Read the situation then tell me what is the correct thing to do.

Say you want to take a girl out somewhere, you call or text her and she says shes busy such and such day(not putting you off, seriously) and she says some other time. Should you persist onward later to "bug" her about going or wait till she gives you a response?

Cause i get confused sometimes i what to do...usually ill wait a few days in btnw asking them and do it in subtle way that way it doesnt seem like im acting desperate. But then some girls you have to be consistent otherwise they think ur not interested ive noticied so its like wtf when do i do work and when do i pause?

Would like to get a serious response to this as i need some legit advice to act on ASAP....

Put the ball in her court mate.

If you've asked her and she says she's busy, ask her when she's not busy and tell her to get in touch...

you "do u wanna go out sumtime s00n?"
her "lol cant rite now im sooo busy wiv skool n shit"
you "cool. wen r u free nxt?"
her "dunno"
you "den let me no wen u r and we will go from there"

Then wait a bit...maybe 4-7 days and get back to her on it.

If she's still saying no, put her on the back burner for some other time and get in touch with one of your other hoochies (you must always have other girls to get in touch with, dude!)

Excuse the spellings and shit...Been about 6 years since I used that txt typing shite! Couldn't resist one last fling with it!

^^^ good advice but doesnt work well with my situation
My situation at hand, this girl i know is leaving tomorrow for college. So shes packing up her shit and all that good stuff. She told me in fact shed hang with me one last time before she leaves. I havent directly came out and asked her since like last week so im probably going to text her here shortly...just cause its legit now, been like a week.

Im just trying to take the perfect route without dropping out and leaving myself open for mistakes to ruin the situation.

I just want to get past a certain stage with her so i feel like i did work....even tho i made superb progress with her on our last date. I just want to finish up here so i dont have to travel fucking 3hrs to visit her at her APT at college to continue where i left off.

Then tell her you're gonna miss her when she's fucked off to college and one last bash would be good. (Bash can mean whatever you want it to mean by the way!)

But yeah...It's been a week so go for it.

yea i am, i formulated an awsome opening line to the situation way earlier in like 5 seconds, that should set me up good one last time....

edit: Yeah idk why shit like this bothers me, and I know alot of girls cant fucking put 2 and 2 together to realize shit when its obvious as fuck, then others realize it right away and own you in your face for it, its just ridiculous...Basically all i was looking for in this topic was someone to confirm that my move was correct and not out of line...thanks...pounded out the text too btw.

2nd edit: No response haha oh well i guess ill have to take the 4/5 versus the 5/5 on this one, i had my fun to an extent and im sorry that i didnt start talking to her sooner, bad timing to an extent....

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