Getting right to the point, I've found my boyfriend enjoys when sex hurts a bit. The harder I bite his neck, the louder he moans; the closer my fingernails are to breaking the skin on his back, the happier he is. He even enjoys (gentle) biting during blowjobs. I'd like to find other ways to fulfill his want for pain, but the last thing I want to do is really hurt him (that is, cause any lasting damage!). Any thoughts/suggestions?

- The ToTSEan formerly known as Malice in Wonderland

Is it just pain he enjoys or a bit of humiliation as well?

You could try inserting a finger into him dry.

That's filth mate!

I was doing one of my brother's ex birds one night while he was screwing her mate when we were having a foursome...Fun times.

Well...I was drunk as a cunt and on a bit of a trip aswell...So there's me lying on my back on the kitchen floor with her riding me. Now I says to her "C'mon bitch...Move that arse faster!"...She responds with a "You're my bitch!" and slaps me across the face...Then went faster!
Now, if a chick slapped me in the face any other time there's a good chance I'd spit in her eye!
But there was just something about the letting my hair down (no pun intended for those who know I am as bald as a bowling ball!), doing a chick by all rights I shouldn't be doing and being wasted/slightly tripping.

So we're still there going for it and I decided it would be fun to contest her claim that I was, in fact, her bitch...So I called her a bitch again...And lo and behold I got a punch in the face and the tempo went up!

Well, that was me sold...I was calling her every name under the sun and getting a punch here and there (not really hard but hard enough to feel) and I gotta say, that was one of the weirdest yet most enjoyable experiences I've ever had with a chick!

I love biting, especially the hard kind. Not on my genitals though, but the pain sets off my adrenalin which makes me feel awesome.

You could get a horse riding crop.
They dont leave permanent scars if you're not absolutely smacking the hell out of him with it.


/wants one.

Its ok some guys are guilty of liking it.

Maybe he fantasizes about rape. Try hitting him a few times while you're having sex. Try to discuss this with him, see what he likes.

... I gotta say, that was one of the weirdest yet most enjoyable experiences I've ever had with a chick!

What the hell does that imply??