I am a 17 year old male, and my little sister is 10 years old. She is very fucking tall for her age.

Basically what I am getting at, is the kind of clothes she wears. She just started wearing a training bra, and she wears really short shorts, tight tank tops, and sometimes just walks around in short shorts and a bikini top. Not to mention the super tight "hot pants."\

I have told her to go inside and change her clothes before, and she just gets all pissed off at me. I talked to our parents about it, and it is like there is nothing they can do. It is just really irritating to see your 10 year old sister dressing like a slut. She gets super mad at me when she is outside playing with her freidns or whatever, and me and my friends are kickin it on our porch, and I am just like wtf. I was talking to one of my female friends about it and she went over and talked to my sister about it. I guess that she told her that she can see her underwear when she bent over or something, and my sister stomped into the house, locked herself in her room and cried for like 10 minutes. When she came out she was all pissed off and shit.

Does this make me such a bad brother for caring about how she dresses?

Actually it makes you a good brother that you dont want your sister looking/acting like a compleat whore. You really should have a sit down with her and explain to her how people will she her as nothing more than a piece of meat when she gets older, and how she will be treated with no respect.
The truth of how crap works can often scare youngins into doing the 'right'. I like eye candy, and i take a good look at whores and i dont treat them with respect.
Gotta have sluts, but everyone cant be sluts.
I dont have a younger sister myself but couple of young nieces i care a lot about.

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Yea man your being a good brother. If my little sister started dressing that way first off id go talk to my mom and be like WTF how you going to let my sister dress like a fucking whore? And then id talk to my sister. Luckily my sisters a little genuis and hopefully going to be more into books then boys. Shes only 7 now but damn girls start dressing whorish early. Its defiantly the fault of society. I mean look at those "bratz" dolls they are meant for little kids yet the dolls dress sluttier then fucking Paris hilton.

/agree

I thought this thread was going to be about incest.

what do you parents mean, 'there's nothing they can do'?. who buys her these clothes? she's ten years old. they should just NOT ALLOW her to have them. she will not shrivel up and die if they tell her she can't dress like a skank.

I have four younger sisters. None of them are allowed to dress like that. Your parents' excuse of not being able to control it is B.S. Maybe when your kid sister is 17 it might be different, but not when she's 10.

And I'd be pissed too if my 10 year old sister was dressing like that.

Lol.

Now, what would your response be if she walked up to you and said " go indoors and change! You look really bad!"

You wouldnt fucking take that shit, would you?


Just because you're her big brother doesent mean you can controll her or have any buisness intefering with what she wears.
Leave it alone..

Lol.

Now, what would your response be if she walked up to you and said " go indoors and change! You look really bad!"

You wouldnt fucking take that shit, would you?


Just because you're her big brother doesent mean you can controll her or have any buisness intefering with what she wears.
Leave it alone..

Im going to take a guess and say he probably wasn't wearing cloths that make him look like a fucking whore or something of that nature. And he wasn't telling her she looked "bad" he was trying to tell her not to dress like a fucking whore. Im all for letting kids do what makes them happy but if it makes them look like fucking whores begging to be fucked then they can wait till they are older to wear it.

I talked to our parents about it, and it is like there is nothing they can do.

They could stop buying her clothes that they disapprove of and start disciplining their child.


Does this make me such a bad brother for caring about how she dresses?

No, it makes you a good brother.

Lol.

Now, what would your response be if she walked up to you and said " go indoors and change! You look really bad!"

You wouldnt fucking take that shit, would you?


Just because you're her big brother doesent mean you can controll her or have any buisness intefering with what she wears.
Leave it alone..

I somewhat agree.

The only reason is because your sister is so young. Maybe if she was 13 or 14, then I could see the problem.

However, when I was 10 I was running around in next to no clothing at all. I mean, when I went places I usually wore pants and a shirt, but other than that, around the house and at my friends houses, I wore no shirt, usually no shoes and probably just shorts or something.

Then again I live in Texas and it is usually hot here and to dress like that especially in the summer is usually accepted.

Really, I'd wait until she is a little older to get concerned. In her mind she isn't dressing "whorish" but instead what is comfortable to her. When she gets to an age that she can actually realize she is dressing like a whore is when you should be concerned.

I introduced my 11 year old sister to punk, now she dresses like the singer from the Devotchkas, unfortunately this results in people thinking shes my girlfriend when we hang out, god dammit people, she's 11 for chrissakes.

I think your Dad needs to remember what his belt is for.

No way would a daughter of mine go out looking like that.

Yeah, tell ya dad to keep his pants on.;)

unfortunately this results in people thinking shes my girlfriend when we hang out, god dammit people, she's 11 for chrissakes.

I think that's legal in New Zullend :p

With any luck when she hits puberty she'll get fat and lumpy and wont want to wear that sort of stuff anyway. Or atleast if she does she wont be in any danger... to most people.

Yeah i do. Unfortunately i'm not very attached to her, she just seems to be a fat annoying person who lives in the same house as me and steals my shit. I never really got the whole sibling bond thing.

