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I'm 16, never had a girl, never kissed or made out or anything. Fucking sucks.

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Just recently, I've been talking to this girl at my work and got her number. I told her Id text her the next day to chill, but then later I told her that I forgot I had plans so Id text her in 2 or 3 days. Still, the next day she comes up to me at work and is like, 'U were supposed to text me so I can get ur number'. So I did, and I brought up seeing a movie, and she said she could in a few days. Before that, we texted each other almost every day and she seemed to be leading me on.

When the day rolls around, I get a text that she's sick and cant go. Now I was pretty sure she was bullshitting and wanted to forget it, but I said something like 'So is another day better'. She responds in about ten mins with mother fucking 'mom... is this ok... sorry well i sort of lied to u before... its just that im in the beginning of a relationship and i thought it wouldnt be right'. At this point I was like wtflol. So i say back 'let me know what she thinks of it'. Respond something like 'fuck did i send that to you'. I respond "well thanks for being honest and not lieing to me", she responds "thanks for understanding"... fucking sarcasm flew way over her dumb fucking head.

Anyway, it seems as though this new relationship is with a fuckin mexican kid three years older than her who works with us. A mutual friend co-worker told me that she jokes around shit to the mexican like 'so when are you gonna ask me out' and faggot ass half-serious half-joking shit. Then the next day i get the cold shoulder from an immature little bitch, who used to laugh profusely while talking to me.

My question is... what the fuck am i doing wrong. At 16, not many of my peers are fucking virgins to even kissing. This last experience finally made me fucking snap, since i seem to be fucking cursed. Sorry for the grammar, as I got tired of it after the first few sentences... thanks for reading.

edit - I reread it and realized that i sound like an angry emo fucker, but IRL im very good at concealing my thoughts, playing it cool, and just being chill and happy, but i just needed to let it all out somewhere

Either your giving too much thought into this girl, or that shes just a complete flirt. My guess is that your too in to this girl. What your doing wrong is letting it get to you. Never let a girl control you. Your the prize, not her. I say just move on and forget about her. The last thing you want is the "fuckin mexican kid" on your case.

Go up to her (or text/call her, which either one you prefer, but I recommend going up to her), and just flat out ask her what shes planning to do. Tell her that your just confusing things, and that your losing patience, and ask if she is planning to have a relationship with the Mexican kid. If she doesn't know, say that shes taking too much time, and that you have better things to do, and forget about her. If she is planning to have a relationship with the Mexican guy, then its her loss. Forget about her and move on. Can't do that? Then I'll help you out on that subject. The main point though, is to figure out what she wants. Figure that out, and report back here.

Dude, it's perfectly normal. Some people like to go right at it, some don't. I personally am one who doesn't go after it, because I know just one fuck up, and there's some serious consequences.

Either your giving too much thought into this girl, or that shes just a complete flirt. My guess is that your too in to this girl. What your doing wrong is letting it get to you. Never let a girl control you. Your the prize, not her. I say just move on and forget about her. The last thing you want is the "fuckin mexican kid" on your case.

Go up to her (or text/call her, which either one you prefer, but I recommend going up to her), and just flat out ask her what shes planning to do. Tell her that your just confusing things, and that your losing patience, and ask if she is planning to have a relationship with the Mexican kid. If she doesn't know, say that shes taking too much time, and that you have better things to do, and forget about her. If she is planning to have a relationship with the Mexican guy, then its her loss. Forget about her and move on. Can't do that? Then I'll help you out on that subject. The main point though, is to figure out what she wants. Figure that out, and report back here.

Oh, I know that she's into the mexican fuck. 100% sure, unless he dumps her in a week because from what I know he gets a lot of ass. So yea, it is her fucking loss, since he would treat her like just another girl that he goes out with and I think I'd treat her with much more care, since she would be my first. But anyway, I'd be really interested to hear what you have to say about helping to forget about girls. Thanks.

Forget her dude.

Not worth the bother.

Exactly, but what I don't get is why every 16 year old thinks that he needs to have some kind of relationship. Your 16 enjoy it while you can. There’s no need to force yourself into these situations, when the right girl comes along all will work itself out.

It's not that you're gay, it's that you're gay and ugly.

Oh, I know that she's into the mexican fuck. 100% sure, unless he dumps her in a week because from what I know he gets a lot of ass. So yea, it is her fucking loss, since he would treat her like just another girl that he goes out with and I think I'd treat her with much more care, since she would be my first. But anyway, I'd be really interested to hear what you have to say about helping to forget about girls. Thanks.

Two words. Go out.

Just go out more, theres females everywhere. Left, right, high, low, sideways, upside down, you get the picture. Just place yourself around more girls. Meet new woman, you'll quickly find a girl you like. Better yet, you have a high chance of finding a girl better than the first. Since summer is ending soon, school will come to play, (Depending where you live of course) so meeting girls won't be too hard. Unless you can't approach girls, then thats a whole different story...

Exactly, but what I don't get is why every 16 year old thinks that he needs to have some kind of relationship. Your 16 enjoy it while you can. There’s no need to force yourself into these situations, when the right girl comes along all will work itself out.

Not neccessarily a relationship, but most of the kids in my class have hooked up. I just feel sort of isolated from everyone in a way because I've never even kissed, whether in a drunken moment or a loving relationship.

.... I just feel sort of isolated from everyone in a way because I've never even kissed, whether in a drunken moment or a loving relationship.

So go to the mall and find a girl. Tell her that your gonna kiss her and do it.


There problem solved.

I don't see what the big deal is!!!

I dont know how you can have never kissed a girl. I was breaking brastraps in grade 6 and 7. Fuck text messages that shit's retardedly gay and cannot under any circumstances be called communication.