I will pursue any girl i feel attracted to, wheather im friends with her brother, shes in a relationship. whatever.

If she doesnt go for it, i will of course back off, but if she seems interested is it wrong of me not to stop her?

i suppose it depends on the individual situation, but being friends with their brother isn't that bad. If she's in a relationship though that one's a little more complicated.

no you're not as long as you don't get her drunk and take advantage of her.

Uh, yea, about that...

I guess i really am a fucking scumbag.

I still dont give a shit.

*secretly cares*

I gets mad bitches.

BITCHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!

It's not nice to move in on someone elses girl.. but if she's that easy to take she probably wasnt too into him.
Be aware though any girl you succesfully get with this method will likely to the same thing to you with someone else, and there's a high chance you'll get trounced by the ex.

It's not nice to move in on someone elses girl.. but if she's that easy to take she probably wasnt too into him.
Be aware though any girl you succesfully get with this method will likely to the same thing to you with someone else, and there's a high chance you'll get trounced by the ex.

Its funny, I tell people that I don't chop girls with men. What happens though, is when I'm talking to a girl, and shes like "Hrm. I shouldn't be doing this, I have a boyfriend" I cockily say..."So? Don't worry about him." Then things get more intimate. Does that make me a bad person? Ha ha.

Its funny, I tell people that I don't chop girls with men. What happens though, is when I'm talking to a girl, and shes like "Hrm. I shouldn't be doing this, I have a boyfriend" I cockily say..."So? Don't worry about him." Then things get more intimate. Does that make me a bad person? Ha ha.

It makes you the confident assertive one and it soothes the female mind. As the female mind is often a confused and nervous thing, to be told "dont worry about it" is sometimes all a girl who doesent particually like her boyfriend needs.


Allthough some day you're going to try it on a girl who really dissaproves of cheating and you'll get a kick in the nads.. :P

Uh, yea, about that...

I guess i really am a fucking scumbag.

I still dont give a shit.

*secretly cares*

If you care then you're not a scumbag. I wouldn't care but I wouldn't do it right now because I got enough drama. When I go to calgary though I'll be mackin on anything skeetable in heels

It makes you the confident assertive one and it soothes the female mind. As the female mind is often a confused and nervous thing, to be told "dont worry about it" is sometimes all a girl who doesent particually like her boyfriend needs.


Allthough some day you're going to try it on a girl who really dissaproves of cheating and you'll get a kick in the nads.. :P

Hrm. That day has already came and gone. Well she tried to kick me in the nads.

Who gives a fuuuuuuuuuck.

wheather im friends with her brother

If you have a sister too, then just offer a sister switch-off.

I actually conveniently have two really good friends with really hot sisters. So the three of us decided we were going to do a 3-way trade.

Actually, we were only kidding. At least I hope they were, because I was. I can't be pimping my little sister out.

you're a piece of grade A shit you're lucky one of there brothers hasnt killed you

Oh i was almost hurt pretty bad once, turns out [girl]'s boyfriend was a football player. 6'3, probably more than 200 lbs.

He decided to show up at a party where i was piss drunk. Im talking sitting on the lawn singing drunk. My friends whisked me in the back door and up into the attic. He showes up and rings the bell, i dropped a bucket with 2 bricks and a lightbulb (<-) on him. Didnt knock him out as i planned (I think it hit his shoulder, maybe, probably the concrete)

Thank god my group went out there for me and "took care" of him, as i would have done for any one of them.

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He decided to show up at a party where i was piss drunk. Im talking sitting on the lawn singing drunk. My friends whisked me in the back door and up into the attic. He showes up and rings the bell, i dropped a bucked with 2 bricks and a lightbulb (<-) on him. Didnt knock him out as i planned (I think it hit his shoulder, maybe, probably the concrete)

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PLUS FUCKING TEN! 10+ The slapstick hilarity of your highjinks is just brilliant! I know there is no way in hell I could kick someone's ass after pulling that stunt, because I'd be literally on the ground laughing my ass off.

Seriously, great topic...great thread. I've been faced with many encounters like this, and it was actually the last hurdle I had to overcome in getting my eventual wife to agree to marry me. It took me a while, but I explained it to her like this. You are NOT responsible for anyone else's morality or their choices....just yours. If someone is willing to sleep with you (virgin, married, whore, someone's sister....etc.) that is a decision that THEY are making and considering there are several billion OTHER men out there chances are they would not have limited it to just YOU if given the option. My wife had this worry that if I was willing to be so nonchalant with someone ELSE'S marriage vows, then I would be the same with ours in regard to fidelity. I was totally honest about all the women I had in my past, and she knew of me being that backdoor man more than once.

If the marriage was so strong, you should have never been able to woo them away. If little sis was so virginal, she wouldn't be eagerly anticipating the cock. I've done both scenarios more than once, and yeah it can get tricky. Hell, when I met my wife I was doing the next door neighbor.....no strings attached. She had a boyfriend though, and it was a rocky relationship. I had ZERO friendship with him, just a casual "hey, nice weather" type of comment when passing him in the hall if he would stop by her place. To me, I was just getting a piece of ass...and if I could get her to cheat on him then so could other guys. I wasn't "betraying" anyone, because he wasn't a friend. So it really was nothing more than just me getting my dick wet, and the girl had her own SEPARATE moral issues by having sex with me. But why does her baggage have to become mine just because I'm fucking her?

