when my boyfriend an i first started going out, we would have sex all the time. but lately he hasn't been interested in it at all. i have to beg him for it, and even then it's only once or twice a week (some of you may remember my 'my boyfriend won't have sex with me!' thread), and it's always when he wants it, not when i want it. like i'll ask him and he'll say no, then an hour or so later he'll decide he wants to have sex and i'm supposed to drop everything i'm doing so we can fuck.

i've tried talking to him about it and asking him why he doesn't like having sex anymore, and he just says that he doesn't feel like it and there's other things he'd rather do, like playing video games, or that are more important for him to do, like studying (but it's ok for him to interrupt me when i'm trying to study and he wants it).

we've been together almost a year, and i understand that we aren't going to be able to have sex every day, but i don't think asking for it at least 3-4 times a week is asking too much. is this normal?

and no, he's not cheating on me.

Cut his hands off. He may be fapping behind your back.

Not literally.

Or, maybe...!

...Serious answer:

Try something new? How well do you and him communicate?

post a pic if i like it i'll come over to satisfy your needs.

The sad fact is all pussy gets old.

It's not just guys either, it's like that with women too. Sex with the same partner gets very old and therefore boring after a while. If you can't find a way to keep it new, then just accept the fact that it's going to die down.

Anyways, to awnser the topic...I'd say 3-4 times a week. Thats how often I see her. Sometimes, twice a night. Some nights we skip. So it averages to about 3 or 4.

Yeah three to four seemed right with the last girl i was with. I'd see her every day, usually two or three times a week we'd fuck at least once, sometimes 2-3 times a night. She always wanted it, and I can't always get it up so whatever.

Cut his hands off. He may be fapping behind your back.

Not literally.

Or, maybe...!

...Serious answer:

Try something new? How well do you and him communicate?

like what? communication has it's ups and downs... for the most part the only talking we do is when i initiate it, and after a few minutes he usually tells me to shut up and stops responding to me. but every week or two we have really good conversations about random shit.

not very often, honestly. we've been together over a year and a half, we don't live together, but we see eachother about 5 - 6 days a week. on average...2 - 3 times a MONTH. that's usually it.

but I guess it just all depends on how everything is going, for some reason it seems the more we see eachother, the less we have sex. it also seems in times I'm unemployed we have sex less often, as well.

also one major problem I should probably mention is that we rarely ever get any alone time...as in having a house to ourselves, which has held us back, many times...though, lately, we've seemed to care less whether some-one was around, or not. though, of course...we try to keep it quite, but it's just not as desirable as fast, hard, and loud love sex.

also a contribution is that after you've gone without sex for a while, you tend to fold over rather quickly, the first time in a while. therefore, I usually run to the bathroom, and beat it real quick, before we have sex. I don't know where that fits in to any of this, but I figured I'd mention it.

anyway. theres my sex life.

round abouts every day. me and my woman live together. she would have it 10 times a day if I would give it to her.

We usually have sex 3-4 times a week, and I get at least a blow job every day. I would like it every day, even twice a day. I have a sex addiction though. I don't get bored of my fiance's pussy, but not getting enough makes me want to look for new pussy.

When we first got together we did "it" everytime we saw eachother, sometimes more than once the same day.

Now, 2 years later, (it actually stopped way before 2 years) we rarely have sex and IF we do it's probably mercy sex. I have to, well, pretty much beg for it. When I get it it's not that good.

Fucking her is like trying to fuck a steel beam. Stiff. Sometimes I'd rather jack off.

BUT I STILL WANT SEX.

So to answer your question, not often.

Once a week, twice tops.

It's mainly because:

1) We don't have a place to go(there are always people in my house and at hers. No, we don't live together).

2) Our schedules are fucked, so we can't see each other much(3-4 times a week tops).

3)We (well, I) have to pay for a hotel room every time we want to, which isn't too romantic...

