Would this be a good way to tell a girl I want to have sex with her, and if I like her, start a relationship?

You see, despite what I say here, I'm not SO jaded that I don't want relationships. I love being in love and being loved back, I just also am not stupid: I know most women are whores.

Rather than wasting my time by going through the relationship dealy for a long time, and then maybe getting to have sex, I turned my game around. I spend my time looking to get laid, and if I find a girl I like enough, I want a relationship.

There's a girl I like right now. I really like her, but I think she might be a whore like all the rest. If I say I want a "casual relationship" does that protect my ass in terms of relationship legalities?

SilentMind, if you could help especially, that would be wonderful. I want what you had. An open relationship while I figure out if she's good enough, and then afterwards either move on to a serious deal, or keep fucking her while I find someone else to try and date.

Is "casual relationship" a euphamism for "open relationship"? Because that's what I'm going for, in not so many words.

You see, despite what I say here, I'm not SO jaded that I don't want relationships. I love being in love and being loved back, I just also am not stupid: I know most women are whores.



I got to here and started thinking of myself. Sorry.

So let me get this straight: you want to have casual sex with her without getting involved because most women are whores...because they have casual sex without getting involved?

Most women are whores?


And yet you want a woman to fuck that wont want a relationship?

Perhaps the women you meet wouldnt be such whores if you didnt want that from them?

First, he's coming from a standpoint supported by his own personal experience,

Second, I've been with women who weren't whores in any sense of the word, but were into me enough to deal with the fact that I could get what I wanted from them without committing.

Third, dude, if I was asking anyone, it'd be SilentMind too, he knows what's down. Or seems to.

In my own experience, just explain to this person you like so much (and if it is such, she must be an empathic person who can read emotion that plays not so much through one's eyes but rather one's behavior) that you have difficulty trusting and respecting people (and you, seriously man, do) and if she is relaxed enough to be open to respecting the fact that you truly need to respect her as a person before entering into something committed (I swear guys suffer more and for a longer period than girls do), she will realize your needs and reject them as unsatisfying to her or accept them and be fine with a casual relationship.

You can't convince someone into a relationship they don't on some level want, no matter what fancy language or "tactics" you use.

First, he's coming from a standpoint supported by his own personal experience,

Second, I've been with women who weren't whores in any sense of the word, but were into me enough to deal with the fact that I could get what I wanted from them without committing.

Third, dude, if I was asking anyone, it'd be SilentMind too, he knows what's down. Or seems to.

In my own experience, just explain to this person you like so much (and if it is such, she must be an empathic person who can read emotion that plays not so much through one's eyes but rather one's behavior) that you have difficulty trusting and respecting people (and you, seriously man, do) and if she is relaxed enough to be open to respecting the fact that you truly need to respect her as a person before entering into something committed (I swear guys suffer more and for a longer period than girls do), she will realize your needs and reject them as unsatisfying to her or accept them and be fine with a casual relationship.

You can't convince someone into a relationship they don't on some level want, no matter what fancy language or "tactics" you use.

Thank you, I shall try it out. It seems like the best advice so far.