To those in steady relationships (not long distance or any of those sorts of things)

How often do you have sex? And who initiates it more often?

Would you like to have it more or less?

Me?

When we first started going out, its was everyday, maybe 2 times a day. Now (6 or so months later) i get it once, maybe twice a week. I wish she would do it more, but she insists we should do it less so its more special when we do. ... "More special!? i reply, its always special! but ehh...

So totse, how often do you get it? And what does she tell you to stop you from trying? (if that hasnt happened yet ...argg)

We fucked alot for the first six months, at least once a day, usually more. Now it's dwindled down to a few times a week, but that's mostly because I'm on antidepressants now, and I'm alot less horny. But he gets 3-5 blowjobs a week, so we're not doing too bad, lol.

Edit - ottoman, I agree with your girlfriend. It does make it more special if you do it less often. That way the sexual tension and energy can build up for a few days, so it's more explosive when you do have sex. Maybe it's different for guys though...

Kinda a lot at the moment. Just started dating about 2 weeks ago, roughly 5 days a week.

We fucked alot for the first six months, at least once a day, usually more. Now it's dwindled down to a few times a week, but that's mostly because I'm on antidepressants now, and I'm alot less horny. But he gets 3-5 blowjobs a week, so we're not doing too bad, lol.

really? i started anti- depressants not too long ago, and now all i wanna do is have sex, drink alcohol, and fight...

i love me some prozac

maybe once or twice a week. i always ask for it, he says no, then later on whenhe feels like it, he'll be like 'let's fuck,' so i'm not really sure initiates it

edit: i want it at least once a day, if not more

Never.

Goddamnit.

I've been in a relationship over a year and it's been nearly every day, sometimes multiple times a day.

fuck you. just kidding. i'm jealous.

When I was with my ex it used to be at least 1 time a day for the first 9 months or so then it became really just once at night then later on about 6 months ago I had my antidepressants increased and they totally fucked my sex life up. Some days I want it, some days i cant even think of it, some days I cant get hard, some days I cant stop getting hard, some days I cum in under 5 min, some days I can't cum because I don't feel like fucking for 2-3+ hours.

But if I stop taking them I'd probably kill myself and become insanely anxious to the point where I would kill myself just to escape the anxiety.

Yeah, I'm fucked.

Anyways I feel that couples should talk about what each of them want and then find a middle ground and do that.

I havent gotten laid since july

Schools starting soon, and we all know how hard it is to meet girls when their not forced to share the same room with you.

^ Fuck you it's been over a year for me.

Sorry, I'm just mad.

Define "sex".

Weird. I dated this girl for 6 months and in those months we had sex like 3 times and it sucked each time, we just really didn't connect sexually it was weird. Anyways, I got back together with her like a week or two ago and I've gotten laid at least once every day for the past 2 weeks.

I fucking love it. Whatever happened. The break we took or whatever just sparked something and now she wants sex as much as i do if not more. We fuck everywhere its insane. Her mom will leave to walk the dog around the block and she immediately asks me if I think I can cum in time for her mom to get home and us have our clothes on. Usually I can but I don't really like rushing it.

I've still yet to ask her about road head. We drive around together a lot to nowhere in particular so some head during that would be nice. She loves giving head just about as much as I love getting it. :)

Couldn't be happier.:)

Not fuckin' often enough.

It's been four lonely months. :(

Sex? Hmmm ...oh I remember ...thats that thing where you put bits of you in bits of her...

I think I remember reading about it in a history book once...


(wife's been away too damn long).

This is why I firmly believe in being part of the Islamic faith...

You got your wife who's been away too long...So you bust out the other wife (your hand) and just be another Muslim wanker!

Everyday usually sometimes we don't meet up for a day in the week though. More then once a day sometimes.

Every time we see each other, and usually multiple times then.

So far about twice or three times a week, since thanks to college I have only spare time on one day a weekend.

I'm single, so not enough.

Every 2 months or so, depends if I have a fuck buddy or not at the time, and what city I'm in haha.

its allmost been a full yea since I have have teh sEx0rrzZ

well, im not in a relationship at the moment and the school year has just begun. im a big hit with the sophomore chicks. so maybe 2-3 times a week. i live in a town known for the sluts:)

We used to all the time. Recently I'm really put off.

I feel stupid because I'm NOW put off by something my boyfriend said about an ex and what he liked before I even knew him.

I'm a retard but it put a horrible image in my head and one of the things he said pretty much told me what he'd done with an ex. The one I think he had pics on his wall of when we got together...

But now I'd just feel odd...
And I want to so much. <=[

Grrrr

About 10-12 times in 9 days, and now back to long distance. Fuckkkk. It's been about a week.

It varies greatly. We've been living together for two years and sometimes we'll do it once a day for a week and then go another week and only do it once or so.

3 times a day. I've known my hand my whole life, I'd call that a relationship.

WIN!!

Ummmm...ahhhh....

Ummm...just let me get my calendar... :)

well I dont have a boyfriend buttttt when I do, I hope we do it alll the time, at least once a week.

Do you ^^^ want to borrow my calendar?

Yes! I just read the whole thread and realized I won the contest!

I haven't had sex in over two years. :(

I want a horse

Want a sheep...then

I can get me

A good nights sleep!

My last fuck buddy was like.. in June? But now that we're back in school, I've got about five girls on my short list, and I swear as Byss as my witness, I will get pussy within the next two weeks.

This fuck is for you buddy.

Oh! Hell!

That is bloody!

You, sir!

Are a gyooood buddy!

^ sounds like you need secks :p

I like the thexxth?

I just don't much care for human-style creatures. After all? What is a human being but a thing that on occasion drops out of a girl's bum? Causing her (& everyone else) no end of difficulty from then on. :p

So...jump up & get down

Jump up & jump around!

Sounds like moonmeister is at least as high as I am.

Fuck! I am jealous of most of you. I use to get it like once a week, until she pulled the "I dont want to do it anymore until I am married" so now I dont get it at all. All i get is the hand job once a week, and nothing else....now Im depressed....

edit: We have been together for two years as of May and are 19 and 20....

I wish!

So...lay down

Lay down &

Hump around!

roffle

with me, so far its...technically... once every 16 years