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Old 2007-08-22, 06:36
reborn thief reborn thief is offline
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Default Sex dreams with this one girl [longish]

Over the past few nights I have been having sex dreams with this girl I used to be really good friends with.Her name is Taylor But that changed after she went out with my cousin and then dumped him for a chick... I know thats pretty sad but yes for a chick. Ill explain the only 2 that I can remember very clearly...

The first dream....
My cousin was having a party, yes the one she dumped, and everyone was invited to it. All of my friends and all of his friends and other peoples friends, big ass party. So anyway, there was a lot of booze and when I saw Taylor we just started talking, having a few drinks and just chilling. A little later into the night we started to hook up and just start to mess around a little bit. I tell her I'll be right back because I was going to talk to my cousin. I'm talking to my cousin and I don't have a clue what it was about when Taylor comes a long. She whispers into my ear,"C'mon lets go have some fun." She just grabbed my wrist and brought me into the room and I woke up.

Im thinking that going into this room she was going to either Kill me or Fuck me. One or the other.

The second dream...
I was in this strange world and Taylor was there with one of her best friends whom I went out with before. There was a river and we decided to go for a swim. We randomly pull out some bathing suits and get changed and go swimming. Me and her best friend get out but Taylor isn't. We see her struggling to get back onto the land so I jump in and save her. She is breathing very very heavily so I tell her to take off her top and I give her CPR even though shes still breathing. I guess that was to just give her air. Her friend walks off to somewhere and starts talking to this random person. Taylor doesn't put her top back on and brings me over to somewhere this time I'm staying asleep. So we get to this place and she starts putting her boobs all in my face and shit and rubbing against my body and I notice shes getting very horny from this. I say to her,"If your a lesbian why are you getting so horny?" She just answers with, "I don't know, lets find out." So she pushes me over and I woke up.

When I woke up I had a raging boner. It was the biggest morning wood I have ever had when I have woken up before.

Is this a sign of something? I mean I don't mind these things but we got into a big fight and we haven't talked again. I haven't talked to her in about 2 years. Is this a sign that I am becoming attracted to her, or am I just having a relapse or something?

Also, should I tell her about this or should I leave it to myself?

Heres a picture of her for a thanks =] :p
http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b5/mcrmylovex3/yayaypictures1383.jpg
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Old 2007-08-22, 06:42
Malkog Malkog is offline
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Default Re: Sex dreams with this one girl [longish]

Haha, talk about it with her if you like... Who knows where it'll end up?

I wouldn't say that it means anything in particular imo, it just means something your subconscious is picking up is reminding you of her in some way. It doesn't necessarily mean attraction, but it doesn't mean you're not.

Surely you can answer that for yourself though.

She's pretty hot though.

I'd buy that for a dollar.
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Old 2007-08-22, 06:45
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I honestly would talk to her about it but she doesnt talk to me any more. Like even if i tried to talk to her she would just tell me to fuck off or some stupid ass shit like that even though I apologized to her for the fight I was talkin to her about. And when i try to call her she either hangs up or doesn't pick up. This is so confusing.

If I have another one of these dreams Ill post it tomorrow.
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Old 2007-08-22, 06:47
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What's her MSN?
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Old 2007-08-22, 06:51
Malkog Malkog is offline
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Dude, I had a dream where this smart-ass bitch in my grade had two dicks instead of tits. And one, where this other smart arse bitch had this dick made of leather.

Maybe I'm fucked up, or maybe dreams don't mean you're attracted to her still.
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Old 2007-08-22, 06:51
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What's her MSN?

has AIM. Id probly give it to you to because I really dont like her but I want to talk to her before you go and destroy her life.

Oh she is a total make out whore to. She has made out with over 150 guys and over 50 Chicks and Im dead serious, about that. I was one of the kids that went over her with that shit. And shes given head to about 5 kids. I was her first from what she told me. But thats hard to believe...
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Old 2007-08-22, 07:59
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Default Re: Sex dreams with this one girl [longish]

Perhaps...you're attracted to her??!


