well here goes, i dont care about sex, i have more desire to love than to fuck, i dont see what makes everyone so "sex is the best thing that ever was concieved" thats bullshit to me there are a lot of better things than sex such as a good trip on acid or lots of excess money, im probly gonna get flamed like shit but i would like some intelligent responses and isight on my view or your view on sex, as long as its not "its the best"

Heh... to S & A you go.

Sounds like something a virgin would say.

QFT ^^

I'll add something serious later... (although the QFT was serious...)

no, fuck you, what makes sex so important that you critisize others for not liking it like everyone else

by the way sorry i kinda over-looked S&A

Yeah i can see your point where sex is a small pleasure (no pun intended) love is the monopoly on all affection.

I cant see that i could ever go fully without sex because there is points where i dont feel like "making love" , i want aggressive "heavy-metal-sex" , its more biological than human, if you know what i mean

Yeah well dude sex IS the best. love may seem better, but it can really fuck with your emotions in a bad way. Sex is just pure pleasure that very little can compare to, whereas drugs will fuck you up, relationships can bug the shit outta you at times, and ever hear the phrase "money can't buy you happiness"? I'd take the pleasure of sex over that crap any day.

Take a break from masturbation for a week, and you will start caring about sex.

I love sex and all but there are some drugs out there that I would definitely choose over it. If you posted this in BLTC you'd have completely different responses. Of course sex and drugs is even better :D

As for choosing love over sex, it's pretty mature.

OP isn't getting any, guaranteed.

no, fuck you, what makes sex so important that you critisize others for not liking it like everyone else

by the way sorry i kinda over-looked S&A

Saying you're sorry to internet losers means you've got a weak frame and almost garuntees pussy drought.

i think its funny how all you guys can do is critisize me for the way i feel, i am on a dry streak thats true, but that means nothing. sex isnt something that if i dont get i go crazy hell i dont even masturbate,im glad i feel this way, that shows my independance from society and from what the media tells me to like.

Saying you're sorry to internet losers means you've got a weak frame and almost garuntees pussy drought.

stay on topic, im not talking about how muh sex i get.

ya. random sex doesnt seem to be something that appeals to me.
with some one youre very close to, its the best thing ever.

same way i am sex has to mean something besides getting a quick fuck, thank you

same way i am sex has to mean something besides getting a quick fuck, thank you

yay. im not alone on this.
that, and i just dont like touching/being touched by random people.

Damn.

It seems that these days the rebellious thing to do would be "conforming" to the media.

Damn.

It seems that these days the rebellious thing to do would be "conforming" to the media.
i know and the media glorifies sex as a "must do" thing and i dont understand what makes sex so important to the whole world

Love is great, sex is just the icing on the cake.

What I'm trying to say is that, although sex is good, its not the end all and be all of a relationship. I've had some relationships better with sex and some better without.

At the moment, I'm content with a lass that shares similar interests, hobbys etc.

understand?

thats the way i am (dont get me wrong sex is beutiful) but i just dont see why everyone makes sex such a conquest, im perfectly fine with going without sex for an extended period of time, seems any more if someone goes a day without sex thay bitch about having a nut ready to explode.
and yes i do understand i also agree

Honestly if it came down to it your right, i'd rather have a shitload of money then some fuckin pussy, but it hasn't come down to that yet, I can have both :)

And whoever thought up that shit "Money can't buy you happiness" is fucking stupid i've never been happier then when i'm throwing $50's and $100's all over my room rolling around in it giggling like a little school girl. Never. Ever. I love money more then I would ever love anyone because everyone loves money more then me so why the fuck should I break the cycle. Fuck ya.

I agree with you.

I'm sure not everyone thinks that sex is the best thing ever.
I'd still chose a satisfying computer game and some loud techno over an orgasm anyday.
It doesent mean I dont like sex, I do like it. It's just at times there are things I want more.

Whatever. I still vote: total tool.

As opposed to what? What are you trying to contrast yourself against? It's not like you're a black sheep in a flock of sex zombies.

Who are you trying to convince kid?
Yourself, is the pretty obvious answer.


Rebelling against the media?

You sound like an evangelical parrot.
Fresh, green, and malleable just back from jesus camp.

You're looking for permission and validation because of your doubts, and making a quaint attempt to recruit support for the "yay for abstinence" lame excuse for a counter culture because you can't handle "being a rebel" without a bunch of lost yuppie idiots giving you the social support you're so envious of outside of church.

But that's just part of the game: make sure you're ostracized and unpopular so you keep coming back for their "support" and "love" that you can't seem to manage to scrounge up anywhere else because of your weird obsession with sex, other people's affairs, and invisible friends.

That's why they wait a long time to drop those bombs and just wash over you with kindness and support at first till your hooked. Assimilate, then isolate.

