Ok, this starts with small history lesson about myself. I have gone through most my life pretty popular. Only a few people really ever hated me and i had alot of people that wernt exactly friends, but nice enough.
Now, i have had very few girlfriends. Maxing out at 5. and my longest relationship has only been about a months and a half. Every girl said the same thing after we broke up, i like you, just not enough.
Is this a problem with myself??? Am i too friendly of a guy? Is that even possible to be too friendly with a girl?

it is possible to be too friendly.

Girls are differant but if you meet a couple criteria they want which are pretty standard you're good.

I dunno I've been known to be kind of an asshole and to do evilish things and at least girls will be interested in me at first. I haven't had many long term relationships but they were mostly for other reasons (mostly cocaine related). It's good to be bad sometimes...

Same, friend. I have no problem getting girls but keeping them I find neigh impossible.

I think I'm severely flawed somehow. :)

-F☺rd

I have ALLOT of friends.
I mean, ALLOT.
Every person i meet ends up being a friend. So, you see, with basically all the girls saying, "Oh, but we are friends, that would be weird" getting them has been a problem in the past.
Also. its easier to pick up girls when you are actually in school. i have only met a very few girls since i graduated.

Mm, I get it. Try and keep yourself out of the "friend zone" or whatever. Do you think of yourself as a sexual person?

-F☺rd

Sexual, yes. Never had a complaint at least.
Sexy. no.

your stalling out somewhere, if you been with 5 girls and they all said the same thing id be comparing all of the times as a whole together with them and look for a pattern of some sort or something that sticks out to possibly show you where you went wrong. Theres gotta be a reason if all the girls said the same thing, id be looking for some changes/corrections ASAP

Yeah, I pretty much have the same problem. Simple enough to hook up with them and fool around for a while, but never for over two months. I have no idea what the fuck is wrong with me because they always lie and say the same thing. eg. "We just lost the spark." or the classic, "I just don't have time for a boyfriend right now." Fuck! If they just told me the truth, maybe I could find some way of fixing the problem, but no. They have to be lying, sneaky bitches.

Meh, maybe in reality there is no problem, bitches will be bitches and they'll never stop lying to get out of a sticky situation.

Sexual, yes. Never had a complaint at least.
Sexy. no.

As arrogant and egotistical as it is, I've found that if I believe myself to be sexy and desirable to a woman, I'll get her.

Now, I don't really think highly of myself looks-wise...I get complimented all the time and told how good looking I am but it doesn't mean much to me. When I'm in that state of mind, a girl can sense it and I'll be as desirable as a pork chop in a synagogue.

When I think to myself "I'm a good looking guy, I can make this girl laugh and I'm a great fuck...She'd be lucky to get me...Let's see if she's lucky today!" I tend to do a lot better.

Confidence is the key buddy...It's true what they say about girls being attracted to confidence. Give it a go.

As arrogant and egotistical as it is, I've found that if I believe myself to be sexy and desirable to a woman, I'll get her.

Now, I don't really think highly of myself looks-wise...I get complimented all the time and told how good looking I am but it doesn't mean much to me. When I'm in that state of mind, a girl can sense it and I'll be as desirable as a pork chop in a synagogue.

When I think to myself "I'm a good looking guy, I can make this girl laugh and I'm a great fuck...She'd be lucky to get me...Let's see if she's lucky today!" I tend to do a lot better.

Confidence is the key buddy...It's true what they say about girls being attracted to confidence. Give it a go.

I know confidence is key, and it has never been a lack of confidence, i know i dont look great, but not letting that affect you is what i do.
Honestly, people have said i look good.
not so sure myself, you judge. http://i132.photobucket.com/albums/q9/combat_wombat6/IMG_0122.jpg

Confidence is the key buddy...It's true what they say about girls being attracted to confidence. Give it a go.

^^ You got damn better believe that, have that cocky side to your game but at the same time dont push it too much, and prepare to fucking see some amazing results....

I look back at my times this summer overall(putting my game to the test) and think how da fuck did i manage all this, and realizing that ive done this boost my confidence even more knowing ive proved to myself what im capable of.

CW6 I am not going to judge your appearance...That's not what matters here...It about being confident in yourself and believing you can get the girl.

And if she says no...Pfft...Fuck it, whatever!

never really said getting a girl was a problem.
Keeping the long term is it. and iv had my share of booty calls, but im referring to an actual relationship. If i just want sex, yea, i wouldnt have made this thread. I can do that.

hmmm, you know i noticed a pretty large amount of people replying to this seem to have a really easy time getting girlfriends but then seem to completely break down and lose them around the two three month mark. i wonder if maybe there is some similar personality trait they share, including myself, that prevents alot of these people from carrying on longer relationships.

Must be the same thing that makes us come on totse.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_theory#Attachment_in_adult_romantic_rel ationships

-F☺rd

Nice guys finish last. It's too true. I was a nice guy, always got stepped on. I said fuck it and punched anyone who said something about me, stopped giving a fuck what people thought or how they felt and looked out for number one. Now I have plenty of friends, people respect me or they fear me. When girls try doing shit I don't like I tell them to go fuck themselves and they love it. Nobody ever tries to make me do their shit for them anymore, no one asks for favours either.

Fuck everyone else i'm dead either way.

QFT, i find it really sad how true this statment is. i mean women say they want nice guys who understand them and are sweet and blah blah blah, but then they go for jerks who treat them like crap. just sad how its true. Well true for most girls anyway