I'm really bad at these do i put it out there n say lets hookup or do i wait n let the chick do it or is it one of those in the heat of the moment things?

by the way i am average looking not fat but not buff and have a good personality

n i don't want some stupid flamer in here so if that what your here for fuck off

I hope your real life speach isnt as bad as your typing. Not a criticism, I just fucking despise txt styl typing.


With a drunken hookup, it's generally something that just happens. Allthough, dont expect good things to happen the next day when she wakes up, doesent know where she is, who you are, or why in the hell she went to bed with you.

Usually if ya are drunk, there isnt much talking needed. just go in for the score.

Go with the flo', is the way to go. Since you're the guy, you gotta make the first move because most girls never do it.

I use the whisper technique:

I get some alone time with the girl so we don't have anyone distracting/getting in the way, get close, then whisper something then go in for the kiss when you have some eye contact and you can tell she digs you.

This is something that can't be taught btw. It's something you have learn by yourself, from reading the signs women give you.

Just act like you don't give a shit, there's nothing worse than someone who's being all clingy when you wanna be drunk and having a good time.

GO watch superbad kid

Kiss her. Get the arousal up and you won't have to worry about it. Just don't ask "Can I touch your boobs?" - Not nearly as likely to work. I won't say it hasn't worked... but typically, its easier to just sway in close and kiss her. Or if shes drunk let her sway in and then kiss her. Good stuff. It all follows from there, and you can lead it on much easier than if she was sober.

When you're talking to her, just stop for a minute. Touch her hair, then her face, then pull her in and kiss her. It may seem difficult but if you're drunk, works like a charm!

I hope your real life speach isnt as bad as your typing. Not a criticism, I just fucking despise txt styl typing.

I speak well and you'd be surprised how many hot chicks I lost to the guy who couldn't string a proper sentence together with the aid of a fucking book to read it from!

Sad sad times we live in.

Definitely something that just happens. That's part of the thrill, the idea that you're drunk and reckless and out to have a good time. If you plan it, you kill the fun at least partially if not fully.

"Analysis kills spontaneity. The grain that is crushed into flour will no longer germinate."

GO watch superbad kid

lawl QFT!

LOL i love waking up the next mornign and remembering what you go up to with a girl that night. Unless you know them, it's horrible going back to school after a party if you've done something embarrassing with a fat chick and everyone knows about it.