The entire movement is a walking contradiction grounded in it's participants own sexual frustration redirected in to a failed, unconscious, pussy bait routine. You're too insecure, and unsure of yourself to try parroting that shit at a party so you decided to warm up on the internet to test the waters and see how it's recieved.

Aside from the people who feel sorry from the gimp and want to avoid jumping on the flame bandwagon, the answer is shitty. But feel free to try that shit on one of the few girls you manage to get to engage in conversation with you. Make sure after you see the "WTF?" expression on her face to go limping back to church to be built back up so you can go fail again.

Eventually you'll be a total charismatic jesus zombie recruiter so confident in what you say you'll be able to hook some ex-druggie sluts who just got dumped/cheated on and in enough of a compromised state that they'll eat up your bullshit, and you'll just be another asshole crying crocodile tears to get some pussy.

what makes sex so important that you critisize others for not liking it like everyone else

Well, it has fueled evolution for the last 3.5 billion years or so. Other than that...

what the fuck did that mean? oh, if your saying im religious im not, i just believe in being happy with yourself by your standards , not by another persons view, yours. im not bashing sex, i can give a fuck about it like i said, its the desire for it and the treatment of sex like a fucking olympic sport, i undertsand the reproductive need, i can even undertsand the recreational desire, But for talkng shit about someone for not having sex, being a vigin, ect. i just dont understand that.

good story though.



BTW. you guys can call me whatever you want or say whatever you want, it really doesnt bother me, but if you do give me something worth reading

And it's so fun when you hit your mark.





Different people have different levels of sex drive.

Compatible sex drives with partners is probably the single most important determining factor of a successful relationship.

A slight incompatibility can be worked around, but I suggest you stay away from nymphos. It'll only end in heartbreak.


"Sex sells" IS reality, and worrying about "should be" is a waste of time. Adapt to the world and you are an asset to it.

Try to change it in your interests and you are setting yourself up for failure where you can only hope to change it for the worse.

If you're getting social pressure to get more play, laugh with them and show yourself to be making a choice of preference and you won't catch any shit.

The problem isn't the world is too sex obsessed, it's that you are either concerning yourself with others, or letting other's concern with you bother you.

thanks this is a good post. but, i dont worry about it im just tying to get an understanding of why the general public feels this way, thats why i had it in Headshrinkers (i think). and i dont concern myself with it, i find it odd.

btw,
i couldnt agree more with the sex drive sentance

I would guess it's a dick measuring contest/shit test. Men are always trying to beat their chest on how successful they are with women to push preselection, and to suggest to supposedly less successful but suggestible other men that they offer leadership to the pussy prize. Resultingly, when they have a posse of social proof, they get the pussy prize all to themselves as they are "the leader of men" by convincing the followers they might catch some table scraps.

Upstage them in front of a woman and watch their response.

Keep broads away from bros and away from bro's broads and you'll have much more successful relationships and friendships.

I think I like mutual masturbation better. :) More intimate and I'm better at it. ;)

-F☺rd

Falling in love is great.

Being in love sucks.

Sex is important to me , just not the extent I would go through withdrawl and get the shakes.

I do agree however sex is something more pleasant with someone you genuiely have strong feelings for. I would have sex with somone I love and then after I had an orgasm stay and cuddle and all that jazz.

If i had sex with some random girl I didnt have strong emotional feelings attached to her , I would most likely think to myself '' When is this broad going to get off me ? She should go make me a sandwich and while she's at it make herself useful and clean as I take a nap. ''

You know what I mean ?

Falling in love is great.

Being in love sucks.

Sex is important to me , just not the extent I would go through withdrawl and get the shakes.

I do agree however sex is something more pleasant with someone you genuiely have strong feelings for. I would have sex with somone I love and then after I had an orgasm stay and cuddle and all that jazz.

If i had sex with some random girl..

..or a wife you would've been married to for 20 years..

..I would most likely think to myself '' When is this broad going to get off me ? She should go make me a sandwich and while she's at it make herself useful and clean as I take a nap. ''

You know what I mean ?

I think I like mutual masturbation better. :) More intimate and I'm better at it. ;)


That. Heh.


Really, I dont get the hostilty some people are showing to the thread starter. And for all we know he's getting awesome sex!


There are better things in life than sex. But every human is different thus everyone will have a different oppinion. It's all good.

That. Heh.


Really, I dont get the hostilty some people are showing to the thread starter. And for all we know he's getting awesome sex!


There are better things in life than sex. But every human is different thus everyone will have a different oppinion. It's all good.

why thank you! but im not getting awesome sex, hell im not getting any sex right now, and i dont care, im dating a girl i really have strong feelings for so i couldnt be more happy. as to the hostility, i guess some people feel dominant with the title of regular and a computer secreen to mask them.

thanks to everyone for good posts.