Besides, at ten i was switching between a dressing gown or shorts and a shirt, i rarely bothered with shoes or underwear. Preteens will be preteens.

I think that getoffmylawn has a point in saying that we need to see how bad it is... but, not in a pedo way. I, as an older brother with a younger sister, know it's easy to think what is really normal attire is OMGZ SHE'S GONNA GET FINGERED TOMORROW, SUCK SOME GUYS DICK THE NEXT DAY, AND IN THREE WEEKS TIME BE STARING AN GANGBANG FILMS.

Realistically, dressing slutty isn't that bad, and it's not like people will have no respect for her. It depends on how she carries herself. If she's loud and obnoxious and talks about how she fucks guys alll the time AND dresses slutty, then you might have a problem. But guess what: today's society is pretty used to revealing clothing, and even clothing that isn't necessarily revealing but encourages a certain type of imagination.

Most importantly, as yoyobek pointed out, it's not your place to be telling your sister what and what not to wear.

Most importantly, as yoyobek pointed out, it's not your place to be telling your sister what and what not to wear.

Fuck that shit older brothers put in seniority man I can do whatever the fuck I want to my younger siblings. If mine was wearing something I didn't like and I told them to take it off and they didn't i'd pull it all off pick them up and lock them outside in the front yard. They'd be pissed for a bit but they'd deal with it.

You have to show them whatsup man I have a little brother and if he's playing one of my video games or anything(I own most of the shit in this house) and I tell him to get off and he gives me lip I smack him in the fucking mouth. When he gets the idea in his mind he might be able to stand up for himself he gets a headlock and I make him hit himself in the face until he cries.

Sure I fuckin piss him off but he still respects me and what I have to say and pretty much now does whatever I say. He's gonna be fucking tough when he's older though.

Sure I fuckin piss him off but he still respects me and what I have to say and pretty much now does whatever I say. He's gonna be fucking tough when he's older though.

Yeah, respects you out of fear, not love. IMO, that's NOT the kind of respect I want to earn from my little sister.

To the OP, the most you can do is make her aware of the image she's putting out. Maybe suggest some more conservative clothes, but you can't change her wardrobe. 10 year olds are brats.

Whoever made the Bratz comment, you are right. My sister is OBSESSED with bratz. And it was mostly one of her friends that that got her into dressing like a slut, and an attitude problem.

And it is not just the going out in public part, but I really don't want to see my sister dress like that myself. I find myself involuntarily checking her out for a split second before I put myself in check, and then I get pissed off. And no, I am not into incest, I am just a red blooded American teenager.

shes fucking 10. she cant dress like a slut. shes fucking 10. its still ok for her to do stuff like that. in a couple years, when puberty actually hits and shes still doing that, then get concerned. but let her be 10 and play outside the wearing what she wants now.

Tell your parents that it's their fault when she gets pregnant the month after she gets her first period.

Seriously though, the guy I quoted has it right. THEY are the ones buying her those kind of clothes. It's THEIR money. Just don't give her the cash, and it won't happen.

I remember when I was a lad, all of my friends were getting an allowance for doing their "chores." I asked my parents for money in return for doing work around the house, and they told me "Ok. We'll give you the money, but you have to live outside. You live here for free, so we don't owe you anything, YOU owe US." That affected me all the way up until now. I swear it made me a better person.

Anyway, she can't buy the clothes on her own, because she doesn't have a job, so their ability not to control it is indeed "BS."

And it is not just the going out in public part, but I really don't want to see my sister dress like that myself. I find myself involuntarily checking her out for a split second before I put myself in check, and then I get pissed off. And no, I am not into incest, I am just a red blooded American teenager.

That says more about you than your sister.

It's sweet that you care and all, but really, kicking up a fuss about it is going to make her so fucking miserable. Do you want her to start wearing huge long black robes and saggy hoodies? DO YOU WANT HER TO TURN EMO!??!

DO YOU WANT HER TO TURN EMO!??!

Yes, yes. That would not be a good thing...

Emos, emos, they're everywhere! Hide me Totse!

Actually it makes you a good brother that you dont want your sister looking/acting like a complete whore. You really should have a sit down with her and explain to her how people will she her as nothing more than a piece of meat when she gets older, and how she will be treated with no respect.
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Couldn't have said it any better.

I didn't read anything.

Yeah, 16 y/o sister.

post pics plz

That says more about you than your sister.

It's sweet that you care and all, but really, kicking up a fuss about it is going to make her so fucking miserable. Do you want her to start wearing huge long black robes and saggy hoodies? DO YOU WANT HER TO TURN EMO!??!

As much as I fucking hate god damn emo kids and their stupid fucking shit. I would much rather my sister be an emo bitch then some skank whore.

I mean its whats wrong with the world today. I can't count how many times ive been driving down the road or at a mall and take a quick glance and be like "Damn id fuck the hell out of that", and then after a second or I get closer I can tell the REAL age of the person. I mean girls that dress like that and get all this bullshit whore stuff LOOK older at a glance. Its just not right Its fucking ridiculous younger girls should be trying to preserve their youth not get fucking older.