I'd leave it though. she collects TY beanie babies, therefore she will be sacrificed to angry gods at the age of 19.
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Old 2007-08-22, 18:35
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i knew it... all lebians/gays/bi's are in SOME way emo... (cd in the pic)
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Old 2007-08-22, 19:50
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Default Re: Sex dreams with this one girl [longish]

Im thinking that going into this room she was going to either Kill me or Fuck me. One or the other.

Best laugh I've had all day. And that's good, considering that I'm not all that happy about driving back to college to be reacquainted with my General Psychology professor tomorrow.

Anyway, let me offer a quick hypothesis/evaluation using my psychiatric training.

1). The reason we dream has not been fully been determined yet. However, there are several leading theories on this matter. One of the top two is that during the sleep state (in deep theta), the subconscious mind communicates with the conscious mind. In doing so, all of your primitive and repressed thoughts are communicated to your consciousness in the form of dreams.

Basing my evaluation on this theory, I would assume that there is some part of you, deep in your mind, that lusts for this "Taylor" character.

However, if you're looking for some "out of the box" (or in other words, "metaphysical") thinking on this matter, I suggest posting this question in "The Science of the Damned."

If you have any further questions, all you need to do is quote me, and ask them.
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Old 2007-08-22, 21:11
getoffmylawn getoffmylawn is offline
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hehe you like a homely girl...
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Old 2007-08-22, 21:19
Cynewulf Cynewulf is offline
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zx diet pepsi is the thing you mentioned about the left and right brains connecting, freud's theroy?

Reborn thief i think the best person to tell you more about this would be a hypnotist. I'm guessing that he could place you in a trance and ask you questions and such which, your right brain will then be active. Rather than trying to decode it from a dream.
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Old 2007-08-22, 22:41
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Default Re: Sex dreams with this one girl [longish]

zx diet pepsi is the thing you mentioned about the left and right brains connecting, freud's theroy?

No. If you're talking about Freud's Seduction Theory, that has more to do with later-in-life social problems being caused by the untimely introduction of sex into a child's world. I think that it was finally denounced by Freud himself, but I can't remember. It was touched upon in a Criminology class I took.

Anyway, the theory I'm talking about is touched on in the Continual-Activation Theory by Jie Zhang. It has to do with short-term memory being transferred into long-term memory. During this process, parts of the brain that usually remain separate (not just the Right and Left brain, because they communicate quite often) are communicating with each other. The transfer of memory that occurs is hypothesized to cause a sort of "scanning" of old neurons, resulting in a random firing of past experiences. This, is what we call dreams.

However, Zhang (and others) says that there may actually be a touch of consciousness during REM (explaining phenomena like lucid dreams) which may cause repressed memories and desires to appear in our dreams.

Hope that explanation clears things up.

PS: Don't go to a hypnotist unless he is certified. Sometimes they try to jip you out of money.
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Old 2007-08-23, 04:07
NiGhT PrOwLeR NiGhT PrOwLeR is offline
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Default Re: Sex dreams with this one girl [longish]

http://s16.photobucket.com/albums/b5/mcrmylovex3/?action=view&current=yayaypictures1349.jpg

JA! vi elskar lesbe!!!!
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Old 2007-08-23, 04:22
MH-iforgotmypassword MH-iforgotmypassword is offline
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Default Re: Sex dreams with this one girl [longish]

Pressure on the prostate from a full bladder gets you aroused, not that your dreams don't help. So you could piss before bed / don't drink much at night if you want to help eliminate them.... then again, why would you.

I don't think it means anything. I've had dreams about all sorts of girls... even ones that I would never want, on any level. Not a good dream to wake up from.
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Old 2007-08-23, 17:40
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Default Re: Sex dreams with this one girl [longish]

Quote:
Originally Posted by NiGhT PrOwLeR
http://s16.photobucket.com/albums/b5/mcrmylovex3/?action=view&current=yayaypictures1349.jpg

JA! vi elskar lesbe!!!!


yeap.
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Old 2007-08-23, 21:04
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Default Re: Sex dreams with this one girl [longish]

fuck yo i wish my best friend gave me head she is a whore too but i never asked her to give me but she didnt ask if i wanted either
 
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