So I'm single female...yes.... I'm slightly heart broken because I've been dumped...for about a month now after a almost 2 year relationship... except I've had a good weekend and I'm getting better.

Anyways I am losing my sexual appetite. I have slightly started masturbating but it is really hard. There is this guy that I am thinking about going out with but I just don't want him to touch me. Then there is this other guy who will be here in a week and it's 4 years in the making that him and I should fuck eachother.. but I'm kinda meh about it.

I think it's because I still love my ex girlfriend and I've been having dreams about fucking girls. When I was with her I thought about guys... when I am not with her now I think about girls.

I guess I don't know what I want.

Anyways even if the thought of having sex or even kissing anyone except for my ex has absolutely no appeal to me... should I just force it. Pretend I like it and maybe then I actually will?

No.

You shouldn't force anything like that. You should go with your feelings. If its women you want then go for women. If its men you want go for men. If its your ex you want, then try and patch up things between yourselves.

Except you say you don't know what you want.

So, really, you need to find that out before you do anything.

She barely wants to be friends with me... so that will never happen.

Also I don't trust her anymore. She hasn't been nice. It would be stupid to ever get back with her even if in a million years she wanted to because she broke my heart, stomped all over it, and barely cared... to the point where us being friends is starting to sound like a worse and worse idea even though this is what we are trying to do.

When I said dreams i literally meant dreams..... when I sleep. I don't fantasize anymore, not even about my ex. I feel like that's stupid.

Okay so apparently research says when you love someone and that's over it takes 2-6months of recovery for every year you loved them.

So it could take 4months-1year for me to get over her. Fuck that.

Okay so apparently research says when you love someone and that's over it takes 2-6months of recovery for every year you loved them.

So it could take 4months-1year for me to get over her. Fuck that.

From the sounds of this and your other thread, I believe I have pinpointed your problem:

You just jump from partner to partner and never let yourself get over them properly.

Just be single for a while, FFS. It's not that hard.

Im in the same boat sort of. I mean its been a month and a half and I still lover her always will and we still great friends but we aren't going to get back together that way. Well I mean im still a horny fuck but for some reason I can't picture fucking anyone else but her. I mean theres like no drive to go out and find someone else, all I want is her. So I masterbate, and don't force trying to find someone. Although I really would like to. I mean its weird like I couldn't even think of fucking someone super hot. I mean I want to but a part of me doesn't. Like if Jessica Alba came over and said "APRentice I want you to fuck me so good and video tape it and oh we can do anal" I mean id probably be able to say yes but theres not like a big "HOLY SHIT DUDE that sounds so fucking awesome" as it used to before I was with this girl. So I know what you mean about being meh towards people that are not your ex.

Also for those of you that say BS youd fuck Jessica Alba, because I know someone will, your dumb. Because I know I would fuck her im just saying the intense urges for other girls are gone since I met my ex over 2 years ago.

Stupid thing didnt put my edit. The main point is I myself would probably force it because I mean you don't know till you try you might think its not what you want. The only thing that would hold me back if some hot chick was like "yo i wanta suck your dick and fuck you" is if there was any hope to get with my ex other then that id try to fuck.