. Just more complex.

And so, we have basic desires which we follow or try to hide. One or the other. Once you feel like you want something wayyyy more than its alternative, that's generally a good idea of your sexual orientation.
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Old 2007-09-05, 15:00
Khepri Khepri is offline
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

I do wear earrings but they're more like bling.


That settles it, you are gay.
 #9 
Old 2007-09-06, 00:07
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

you posting a thread on totse.com asking if you're gay or not. +gay
 #10 
Old 2007-09-06, 00:10
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

You're gay if I tell you you are.
 #11 
Old 2007-09-06, 00:22
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

Do you ever have the urge to be smothered with cock?
 #12 
Old 2007-09-06, 02:12
gerifix gerifix is offline
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

Carlos Mencia used to say "If you think you might be gay..then you're gay":D
 #13 
Old 2007-09-08, 16:47
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Quote:
Originally Posted by gerifix
Carlos Mencia used to say "If you think you might be gay..then you're gay":D


Carlos Mencia is also a wetback who steals Bill Cosby's jokes.
 #14 
Old 2007-09-08, 17:03
Howard Radford Howard Radford is offline
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

You're only gay if, you are given the option between fucking Jessica Biel, and Barry Watson, and you choose Barry Watson.
 #15 
Old 2007-09-08, 17:08
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1. Get a boner.
2. Visit a gay porn site and try to masturbate.
3. ???
4. PROFIT!
 #16 
Old 2007-09-08, 18:20
getoffmylawn getoffmylawn is offline
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

if you watch "american idol" you're probably gay. Only queers and chinks like kareoke
 #17 
Old 2007-09-08, 19:13
Suicide_Mouse Suicide_Mouse is offline
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Someone who's bi could get off to gay porn theoretically.
Like I said before just don't worry about it and live it out.
No rush.
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Old 2007-09-09, 00:02
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

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Originally Posted by getoffmylawn
if you watch "american idol" you're probably gay. Only queers and chinks like kareoke


Unless your drunk. Then its ok to do karaoke.
 #19 
Old 2007-09-09, 00:22
vafhudr vafhudr is offline
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

Watch www.meatspin.com if you get turned on and watch 40000 spins your gay
 #20 
Old 2007-09-09, 00:26
Kubosu Kubosu is offline
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i dont feel like looking back to see who said this but forget about the titles just do what feels good.
if you like a girl: hit that shit
if you like a guy by all means: hit that shit
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Old 2007-09-09, 01:22
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

Gay test:

QUICK! Look at your fingernails, then read below!

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Okay. If, when looking at your fingernails, you pushed your hand out in front of you and stretched out your fingers.. you're gay.

If, instead, you curled your fingers into your palm (like making a manly fist ^^) and looked at the upside-down.. you're straight!

Congratulations on discovering your sexuality.
 #22 
Old 2007-09-09, 01:26
Eric Eric is offline
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well I've never really been sexually attracted to a woman. so that's how i knew for sure.

but i kind of knew even way back when the first time i watched porn. it made me horny, but as i watched it i always wanted the guys to go at it instead of just fucking the girls, and would often just masturbate thinking about that instead of to the porn itself.

so i never really just snapped and realized it. it's just always been that way.
 #23 
Old 2007-09-09, 04:35
Suicide_Mouse Suicide_Mouse is offline
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I look at my nails both ways seemingly randomly.
 #24 
Old 2007-09-09, 04:37
Heiko Palm Heiko Palm is offline
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

Perhaps you're..... bisexual?

LMAO!
 #25 
Old 2007-09-09, 04:54
buster_hymen buster_hymen is offline
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

If you are predominantly interested in having sex with, and/or having relationships with members of the same sex (to the exclusion of members of the opposite sex,) then you're gay. It's pretty simple, and yes, of course men can be bisexual.

If I were you, and felt the need to label myself, I'd just consider myself something pretty vague, like "bi-curious" or bisexual. I mean, bisexual doesn't necessarily mean a whole lot. It doesn't really mean it's a clear 50/50 split, attraction wise. You can have a bit of a preference for one or the other and still consider yourself bi.

