Ok so, I'm 17 and I have been talking to my current g/f for 4 or so years now, only last Monday did we get together. I trust her a lot, she trusts me, and we are pretty much really close. Well, then there is a chick that I met at work 3 1/2 months ago. She's very cute, and she is a fun person to be with. These be my choices.

Girl #1 Age: 18-Is shy, a virgin, and i'm her first real boyfriend. Never had her first kiss and is a freshman in college. She told me she wants me to be her first, but, she is hinting at fooling around already. Given the fact we've talked on and off for a long time, the week together makes me curious. Short and semi-chubby but great to just sit and talk to.

Girl #2 Age: 19-Is bubbly, outgoing, and has a fiance. I work with her currently and she is about to go to school for Radio/news person stuff. Basically she wants to be a host of something and be seen/heard. She is talking about leaving him and it is no secret she likes me. Thursday she hinted she wanted to get more personal after she gets single, but, it is uncertain how long it will be as they fight on and off. She is simply stunning to me and the cutest chick that has ever liked me.

#1 sounds like a fun relationship in a way because we get along well and she wants to make me happy. I don't know if she's ok with a long term relationship though.

#2 is fun to be around and I always sound intelligent around her. Not that she's dumb but just I think on another level. She tends to be with a guy she likes for a while, but, I don't really think she'd be happy with me as i'm still in High school and the guy she's with is a full time worker and such.

I see #1 once or twice a week when she's at a near by University, she lives a ways away though so at school is only way I can see her for now. When I see her I just wanna hold her and be all cuddly with her. #2 I see every other day at work and she lives close, but, she turns me on when I see her and we tend to be flirty with each other.

I'm confused as to which one I should pick. I like both, and wanna be with both, but in the end I can only choose one. please help me out Totse. Which would be the logical one to pick?

Well if girl 2 is as flip floppy as you say then i'd say have some erotic fun with girl 2 and when that's over go out with girl 1. I'd say it'd be pretty easy for you to do both without either finding out, as long as you dont expect the girl 2 relationship to last that long of course.

I'd say give it time man. Time has never failed me in a situation like that. Just sit back and keep up what your doing and when the time is right you'll know.

And weird... I live in Akron too. Kinda. Just north.

Girl 1. Girl #2 is engaged, that creates a shit load of problems. Like an angry man curb stomping you.

But voodoonirvana has it, give it some time and see what happens. I would personally stay away from 2, because even if she does break up, shes going to be going through some weird emotions. #1 seems nice enough.

Ok I think i'll wait it out. I'm goin to see #1 Wednesday at the U, we talked earlier about where we could go and I realised she's the one to be with so i'll see if it holds through Wednesday and then, who knows?

And voodoo i'm towards the South West.

Also, something that I remembered after reading replies, #2's fiance is psycho, so, i'ma steer clear of that. Thanks for the replies!

Girl 1

Girl 2 has a fiance, its just wrong

i was expecting a story about a 3some. i am utterly dissapointed.

Eggs, If in the future the opportunity arises, as #1 seems the type to be down with anything, then yes I will take that opportunity.

And Bean, yes she does, but i'd not do anything with her till she did finally end it. She's told me she wants to end it but is scared to.