And its not just the cloths either it is attitude and what they do. I still wont forget watching middle school confessions and hearing some little 6th-8th graders talking about how they suck cock, and do drugs and get drunk and fuck around with each other. I mean 6th graders talking about sucking dick, dude back in my day which isn't that long ago middle school was where you started kissing and maybe felt a girl up at most.

post pics plz

Maybe, if i find some.

you should tell her to take her clothes off because they are slutty.

It's summer there, right? I mean hell when I was a child in summer I lived in my swimsuit - does that make me a slut?
I wore short skirts with singlet tops - but not to BE slutty, just because it was HOT and that was the best thing to run around in.
You're not helping her with her body image issues by saying what shes wearing makes her look bad either - she may have never realised that her underwear was showing under her skirt - do you not realise how that could really confuse and upset her?
Do you go around telling mothers off when you can see their kids nappy when they're running around, bending over and picking things up?
Your approach isn't going to help her, but more likely to scar her instead, she's getting to a stage now when she's going to start looking at her body, finding flaws in it - and you telling her to cover up and not to look slutty isn't helping one bit. She's still a CHILD and you shouldn't be concerning her with what she looks like at age 10.

there seems to be sound advice here for particular situations.. but we dont really know his.. she could be a little bratz slut in training or she could just be dressing for the weather. the best thing you can do for her is educate her on the dark side of society, that is if shes naive and has any possible contact with it. im not an older brother or anything but i imagine planting some seeds of skepticism and distrust would be a good thing for any young girl i want to protect. also id let her know what the proper kinds of affection are for her to seek and how to tell if somebody is using her etc. if i deem she understood and chose to deviate then its none of my business because ive done my part. however if she still seems to not get it id keep pressing and protecting until i feel she could do it on her own.

then again if shes a smart young girl shell figure it out..

life is an adventure so itd be a shame to needlessly take the wind out of her sails when things are more beautiful and less complicated.

Man I'd hate to be you. My step-sister is already a complete slut and she's only 13. No one believes it but yea, it's true. She's had several 15-16 year old boyfriends and all of them have fucked her and she only recently got caught and gave a big bullshit spiel about how they were "waiting for marriage." I don't find her attractive shes just a child and somehow theres all these 6 packed wigger idiots fucking her. It's a good thing I don't give a shit about her or else I'd have to micromanage like you do.

She just likes dick that's all, I'm not gonna tell her how to live her life that shit is annoying it's just a little fucked up that she still has the body of a child and is running around getting stiff dicked then coming home and watching Disney channel.

You're being responsible and looking out for her. Good for you.

Don't worry about it dude...My sister used to pull that whiny bullshit with me if I said she was wearing something dodgy. It's what they do. Spolied bitches!

All you can do is try mate...And make sure she knows how to kick a paedo in the bollocks and run like fuck.

OP, you need to unfuck your parents right this minute.

Show them "weloveteengirls.com" and flip the fuck out. "Is that the kind of shit you want to see your daughter turning out to be?!"

The fact they're willing to buy her the garments she's wearing at her age not only screams of negligence on their part, but the sexualization of young girls by the corporate empire. Don't let them win.

That stupid ass friend who got her into those damn Bratz dolls needs to make friends with a front bumper.

What fucking parent in their right mind would buy ghetto dolls with "attitude"? Fuck, they bitch about videogames making kids violent, why aren't dolls like that blamed for making eleventeen-year-olds little skanks?

No. Does anyone who has a 'problem' kid sister want to sell or give a long term lease on her? :p

Heck...she could be growing tits & bleeding already or very soon.

Maybe someone should explain to her that if she wears (or _doesn't_ wear, as the case may be..) certain clothing, when she goes anywhere where there are other males, they are liable to dwell on thoughts of her, naked, bent over a table, taking their cocks in her delicate pre-teen twat while her vaginal juices and virgin blood trickle down her th--... you get the point.

Either that, or wait until she's old enough to understand the implications of the clothing without needing to be told before letting her wear that shit.

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Is she pretty (huhhuhhuh...)? Isn't 10 old enough for a decent looking girl to have noticed the 'Look'? That's what I've heard women call it when they notice that men are looking at them as sexual creatures.

Who hasn't been drawn to a too young pretty face? Even if it's just the few secs it takes to say to yourself, "Too youngzors"?

It's natural to look at what is beautiful. Trouble is, before you grab yourself you might just give them a vibe of "You're attractive/very attractive". One reason they dress that way. I very much doubt that any 10 yr old doesn't have some pretty strong thoughts on sexual attraction. Even before puberty.

Even if they don't have older sisters, they're friends do. Let alone all the females in the media. 10? Even if they're not sexually active (much) they're prob gossiping about girls a year or two older who do/are rumored to do sexual stuff.

Any girlszors here care to reveal their sex gossip from when they were 10?