Now I used to worry with me ex because there was no way in hell she'd allow me to come, probably because she had a home boyfriend (me) and the social boyfriend (him). Now...


This new girl is always asking me to come out, I don't really want to, but here's how I see it and I want to see if totse agrees:

The fact that she's so eager to take me out and go clubbing with me indicates she has nothing to hide, right? RIGHT?

No. It means that she feels guilty for fucking all the dudes she met while partying, while being your girlfriend.

You shouldn't be overly judgemental of your new girlfriend because of the way your ex treated you.

You're her partner, of course she wants you to come out clubbing with her... this thread is pointless.

Let me rephrase: The fact that she wants me to come out with her so much shows that she has nothing to hide......right?

no, it doesn't, however, i'd suggest going to appease her and look at what shes doing when your not there. This way you can feel safer about your relationship.

Or you could not go, hire someone to snoop on her a few times and see if she is, in fact, fucking you over.

Or just accept that she wants you to come clubbing with her because she wants to spend time with you and share something she likes to do with you.

Up to you.

clubbing baby seals? I do that alot too...

This young girl
she's a freak
she's out clubbin' every night of the week
and all around town it's the same old sound
spread that fever let us all get down

.....right?

Probably.

She just wants to spend a good time with you...

...stop being such a girl.

Nowadays clubbing is seen by a lot of people as a sport for single folks to meet other single folks, but remember that not all of us are in it for that, some people just love to socialise, drink or listen to music.
Go with her every now and again, you'll probably enjoy it.

Thankfully not all girls are like your ex.


Perhaps she wants you to go clubbing with her because she enjoys it, and she enjoys being with you, and she wants to have fun with you?

It means you're gay. Women love to go clubbing with gay guys. I'm sorry you had to find out like this, homo.

I hated going clubbing and meeting gay guys. They were allways prettier than me and better dancers. But atleast they shared their kandy.

You should probably go occaisionaly if she really loves clubbing that much, else she might start looking for someone who's less of a stay at home boyfriend.

he's not being a girl, just an uninformed pansy...

agreed

No it means she wants to have FUN with you.

It's like clubbing and KNOWING you are going to get some. Not meaning sex if you are not that far yet.

Hell ya go with her.

How thick are you?

go to club

take x

party

sex

sleep

wake

eat



THIS IS ALL YOU HAVE TO DO FOOL

lmaoz

Or you could not go, hire someone to snoop on her a few times and see if she is, in fact, fucking you over.

Or just accept that she wants you to come clubbing with her because she wants to spend time with you and share something she likes to do with you.

Up to you.

Don't do this. The guy you'll hire will end up having sex with your girl, and he will be reporting to you that she's being faithful.

I definitely prefer going out with my boyfriend. That way I know I have someone to dance with and I don't have to worry about guys hitting on me. But I'm sure the main reason she wants to go out with you is because she enjoys your company. And she obviously wouldn't take you out if she knew she might run into her other boyfriend. Don't assume that all girls are like your ex.

So a Priest, Arquin's girlfriend, and a baby seal walk into a club.

The fact that she's so eager to take me out and go clubbing with me indicates she has nothing to hide, right? RIGHT?


RIGHT.

Put yourself in her position, bearing in mind she's a girl. She loves going clubbing, and she loves being with you, so what would sound better to her than going clubbing while being with you? Not much. She's got nothing to hide.

It means if you don't go she will probably bitch to some other guy about how "her boyfriend is lame," and "he wouldn't come clubbing with me." And if that guy is smart he will take advantage of that and nail your girlfriend.