So, in a bit of a pickle right now.
Just managed to calm myself with a little liquid.


I need some rational advice right now.

So, turns out my mums pregnant.
Not sound to bad yeah?


Bit of back ground.


9 years ago she cheated on my dad.
8 years ago he took her back when the shit it the fan.
6 years ago she cheated, or got caught, again.. With the same bloke.

This bloke, good old 'bob'
When the relationships fuck up, its because hes an alcholic psychopath.


Me and my little bro were subjected to 5 years of fucking hell until I beat the bastard to the ground, and kept going.
He was then finally put in rehab and given cocktails of drugs to keep him a happy chappy.

Everything was 'okay', he came back and stopped drink, became normally. i ignored his existence and pretended he didn't exist.

They had a kid about 2 years ago.

I stopped seeing my mum on a regular basis when I started college last year.

She then had another pregnancy earlier this year, which died at 4 months.

Being preggers at 40 didn't do so much for her and give her some nasty conditions.
Along with not being able to work, and the bastard bob doesn't work either. Lovely sponging scumbags.

She told me today shes pregnant again, with the same bloke.

I'm not best pleased as you could probably imagine.
Flying into quite a rage, etc.

She says shes happy and all this bullcrap.

I say its another step in totally fucking her live over.

More complications then, more time spent not able to work, meaning more debt and a worsening situation, along with how I hate the bastard of a father.

She spews out some emotional black mail shit about how shes been so happy lately and all that kind of stuff, and that I'm depressing her and I've really upset her. Well am I suppost to be fucking jolly?



Seriously what do do now?
I've just stopping picking up, told her to fuck off and opened a case or beer.


Sorry if that was a bit long or non-nonsensical., but it just needed to be out.

Wow you're in quite the situation. From what I can tell you've done the right thing by just cutting off contact. I'd say, dispite the fact that they're family, staying out of contact with them is the best idea. From what I can predict given their current financial situation, they'll soon turn to you for financial support and will suck you dry if you let them. Cut them out of your life and tell them to get in contact with you again if they straighten out their lives. If they ask you for any favors involving money just say no, or you'll end up being their financial crutch for years, and might end up perminatly babysitting their kids after you're out of college. Just stay away man, best thing for you.

God damn why is everones mother a fuckin whore? Sorry. I dont know what to tell you if she says she is happy and stuff, though I can guarantee she most likely isnt happy like she says.

If she were my mother, I would make fun of her and call her names until she cried, then make her realize she fucked up bad and her life is ruined.

Call her names? Fuck, if it wasn't over the phone I would of punched the stupid bitch.

That may all be true, but the key phrase is "her life". It is in fact her life. What is the OP "supposed" to do? Get on with his life, assuming he has one off of TOTSE.

Separating from parents is as easy or as hard as we make it.

Not when it involes my little brother(from orginal mother and father) being mixed up in all this shit.

And why the stab at me you fucking thundercunt?

Sounds like you're more mature than your mom.


Under no circumstances should you call social services.

That's quite a pickle I'll think of some more good advice when I'm less stont

I think the only reasonable answer to this situation is:

Molotov everything.