im 17 years old and have been having sex since i was about 16 it doesnthurt, its just that i get no pleasure from it, i also dont get any plesure fingering myself.
why is this??

It's because sex just isn't for you.

You have no clitoris.

I was like this too.. For a long time I felt no pleasure from sex.. And to some extent even now, I still feel this way.. Vaginal penetration feels okay... but not that great.. Sometimes if I was really horny or something, it felt good.. Oddly enough, not every time.. I think the real sexual satisfaction comes from orgasm.. If you try like, masturbation during sex, I bet you'd find it much more enjoyable..

Why the fuck are you telling that to us? We're not having sex with you, so what the fuck are we supposed to do?

I think you should start having sex with people that actually give a damn whether you get off or not.

But if you simply can't orgasm no matter what, by yourself or from sex, you either have some really deeply rooted psychiatric affliction or are one of those people who are physically incapable of enjoying sex.

maybe you're ugly...

You have no clitoris.
actually clitoral stimulation is the only pleasure i find



maybe you're ugly...
but even ugly people enjoy sex

maybe your a nun in denial.

Try to relax and get a guy who cares about you getting yours rather than what he's interested in.

actually clitoral stimulation is the only pleasure i find

Stimulate your clitoris while having sex...?

Naw, try BDSM!

I lolled

If you're so unhelpfull why do you post here?

Alot of this forum is about reading peoples oppinions, giving your own about their situation and occaisionally trying to help them.

It's weird how when you mean 'I dont care' you say 'We dont care'. perhaps you should speak for yourself not the rest of totse?





Thread starter, Some people just dont have a sex drive.
Are you stressed at all? how do you feel about your physical appearance?
If you feel too bad, or you're very stressed, or very caught up in how you look, these things can all effect your sex drive.

When you find that vaginal penetration brings you no pleasure, the only option is anal sex.

First thing that came to mind.

Let him put it in your butt.

women get more nerve endings and a larger blood supply to there vagina latr on in life. So it may just be that youll have to wait. Failing that get a vibrator. Or maybe fine some subject material whicha rouses you properly...

but even ugly people enjoy sex

..even..Deadendgirl?!

Anal is likely the answer. Or masturbation as well.


likely it's this

http://icanhascheezburger.files.wordpress.com/2007/04/wrong-mike.jpg

Stimulate your clitoris while having sex...?

Naw, try BDSM!

Stimulate you clitoris with BDSM!

its not really the physical feel. Its the thought of (im guessing ur a girl) having a mans naked PENIS in your naked VAGINA while your both NAKED with your private places touching....

thats a weird way to put it, but it somes up whats supposed to get you off.

It's weird how when you mean 'I dont care' you say 'We dont care'. perhaps you should speak for yourself not the rest of totse?

He said "We're not having sex with you."

I don't think I'm having sex with her, so as far as I know, he's right.

And he was hinting that it's whoever's fucking her's fault, not ours. Which is helpful.

If it doesn't feel good, why the hell are you doing it?

There is no point to it, unless you just like making everyone else you're fucking happy. And I doubt they're having much fun either if you aren't even enjoying it at all.

Stop having sex!!! Wouldn't you feel smart getting pregnant, when you're not even enjoying the sex?

how can u possibly seem more pissed off than she is...¬_¬

how can u possibly seem more pissed off than she is...¬_¬

I'm not in a good mood right now, and how are we supposed to solve her problem for her? Google works wonders.

I'm not in a good mood right now, and how are we supposed to solve her problem for her? Google works wonders.

in vices, s&a should just be a link to google. Hey your from maine... do you live in bangor by any chance... just out of interest (for an obvious reason)

in vices, s&a should just be a link to google. Hey your from maine... do you live in bangor by any chance... just out of interest (for an obvious reason)

I agree. I do understand the threads asking if others have similar problems, but when they're asking WHY they have this problem....

I'm actually from the far southern end of the state, almost in New Hampshire.

maybe you're a-sexual

but seriously, if you can get of on clitoral stimulation then that means, when you want to get off, have your boyfriend go down on you (orally) and tell hime to suck the hell out of you clit.