Nevermind, thanks for the replys.

What kind of a mom fucking acts like this?
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One who is very very unhappy with her own life and desperately wants you to have it better than she did?

What kind of a mom fucking acts like this?

I suspect our mothers both went to the same mothering school or something:/

I forgot to say that I need to know what to do about this. I would leave and go stay somewhere else but my dad likes me and I dont want to fuck his life up.

How would you fuck your dads life up, exactly?

I really think it's time to move, even if your dad isn't an option (though I don't get why he isn't).

One who is very very unhappy with her own life and desperately wants you to have it better than she did?

What a load of bullshit.

I suspect our mothers both went to the same mothering school or something:/



How would you fuck your dads life up, exactly?

I really think it's time to move, even if your dad isn't an option (though I don't get why he isn't).

He'd have to deal with my mom because he would be pissed off if I left and then hed yell at her and shed yell at him and I dont want them to fight over me.

Awww...I don't know hon? :(

Just because a fool has gone through puberty & has become over 21 & stopped growing? It in no way means that they have become an adult in their heart & in their head.

As far as I can tell: all those little games kids play on each other's heads in grade school? They play the same head games when they're big. They play them in more sophisticated & better spoken ways is all.

Say you're a girl who got pushed around too much in school? Just wait until you're older & a mother...then you can have a little kid to push around. No teachers/friends/older siblings to stop you or tell on you. What fun eh?

What can you do about a bully? It's not really a kid's job to play shrink to her fucked up ma. Can she afford therapy? Does she really want it? It sounds like she's living out her 10 year old self's fantasy of revenge on other kids.

I don't know... Do you have any older, sensible relatives nearby? Though...they'd have to be pretty honest & sensible to not take her side no matter how dumb it is. You know how it is: kids stick up for kids & a-dull-ts for a-dull-ts, even when they're wrong & nasty. Mind you (how can you even barely think about this?) you're as much an alien to her & any other mother as in turn a daughter your age would be to you if you were her age.

Don't forget: she may be jealous of your young, smooth skin. It's not unusual for mothers to get a little cranky about that kind of thing... Does she get to hang around with cute kids every day? Whether she wants to or not? She can't.

What can you do but avoid her & suck it up as best you can? What does your poor, wee dad think of her behavior? Does he have any reasonable advice for dealing with her? Probably not much he can do...is there?

Some...plan ahead & don't jump blind... They don't run out of the house forever at some cold 3am... Some leave home (if it doesn't become cooler by the time they're junior/senior...as it does sometimes...not always though) when they're 16/17. They might stay in school...they might get work of some kind...

Lots of ways to eff up though...without skills/schooling/money. You don't want to end up living your mother's life & repeating her words to some kid you popped out. How silly would that feel? Regular girls become their mothers on a daily basis... You might hope to become/repeat the words of a more sensible ma.

I mean you can dream...a girl can dream can't she? Heck...it's late...but maybe...just (hah!) maybe even your mother could grow up!? :p

Best advice I can give you.

1. Stop caring about your mother, don't like her anymore, don't love her anymore.

2. Anything your mother says is bullshit. What do you do when you hear bullshit? You ignore it. Act as if her face doesn't exist and don't let her phase you.

3. No matter what stay in school, in the long run it will make things easier.

4. Move out. Now. Right NOW. Go somewhere where you still have access to school. Just pack up and leave. Say nothing to your mom, maybe a quick goodbye letter to your dad. You need out of that house NOW. It is destroying any chance of you being a good mother/person in the future.

5. If you care about your father you'll leave the house, he doesn't want you treated that way but for some reason wont/can't stop it. If when you leave your parents fight so be it. No matter how much you love your dad he put himself in this position, not you.

6. Get a job but stay in school, that will help you get a better job in the future. If need be, to stay in school, switch jobs a number of times.

7. Remember that none of this is your fault, your mother is a bitch and it's not because of you. When you move out and fights start, it's not your fault, anyone would have moved out.

8. Child Services sucks balls at their job but you could record a week/month worth of her abusing you so they can help you get set up somewhere else. Who knows, maybe she will get in trouble. Again, Child Services seems to suck, so I don't know what they'd do. Possibly switch your guardian to someone who deserves it.