But, it might just be hormones, too. A few years down the line you may settle comfortably on strictly one side of the fence. Or you may not. Honestly, there's no point in worrying about it. If you think you like someone, just go for it and find out if it works for you. There's really little point in trying to rationalize one's attraction to another, anyways, no matter what one's orientation is.
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Old 2007-09-09, 08:28
kenton kenton is offline
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Originally Posted by buster_hymen
If you are predominantly interested in having sex with, and/or having relationships with members of the same sex (to the exclusion of members of the opposite sex,) then you're gay. It's pretty simple, and yes, of course men can be bisexual.

If I were you, and felt the need to label myself, I'd just consider myself something pretty vague, like "bi-curious" or bisexual. I mean, bisexual doesn't necessarily mean a whole lot. It doesn't really mean it's a clear 50/50 split, attraction wise. You can have a bit of a preference for one or the other and still consider yourself bi.

But, it might just be hormones, too. A few years down the line you may settle comfortably on strictly one side of the fence. Or you may not. Honestly, there's no point in worrying about it. If you think you like someone, just go for it and find out if it works for you. There's really little point in trying to rationalize one's attraction to another, anyways, no matter what one's orientation is.


No the problem is there is a lot of pressure against me. A girl keeps on saying "come out of the closet, I know you're gay". She thinks so because I have highlights in my hair and earrings and I dress nice. I KNOW how gay that sounds but really I don't think I am or if I am it'd just be bi-curiosity. Also, some gay guys think I'm gay and they hit on me constantly even though I tell them I'm not gay. It's werid though, the more worried I am the more worried I become and I experiment with acting gay and doing gaylike things. Like sometimes talking in a feminie way (not with a lisp just not as deep as I usually do) or the whole masturbation thing , just really experimenting acting gay.

I think I do have a little bit of a feminine side but I can't really masturbate to gay porn. The real main thing that worries me is my lack of attraction toward other girls.

I know this sounds fucked up but I was in a relationship with this girl about 3 months ago and it was the first time I had sex and I just really loved her and I'd say she was the dominant one in the relationship. Now, whenever I start thinking like her I start thinking of how she treated men and the real fucked up thing is I start acting like her. I think about her watching me taking my cock into her and I wonder what it would be like to be her. Right now I don't feel widespread attraction to most girls though, I just do to this one really cute girl.

All in all, I think I have a curiosity towards men but I really doubt sex would insue but more often I'm having thoughts about sex with men. I know for a fact though that I am definitely attracted to at least some women so I don't know.

Also, my hormones are really flaring right now and I can tell because my acne is starting to appear. Possibly I'm just a confused straight teenager who is too overly curious.
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Old 2007-09-09, 08:29
kenton kenton is offline
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Default Re: How To Tell If You're Gay

Gay test:

QUICK! Look at your fingernails, then read below!


OH NOES! (I looked at my fingernails already on the mouse so I don't know what that means..)
 #28 
Old 2007-09-09, 19:56
Howard Radford Howard Radford is offline
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Originally Posted by HandOfZek
Gay test:

QUICK! Look at your fingernails, then read below!

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Okay. If, when looking at your fingernails, you pushed your hand out in front of you and stretched out your fingers.. you're gay.

If, instead, you curled your fingers into your palm (like making a manly fist ^^) and looked at the upside-down.. you're straight!

Congratulations on discovering your sexuality.


Nice little trick, I thought you were going to say something like if your nails are long, or have polish on them, then he's gay, I always start looking at my nails in a fist, but after I look at them that way I turn my hand over does thar mean I'm BI.
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Old 2007-09-09, 20:40
Otsego_Amigo Otsego_Amigo is offline
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that fingernail thing was bad ass. I'm straight as a fucking ARROW ~!!! *flexes muscle*
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Old 2007-09-11, 02:24
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Originally Posted by Otsego_Amigo
that fingernail thing was bad ass. I'm straight as a fucking ARROW ~!!! *flexes muscle*


an arrow that's been shoved into more asses than a proctologist's hands.
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Old 2007-09-11, 08:18
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if your fingernails are wrapped around a cock you're gay...but really, you know what you are.
 
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