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 #1 
Old 2007-08-24, 00:17
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Kansas
Default Likeing a girl you shouldnt.

This isnt about liking your best friends girl or something like that. The best way to explain it is buy telling you my situation.

There is this girl i tried to ask out about 2 years ago, even though i was rejected we stayed friends. and pretty good friends. now the problem is, suddenly i like her *there is a possibility she feels the same but im no sure* she said to be over the summer, "Im kinda tired of being single" and about a week ago she asked me to go to lunch with her. I play things normal, but i think just because i like her, i think i want her to like me.
Thats what i mean. If she dosent like me * which is most likely* then i could be risking a friendship, i like.
And the other problem is me, as read here: http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2043857
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Old 2007-08-24, 00:29
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Default Re: Likeing a girl you shouldnt.

Get that confidence going and see how it goes dude.

Ask her if she means what you think she means...If she does, go for it.

If she doesn't then just say "Cool...Just wondering was all."
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Old 2007-08-24, 03:05
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Get that confidence going and see how it goes dude.
lol someone beat me to it. seriously though,
the ladies love a confident guy... despite what they might think ;)
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Old 2007-08-24, 03:17
kaworu_nagisa kaworu_nagisa is offline
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yeah man totally just confront her about it, cuz its better to regret something you did do than something you didn't do
 #5 
Old 2007-08-24, 03:20
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Kansas
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Originally Posted by kaworu_nagisa
yeah man totally just confront her about it, cuz its better to regret something you did do than something you didn't do


Grr, idk. could be innocent. but her random "Hey!" text. I have a head ache over this. Imma beat my head into a wall for a while.
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Old 2007-08-24, 09:54
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Groovy.
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She told you she's tired of being single, and then asked you out.

She is clearly hinting that she wants to have sex with you.
 #7 
Old 2007-08-24, 10:38
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Kansas
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Originally Posted by Agent 008
She told you she's tired of being single, and then asked you out.

She is clearly hinting that she wants to have sex with you.


1. Shes a virgin
2. awkward is the way she acts when ever you bring up something about sex.
3. she is pretty innocent.
 #8 
Old 2007-08-24, 10:58
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Groovy.
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3. she is pretty innocent.

She might be, but I'm not :D

I wasn't being completely serious anyway.

Do what psycho_8b said:

Get that confidence going and see how it goes dude.

Ask her if she means what you think she means...If she does, go for it.

If she doesn't then just say "Cool...Just wondering was all."
 #9 
Old 2007-08-24, 11:27
socratic socratic is offline
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Dude, seriously, this is what we call 'a golden opportunity'. Do it, do it, do it, or you'll regret it.

People don't invite you to do things stating they no longer wish to be single willy-nilly.
 #10 
Old 2007-08-24, 18:55
soro_one soro_one is offline
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I know what ya mean, there's this one I got to know, i'm pretty sure it could work out but she has a fucking boyfriend. I mean sure I could find a way to break them up but i'd rather not.

Her boyfriend isn't an asshole or anything either so I can't knock his teeth out and say he was talking shit.

I can wait, it never lasts.
 #11 
Old 2007-08-24, 19:00
Blitzkrieg v2 Blitzkrieg v2 is offline
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Go for it; it's win-win if you ask me. There isn't any real downside if she's not into you. If she says no, you're still just friends. No biggie.
 #12 
Old 2007-08-24, 19:34
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Kansas
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She might be, but I'm not :D

I wasn't being completely serious anyway.

Do what psycho_8b said:

I havent told you the best parts!
1. She is full loas. or what ever they are called. (asian)
2. boobs are a c cup, so she says, but look more like Ds.
3. bootylicious.

The only real thing she has going against here is sometimes she seems to have a bit of an acne problem, but nothing big.

*after 2 years, i came to think it comes and goes with her period*
 #13 
Old 2007-08-24, 19:44
getoffmylawn getoffmylawn is offline
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pull your dick out and see how see reacts...
 #14 
Old 2007-08-24, 19:57
MH-iforgotmypassword MH-iforgotmypassword is offline
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"Im kinda tired of being single"

She wants some. It might not be from you though. I hate it when b*tches say "I'm so lonely... I think I'd make out with anyone", and then, when not around some certain person completely deny any feelings like this.

And if she's willing to tell you that without liking you, than your friendship is strong enough that she will deal with whatever emotions and such there are. So go out to lunch, flirt, and slowly fall into a relationship? Admit your feelings if you think the time is right? Pretend(?) your feelings mirror hers?
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Old 2007-08-24, 20:01
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Kansas
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Originally Posted by getoffmylawn
pull your dick out and see how see reacts...


Funny story. and it ends with she has seen it already.
 #16 
Old 2007-08-24, 20:05
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Groovy.
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Funny story. and it ends with she has seen it already.

Please elaborate?
 #17 
Old 2007-08-24, 20:14
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Kansas
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Please elaborate?

Hmm, it was funny at the time. My parents had just gotten camera phones, and she didnt know their numbers, so i took a pic of my dick, and sent it. *yes, i remembered to delete it* I was talking to her on Yahoo at the time, and i said i didnt send it. so she freaked out that some crazy dude had her number and was sending pictures of his large cock. also, she thought it was fake at first....
 #18 
Old 2007-08-24, 20:35
The Enigma The Enigma is offline
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All I can say is if you don't try you'll always have that "what if?" hanging over your head.
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Old 2007-08-24, 21:32
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Groovy.
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Hmm, it was funny at the time. My parents had just gotten camera phones, and she didnt know their numbers, so i took a pic of my dick, and sent it. *yes, i remembered to delete it* I was talking to her on Yahoo at the time, and i said i didnt send it. so she freaked out that some crazy dude had her number and was sending pictures of his large cock. also, she thought it was fake at first....


I like your style.
 #20 
Old 2007-08-24, 21:36
kaworu_nagisa kaworu_nagisa is offline
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I like your style.

this man speaks the truth, cuz nothing says "i wanna date you" more than sending her pics of your dick
 #21 
Old 2007-08-24, 21:41
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Kansas
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this man speaks the truth, cuz nothing says "i wanna date you" more than sending her pics of your dick

HAHA, that was about a year ago.
 #22 
Old 2007-08-24, 22:04
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bangor northern ireland
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when i read the title, i thought something incest related was gona come up
 
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