so pretty much the girl that im in love with only likes me when shes intoxicated, i never take advantage of her or anything, but i probably could...

she knows that i really like her, as i have told her, but shes unaware of how much i really do.

i actually just broke up with my gf a couple hours ago because last night at a party girl "A" walked up and randomly kissed me for the first time, and i cant stand the thought of being with anyone but her.

and yea, she has no interest in anything other than being friends when shes sober

im not sure what im asking if anything at all besides maybe some advise.

Could be that she only likes herself when she's drunk; thus allowing her the confidence to do the things she wants to do, like kiss you.

Or....

she knows that i really like her, as i have told her, but shes unaware of how much i really do.

You could just be a retard and when she's drunk she's a little closer to your level, and only then can truly appreciate you.

i actually just broke up with my gf a couple hours ago because last night at a party girl "A" walked up and randomly kissed me for the first time, and i cant stand the thought of being with anyone but her.


It's lookin' like the later.

Either tap that when it's drunk or tell her how much you really like her when she's sober.

I can't stand chicks who fuck around with you when they're drunk and forget you when they sober up...Makes things difficult.

Nah man you need to synthesize the approaches the best way is to fuck her when she's drunk and stay with her till you both pass out/ fall asleep naturally/ sober up and in the morning and/or when you've sobered up tell her how you feel.

BAM.

Drunk raw sex + plus afterglow heart to heart = whatever the fuck you want from her. Seriously, like forever.

Nah man you need to synthesize the approaches the best way is to fuck her when she's drunk and stay with her till you both pass out/ fall asleep naturally/ sober up and in the morning and/or when you've sobered up tell her how you feel.

BAM.

Drunk raw sex + plus afterglow heart to heart = whatever the fuck you want from her. Seriously, like forever.

Legendary advice.

I like.

No seriously. I'm a romantic, but I've found that in most situations, I can make who I want to love me love me. Certain things just click. Turn buttons. Especially if the build up is perfectly timed.

You must teach me the ways!

Write a tutorial! :p

Dude, I wish I could, but for the best way I can explain it, it's something synthesized with neurotic analysis of people's behavior and the belief in one's power over one's environment. Existentialism and anxiety is tight.

I fucked a girl who was the same way, except she ONLY liked me when she was drunk or high.
soo she'd get high fuck me, and afterwards not want to do anything. kinda weird situatian when I look back.

Uh, so keep her constantly inebriated?

You threw away a girl who genuinely liked you for a drunken skank..?



...?


Sorry, that made me laugh for a while. Sounds like something my boyfriend would do.

It's AMAZING the power of beer-goggles. It just seems guys whine about it more than chicks.

It happens, it sucks. I know a guy that looks like filet mignon when I'm wasted then when I'm sober I want to shoot myself in the head anytime I'm in his presence. Ecstasy's even worse. Go by what she says when she's sober because (hopefully) that's what she is the majority of the time and if she's not, do you really want to date a teenage drunk?

I know it's impossible for you to do, but you just need to get over her. You might think you've found the awesomest fish in the sea, but I guarantee you haven't. Just pick out all the bad shit and dwell on it, build of resentment, and then you're good..

It's AMAZING the power of beer-goggles. It just seems guys whine about it more than chicks.

When you wake up next to a monster, you'll understand why whining just can't be helped! :p

Nice to see you Mojo.

Girls actually like guys when their sober???????????????

so pretty much the girl that im in love

Here's your problem. You don't love her, you're not in love with her, and you should just find someone else, as unlikely as it may seem that there'll be someone.

When you wake up next to a monster, you'll understand why whining just can't be helped! :p

Nice to see you Mojo.

She doesn't understand. Guy's are visual and the impact of waking up next to a woman who you regret sleeping with, especially when she is hideous is not fun. Kind of the same feeling of a guy saying he'll call you after you blew him and swallowed and he never does.

Mojo can't relate to either of these things, because she isn't a guy even though she has a dick, and neither does she have feelings, so she can't relate to being a woman.

Fuck + chuck

Most girls would say I'm like this girl. Trust me, she prob likes you whether she's sober or drunk, just unable to show her true feelings, for some reason, when she is sober. It is very contextual, but you could always try just going after her 100%, she'll break eventually when sober and then all the walls will come down. That's how my ex got me eventually. Suffa-fucking-cation.

Just pick out all the bad shit and dwell on it, build of resentment, and then you're good..


im gonna go with this one haha, because ive done this more than a few times with girlfriends... most the time it happens when i talk to people that hate them, so all i hear is negative

Dude, I was being sarcastic. I mean, use it for the battle, but you got to have better strategies for the war, ya know?

i got a knife :)