But I guess every time we have sex we enjoy it that much more.

that's pretty much where i am right now. when i'm on top, he just lays there with his eyes closed, and i can't enjoy it because he looks like he's asleep, so i always ask him if it feels ok or if anything's wrong. and when he's on top, he wants me to just lay there and not move like he does.

that's pretty much where i am right now. when i'm on top, he just lays there with his eyes closed, and i can't enjoy it because he looks like he's asleep, so i always ask him if it feels ok or if anything's wrong. and when he's on top, he wants me to just lay there and not move like he does.

Use your teeth and nails. If it doesnt sound like he's enjoying himself, hurt him. He'll be moaning soon enough.

that's pretty much where i am right now. when i'm on top, he just lays there with his eyes closed, and i can't enjoy it because he looks like he's asleep, so i always ask him if it feels ok or if anything's wrong. and when he's on top, he wants me to just lay there and not move like he does.

We have the same situation, huh? Except it's reverse. I like to have sex. She doesn't. When we do have sex (it's always problematic) she usually can't get into it and then asks me to stop and masturbate.

We have the same situation, huh? Except it's reverse. I like to have sex. She doesn't. When we do have sex (it's always problematic) she usually can't get into it and then asks me to stop and masturbate.

Does she at least let you cum on her tummy?

Does she at least let you cum on her tummy?

Yea. But I have to immediately wipe it off.

My boyfriend and I always try to find something fun to do. =] We try at least every day but sometimes we don't get the privacy we need because I'm still in school. We've been going out for over a year and our sex lives are really good.

We have the same situation, huh? Except it's reverse. I like to have sex. She doesn't. When we do have sex (it's always problematic) she usually can't get into it and then asks me to stop and masturbate.

at least she lets you masturbate... i get so much shit from him when i do it, but he refuses to do anything about it, like actually have sex with me. we're together all the fucking time, and he lives in a dorm, but his roommate is gone half the time and my mom's never home, so it's not like we can't...

at least she lets you masturbate... i get so much shit from him when i do it, but he refuses to do anything about it, like actually have sex with me. we're together all the fucking time, and he lives in a dorm, but his roommate is gone half the time and my mom's never home, so it's not like we can't...

lol, shit. maybe we can hook up?

anyway, yea, I don't even try anymore.

some of my friends ask me "why dont you just cheat?"

In all seriousness, why are you still with her?

Is she at least fun to be with out of bed?

If that is directed towards me I'll answer with this; because I love her to death and I can't imagine losing her. She is fun out of bed. I mean to some people (HER) sex isn't everything but to me I enjoy a good fucking and I like to fuck probably all the time. I masturbate probably 6 times a day. I'm generally a horny person.

Maybe I'm just spoiled. I'm used to girls doing whatever I say. My last girlfriend was a stripper. I got fucked wherever I wanted. Hell, she let me fuck her at a greyhound bus station before I went back to Florida to sign some papers.

The girl I've been with for two years is kind of up tight about sex.

I think I know why but she won't admit to it. When she was maybe 14 she went to a senior party and fell in love with this guy. He just used her for sex. That's the only other guy she's been with besides me. Maybe she thinks I'll do the same thing. Get what I want and leave. If I wanted to leave her I would already.

Plus, she is a damn good girl. She was with me when I had no money. I know she could leave me RIGHT NOW and find a rich guy. When I just got back from Florida this guy Matt was trying to get with her. He was rich. He works for some big company for his daddy. She chose me.

Right now I'm having money problems and she still is OK. She said thats why she is here, to help me out.

I don't want to leave her because I love her. We generally have a good time as long as it doesn't come to me getting laid.

Do something new. only way to save the relationship. Surprise him with sexy underwear when he gets home from job/school, fuck in random places. Outdoors is cool, in the tub, in the shower, on the bus. Everywhere to make it exiting.

gl.

You guys make me feel better about being single.

When I was dating this girl we only had sex like twice in the whole 6 month relationship. Well, we've broken up now and about a week after the breakup we started fucking like mad and I've gotten laid like twice and sucked off at least twice every fucking day since then. Crazy how that shit works.

I know she's only trying to lure me back in with the sex but whatever. Pussy is still pussy, even if it's bait pussy. Unless it's jailbait pussy... that's never good.