No, you are NOT a bad guy.....you are just getting laid. Simple as that.

DaGuru, i like the way you think.

Jag, I'm glad you and I are on the same page. I just gotta ask though.....Was this simply a hypothetical discussion, or is there a specific situation you are faced with and this is why you brought this question to Totse? If it is, give us more details!

it makes you an extreme asshole!

now go stick your head in mudd!

Does this make a retarded post?


yes. yes it does.

"advantage" such a horrid word....

Yes and no, its not exactly a pressing issue, its been over since early july. Timeframe goes something like this:

Early june: I start hanging out with this girl

Mid june: I fuck her

Late june: still fucking her, boyfriend sees us through bedroom window, i slip away in the night

early july: dude shows up at party

Yes and no, its not exactly a pressing issue, its been over since early july. Timeframe goes something like this:

Early june: I start hanging out with this girl

Mid june: I fuck her

Late june: still fucking her, boyfriend sees us through bedroom window, i slip away in the night

early july: dude shows up at party

Well considering it's now late August, I know damn well the end of this story is NOT.....

??????
Profit!


WTF????????????????

Post pics of you slipping away in the night or it never happened!

Yes and no, its not exactly a pressing issue, its been over since early july. Timeframe goes something like this:

Early june: I start hanging out with this girl

Mid june: I fuck her

Late june: still fucking her, boyfriend sees us through bedroom window, i slip away in the night

early july: dude shows up at party

That's an incomplete story... keep going!

And DaGuru, thats the same morality I follow. I hated it when girls wouldn't cheat on my gf with me because it was wrong for me to be cheating. So, I don't feel it's wrong to help them cheat. I may warn them it'll eff up their relationship, but its always too far gone by then.

The only reason not to persue a taken girl is if it would cause too much fallout due to her friends being your friends, or something like that. If she's willing to cheat, the relationship won't last like that anyways.

Besides, cheating makes it hotter.

Its funny, I tell people that I don't chop girls with men. What happens though, is when I'm talking to a girl, and shes like "Hrm. I shouldn't be doing this, I have a boyfriend" I cockily say..."So? Don't worry about him." Then things get more intimate. Does that make me a bad person? Ha ha.

Yes..

That's an incomplete story... keep going!

And DaGuru, thats the same morality I follow. I hated it when girls wouldn't cheat on my gf with me because it was wrong for me to be cheating. So, I don't feel it's wrong to help them cheat. I may warn them it'll eff up their relationship, but its always too far gone by then.

The only reason not to persue a taken girl is if it would cause too much fallout due to her friends being your friends, or something like that. If she's willing to cheat, the relationship won't last like that anyways.

Besides, cheating makes it hotter.

MH.....all good points, although you and I do differ somewhat. When I was involved in a taken/committed relationships, I never cheated. Nor would I fuck any of my buddies girls that they were CURRENTLY involved with, or anyone I had somewhat close association with. But when I was single I was a whore, and anyone beyond a friend's current girlfriend was free game. Maybe I was a little confusing in my first post.

I can't say that having sex with a chick that is cheating on someone else ever made me think it was "hotter". I think perhaps I had such indifference about the other person that in the heat of the moment it didn't even cross my mind. Meh, I guess that just makes me more of a sociopath or something, who knows. I will say it might have been a slight ego boost to me..... pondering the situation afterwards. I mean yeah....a chick can tell you that you are "good in bed" and its always nice to hear those words, but its just that ......words. But the fact that they are using you as a backdoor man is proof positive that you really are rocking her fuckin world.

MH.....all good points, although you and I do differ somewhat. When I was involved in a taken/committed relationships, I never cheated. Nor would I fuck any of my buddies girls that they were CURRENTLY involved with, or anyone I had somewhat close association with. But when I was single I was a whore, and anyone beyond a friend's current girlfriend was free game. Maybe I was a little confusing in my first post.

I can't say that having sex with a chick that is cheating on someone else ever made me think it was "hotter". I think perhaps I had such indifference about the other person that in the heat of the moment it didn't even cross my mind. Meh, I guess that just makes me more of a sociopath or something, who knows. I will say it might have been a slight ego boost to me..... pondering the situation afterwards. I mean yeah....a chick can tell you that you are "good in bed" and its always nice to hear those words, but its just that ......words. But the fact that they are using you as a backdoor man is proof positive that you really are rocking her fuckin world.

I've since then come to realize the mistake that cheating is, and have changed my ways... You hit the nail on the head though. She's willing to eff up whatever she has, do what she tells herself she shouldn't, all because you are that desireable.

I was with a man who was married once. He didnt tell me till we'd had sex for the first time. But I didnt exactly run away.
It was a horrible thing to do. And I'm sure I've been Karmaed massively for being the whore who'd lure a man away from his wife.


Fucking a friends little sister is one thing, getting someone to cheat is quite different.