My hope goes out to you, no bullshit there. I really think you can survive this situation. it's just going to take some work.

Know your friends and keep them close.

I think some mothers have this built in programing
"must make daughter feel like shit.exe"
Par gouging that programming out of her head with a pickaxe, all you can do is move up and get the fuck away from the cunt.
As it is, you're in 'her' house (even if it's your dads not hers) and you're pretty much stuck with that fact.

The sooner you can leave the sooner you can start to heal your fuckedupness.


Atleast your mum doesent say you look like a "fucking muslim" when you wear a long black cardigan when you go outside.

Dude I'd +1000 you if I could.
I was gonna say THESE EXACT THINGS more or less but you got it covered better than I would have

:D Rock on, man

And hey, to the OP; stand up for yourself, and when the fight looks futile just pack up your shit and move on.

When I'm done with High School, if I don't have college lined up, I'm just gonna bail. I'll just pack all my things up in a duffel bag, find a friend to shack up with until I can get some stability, and work from there.

Fuck the future, worry about the here and now, and if shit sucks there's no reason to stick around any longer. Respect yourself.

|Peace and Love|

wow, sounds like yu got it pretty bad.

my best advise (although not much) is to tell your dad to get his spineless ass in gear and make him stop your mom from doing all this shit to you.

mabye you do look like a whore¿




(arrr damn trisquel and its spanishness)

One who is very very unhappy with her own life and desperately wants you to have it worse than she does?

^^ I'ma goin' with the fixedquote as my answer to your question.

Now... remember...

1. You can always visit your dad, and...

2. Your dad is probably going to be much happier if he knows you're doing what's best for you.

Other than that?

3. Don't let the stress of dealing with your mom fuck up the rest of your life. It's too damn easy to let it do so, but doing so holds you back, not her. GTFO, call your dad to meet someplace else, figure out what you want in terms of work/school/whatever, figure out how to get there, and do it without her.

...alternately, you could kill her and get free room and board from the state as a reward for doing the right thing. If you've got higher plans, though... just GTFO, get your life on track, and hang out with your dad at the mall on your days off work.

Ask john if you can stay with him for awhile

or ask uhh Kena if you can stay with her

hell even go live with your cousin in austria

You're situation sounds sorta like mine, my mom always been a real bitch towards me, especially after my parents dirvorce and i had to live with her.

I stayed with a couple of friends and even lived in an abandoned building at one time. The only time i would go home would be when she was at work (still had my house key) and i had to shower and raid the fridge for food.

Eventually my dad came back to the state and he got custody of me, considering that my mom had barely seen me or knew where i was.

I hate "dr. philing" you because i know you hate that but my advice would be to get out while you can. Confront her about it, ask her "why are you doing this?" "Don't you love me?"

I think i would fall on my knees and start crying if my mom ever said that she loved me. This kind of shit stays with you all through you're life, especially since you're so young right now, i know you wont admit it, but it does. It fucks people up all through life, just look at me.

Well about you're dad he sounds pussywhipped or afraid of you're mom, i know if my wife was abusing my daughter i wouldn't sit back and let her do it. Im surprised their not dirvorced yet.

Talk to you're dad about this shit, seriously he needs to step up and do something. If he doesn't, tell them to fuck off, they aren't worth you're time.

If theres anything else you can call me or myspace me or w/e.

Good Luck

My cousin gets the same shit from her mother, who's an alcoholic. The worst part is, just 'cuz my younger cousin (her brother) smokes a little weed and likes playing video games she tells him that he's gonna fail at life. HE WANTS TO BE A FUCKING ARTIST FOR GOD SAKES WEED'S GOOD FOR HIM.

Too bad rep is gone. Yeah, I always get little troll vibrations from posts like this but I can't help but want you to pull through.

It's unfair to you, and you know it. Not one day more. If something is severely delaying your happiness, get rid of it. The fights your parents will have might suck, but they will pass. A household like that will do no good for anyone, and you know it. Find a way, no matter how drastic, I would look into moving with your dad, seriously.