I met someone awesome. She's beautiful, intelligent, and charming.

She also completely betrayed me, by sending a letter which I sent her in confidence, to some people, to get herself out of trouble, and I was subsequently dropped in a lot of shit, which I have only just dragged myself out of.

So I called her up, and started ranting incoherent insults down the phone. She could NOT stop apologizing. She apparently had no idea that I would get in so much trouble for it.

So I told her I forgave her, and carried on talking to her.

But I'm not sure if I do forgive her.

When I heard what she'd done, I felt so betrayed. This was a girl I was borderline infatuated with, who was just such an amazing person...

But now I feel stupid talking to her. I feel stupid for dropping the matter so quickly, and I feel stupid just being there for her, after she hurt me like nothing else.

Is there a way out? We flirted over aim earlier, and I could tell that she's attracted to me. Laughing at everything I say, talking about how awesome and funny I am and how we should meet, etc. And you know what, I am very attracted to her, too.

But there's always the black cloud that hangs over the conversation, and I can never really take her seriously. How can I trust a girl who is capable of doing this shit to someone she says she loves?

Sorry, I could probably have compressed this into a paragraph, but I'm just angry at everything.

Is there a way out? We flirted over aim earlier, and I could tell that she's attracted to me. Laughing at everything I say, talking about how awesome and funny I am and how we should meet, etc. And you know what, I am very attracted to her, too.


Please tell me that you have met her IRL.

Please tell me that you have met her IRL.

Yeah man obviously.

:p

I may be creepy, but not that creepy.

Id have to know what the letter said or what got you in trouble and how much trouble. But id say I probably wouldn't forgive the bitch she pulled a straight buddy fuck there. She tried to get out of trouble by getting you in trouble major buddy fucker right there.

No. NO
*hits Celtic Hero with rolled up newspaper*



She fucked with you horribly once, betrayed your trust to protect herself,she messed with one of the most important things in a relationship:Trust.

And she'll do it all again if she has to.


She may be great bla bla bla but she's still done something despicable that you should never forgive.

Allthough, maybe I'm jumping to conclusions, depending on the content of the letter.

Regardless of what the topic was,she still broke your trust with it. Care to share what was in the letter? I mean you've shared so much with totse, and you can guarantee we're not going to go and tell all your mates about it.

No. NO
*hits Celtic Hero with rolled up newspaper*



She fucked with you horribly once, betrayed your trust to protect herself,she messed with one of the most important things in a relationship:Trust.

And she'll do it all again if she has to.


She may be great bla bla bla but she's still done something despicable that you should never forgive.

Ahh shes a bit overexagerated but she does have a point. If your looking for a realationship trust is the most important thing. And if theres no trust you might as well just say fuck it and file her under "girl only good for a fuck"

Well basically she had gone onto this womans computer without her knowing, to find some information. I sent her a letter asking to phone me, because I had no idea where to look for this same information. I said in the letter that I'd gone onto the computer while this woman was asleep, and would do so again.

The computer broke, the woman blamed the girl, she sent the letter to said woman to get herself out of trouble, and blame me.

It got me punched in the face and thrown into a wall by my hair, and had the police called on me due to the sensitive shit I was looking for. I was also charged £300 for repairs to the computer, and told less politely to 'fuck off and never come near here again'.

Also my best friend who acted as lookout, also got busted for it.

The problem is that I just like her so much, I can't even explain it.

Sounds shady...

I dunno, I'm a push-over so I'd probably forgive her.

Fuck No!!

Drop her mate.

She's a nasty sack of shit and you'd do better without her.

Dude fuck her, using you as a scapegoat. You can't trust her, so a relationship is out, and I don't know about you, but I wouldn't even want to fuck someone like that.

If I was in that situation I would play along until I fucked her then kick her outta my house after and never talk to her again.

Dude seeing what she did all she is good for is a blow job and maybe some fucks. Don't date her dude she got you punched in the face, smashed against the wall, big loss of money and got your mate in trouble. Fuck that dumb cunt. I was expecting a little less but damn id drop that bitch like its hot. But even though she betrayed you you can still fuck her. Hey if shes a good lay then you win that way, if she sucks in bed you still win because afterwards you can be like OHHH SNAP I OWNSZED YOU BITCH I used you for sex haha go kill yourself you dirty tramp. Bam win win situation.

This is a good plan. Allthough if he's weak enough to be questioning if he should forgive her, there's a chance if he fucks her he'll be weak enough to fall for her.

You can't trust anyone, 'cuz you're untrustable...

Dude, i'd take a girl who gave me sex sporadically but I could trust over a girl who sexed me whenever I wanted but couldn't trust.

She fucked you over, you're only romanticising.