Females, what gives you a warm fuzzy feeling inside?

And i want this to be special for her i can not fuck it up.

Stick it in her ass! (Sorry...I really couldn't resist!)

I found that cooking some dinner, turning the lights down and eating with her by candle light works quite well.
After that, get a bottle of wine, two glasses, a couple movies and curl up on the setee together.

Works for me.

Shoot her cat.

lol at STICK IT IN TEH ASS!

Yeah i might have to do that. she isn't a big fan of wine though and wer are both under 21. so heh.
Anmd keep in mind i do not expect sex as a result of this. I want to make he feel special

That will make her feel special.

You've gone to the effort of cooking her a meal, making the surroundings comfortable and talking to her. Then just spending time with her, showing some affection and sharing an interest (movie-wise)

I didn't mean it to be "Do that and you'll be fucking her in no time!"

But yeah...I've done that with a couple girls and it always made them smile...Especially when they know it's not so I can get into her drawers!

ok looks like im cooking her favoirte tongiht, Spaghetti with italian sausage, garlic bread, and Vodka + Mountain dew. ok any way to set up the dining room so it is just right?

You need to think of this yourself.

Make her a big cake, or get your gran/mum to do it and say it was you.

Girls love food.

As long as you do something that involves eating, they will find it romantic.

Whether it be cooking for them, having a picnic, going to a restaurant, whatever.

FOOD man, FOOOOOD

Cuddling, hold her nice and tight and tell her you "wuv her" and talk about your relationship a bit.
Use pet names, and inside jokes to make it seam personal.

Tell her you "lub her and she's purrrrty"

or tell her you stupid her...
If love is stupid, you stupid her.


Stupid cute shit like that works. Helps if your cuddling in bed- because next time she's sleeping and hugs a pillow or teddy bear, she'll think of it.

....Um?



Go easy on the food. Sure it will be sweet to make a meal, but make sure she knows you're not making her eat. She may be one of those eating disorder types.



Generally to make a girl feel special, you listen to her, spend real time with her, and generally enjoy being together.

Vodka + Mountain dew

noice. looks like you have found the perfect girl.

....Um?



Go easy on the food. Sure it will be sweet to make a meal, but make sure she knows you're not making her eat. She may be one of those eating disorder types.



Generally to make a girl feel special, you listen to her, spend real time with her, and generally enjoy being together.

ok i think you are female. I am cooking her favorite meal and mixing her favorite drink. This is actually making me nervous because i don't want to fuck it up. so easy on the food check, anything else.

noice. looks like you have found the perfect girl.

Yeah she is the perfect girl in my eyes. and many of the popular people wonder how the hell i actually managed to hook up with her.

You know what she likes, right? Do it.

Any off-hand comments you can remember? Her saying how she likes this or that, wants to do this sometime, etc. etc. etc.?

I rember one time she was in her car and i rember she had a bunch of yuppie type prepps with her listening to thier type of music. She decided to come over to my house and said "fuck that crap they listen to hurts my head! then she popped this in my stereo http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e5XSH9SJceg&NR=1 followed by heavy metal.

When something comes to mind that you think sounds nice, don't write it off as stupid.

Just indulge yourself.

ok well invite her in with her music cranked up?

Play her music after dinner and talk a little more.

Cuddling is always a good way to go...Same as talking...Mix the two!

As for the set up of the dining room...A canldle or two, a flower in a vase (one if it's small...a few if it's bigger...You don't want too many though...It'll be difficult to see each other!) and an Italian guy you hired to play the violin while you eat...Okay maybe not the wop but the flower and candle works.

ok will do. and ould a massage do any good. I just got some roses for her............

Ok, here's the thing. Girls, want you in their pants. If they don't, there is something wrong. She is either insecure, a religious freak or was raped by her dad. Any of those are good reasons to NOT be with a girl.

I'm no Casanova, but I've had my fair share of women since my adolescent party days as a stupid teen. If you do all that shit, and DON'T lick her pussy or touch her boobs... she's gonna think you're a cockamamie faggot. She will tell all her friends, and then you'll be going to the mall with her clique and giggling at cute outfits in no time.

well i will see about that. it all depends on how she reacts. I want this to Be HER Day not mine.

You already have the perfect attitude.

"What are you thinking of doing"?

If you have an answer for that, then, in my books, it's not particularly affectionate.

Just do whatever comes to mind as the day goes on.

The massage...Hmmm...Maybe.

Massaging a girl tends to be a way to get laid...To me at least.

Depends on what type of girl she is.

well lets ay a prep in disguise? She really is more of a regular person so to speak. Cool to hang around with, smart, and beautiful.

Right now im cooking. I got 3 lavendar candles that is her favorite scent. I also have a halfdozen roses in a large vase. the massage is a ? mark right now after what you said.

No offense dude, but c'mon, she's YOUR girlfriend, YOU should know what she likes/doesn't. I guess it's fine to ask for a couple ideas, but a step-by-step guide ?


Bah.. maybe it's just me...

I am assuming the date is done.

How'd it go?

You really need totse to tell you what will make your girlfriend weak in the knees?? Part of the affection is the fact that you thought it up yourself.

I hope it went well.

It went great guys! Thanks alot! She was very happy almost shocked when she saw the flowers, her favorite meal, her favorite candles, and me. After dinner she wanted to listen to Some MArilyn Manson and then some machine head. Cuddled adn talked to her for awhile, gave her a back rub, kissed her goodnight and drove her back home. (I needed to jog anyways)

This is possible the best thing i have manged to pull off with out screwing it up.

hooray! glad it went well for you. no doubt you'll get yer welt sooked next time ;)

i just threw up a little in my mouth.

her favorite candles

she has favourite candles?

ok looks like im cooking her favoirte tongiht, Spaghetti with italian sausage, garlic bread, and Vodka + Mountain dew. ok any way to set up the dining room so it is just right?

you obviously did not need to ask us. about lighting, if you have a light control turn the lights down a bit and light a candle or something, but try not to make it cheesy.

+1 for being a good guy

It went great guys! Thanks alot! She was very happy almost shocked when she saw the flowers, her favorite meal, her favorite candles, and me. After dinner she wanted to listen to Some MArilyn Manson and then some machine head. Cuddled adn talked to her for awhile, gave her a back rub, kissed her goodnight and drove her back home. (I needed to jog anyways)

This is possible the best thing i have manged to pull off with out screwing it up.

There ya go then. Your old uncle psycho knows his shit!

Glad it went well mate. Well done.