For the past week I've been trying out an experiment.

I wanted to have more dreams sex related because I'm a virgin bastard. Anyways, I jerked off right before going to bed to porn and out of the 7 days I did that I had 3 nights where I had sexual dreams.

Do you know of any better working ideas?

Well NOT masturbating increases your chances of having wet dreams, if thats what you're going for.

Nope. Pretty much the best way is to expose yourself to as much sexual material as possible before going to bed. wow, I don't even know why I'm answering this... now I feel dirty.

*wanders off to take a shower*

I forgot to emntion I started sleeping naked recently and it seems to have helped also.

I... can't even think of an answer for this that is remotely serious. And this is pretty S & A -ish but I will leave it here in the vain hope that it may inspire some sort of "sexual repression and its effect on the mind" debate or something.



... Please?

Stop jacking off, but keep looking at porn.

Or you could just try, you know, improving yourself and taking a fucking risk every once in awhile so you can maybe have sex in real life.

And how do I do that?

*sigh*

Fine. S & A.

:(

Now sexual repression has many effects upon the mind, in an intimately experienced sense whilst in the throws of adolescence. Freud posits that...

No, I'm kidding. I fuckin' hate Freud, and I don't know really much about wet dreams. Honestly, I've never really had them that much. I've gone through times when I masturbated a lot, and others where I rarely or never did; I've gone through times when I slept in the nude every day, and others where I passed out in what I passed out in which could include several layers of clothing; I've gone through times when I looked at a lot of porn, none, had a lot of sex, had no sex, and all in between.

There never really seemed to be any fluctuating of my wet dream occurrences in frequency or intensity at all during all of this.

I'd say that this suggests that there is more involvement from your individual make up than what you do with your non-sex-life; though these two things are very inter-connected, I'd say working on one two change the other would be better aimed at increasing the likelihood of an actual sexlife, rather than the likelihood of wet dreams. Though it may be suggested that your dreams can be intimately connected to how your mind works, which would suggest how your thoughts are translated into action, and thusly affect your life. In which case you're already doing what you should be doing to get more sex dreams because you're thinking about, and putting an extraordinary amount of importance on, sex.

My dreams have involved me fighting another myself, or decapitating jesus, so my thoughts can be easily inferred to be of an inner struggle of philosophical and theological inquiries. So spend all day imagining as vividly you can about the various freaky things that you'd like to do in your dreams.

This, of course, may make it a bit hard to obtain in real life since your reach will probably exceede your grasp, and any teenage angst and awkwardness increased in anxiety.

All in all, again, I must suggest that your time would be better spent focusing your mental energies on things that might result in you getting laid rather than result in you thinking about how you aren't getting laid even while you are sleeping.